Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

When i has sex with my gf, she was feeling uncousciousness. what should i do in that case.. she was not able to speak also...

2007-08-29 00:58:50 · 6 answers · asked by Nikol teddy 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 10yrs now, wants to get married next summer. We have 3 kids together a 3month old, 1 yr old and 5 yrs old. As stressful as that is, Ive been trying to pull away from the whole thing. I feel bad tho because I know he really wants it. Seeing so many ppl getting married, Ive seen how stressful it can be. Raising 3 kids is stressful enough. Can you help me with some advise on cheap and less stress wedding

2007-08-29 00:57:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

This is a really serious problem, I have been with my bf for 6 years. From the time I was 16 and for him from the tim he was 17. We studied in the same college and we were really close. Now that we have started working I feel he has no time for me, He is always just to busy for me. Work is his no. 1 priority. Whenever I tell him how I feel,he just tells me that the only thing I know to do is complain.I dnt know what to do anymore. Talking doesnt help. I love him with all my heart, and I wanted him to be the 1 i spend my life with. I would do anything for him,and he knows that.

My question is " M i wasting my time with him ?"
He promises that he would change, and he doesnt ever. I tell him how i feel all the time, but he doesnt. Im afraid of leaving him

Advice please, tips on how to ignore him.

PS I dnt really have friends,and he is like my best friend

2007-08-29 00:48:49 · 24 answers · asked by Zeta 2 in Singles & Dating

Are guys really intersted in what clothes you wear?
An when a guy sais do you wear any make up, is it a compliment or a hint?
I do wear make up, i just wear it naturally?

2007-08-29 00:47:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would love my fiances sister to be my bridesmaid and my two younger sisters...but I don't really want my cousin to be one. She's mega critical of EVERYTHING and before we were engaged she even critisised my choice of stationery.

She's my age and we've grown up together and it's kind of a given that she'd be my bridesmaid...to be fair, when we were getting on, I was like, 'you're obviously gonna be my bridesmaid'...but I just want sisters... :( Do I just grin and bear it or do I risk upsetting her? Could I ask her to be involved in something else instead of bridesmaid duties?

2007-08-29 00:37:13 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs Stevo 2 in Weddings

2007-08-29 00:36:07 · 6 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3 in Singles & Dating

I have four bridesmaids, my two younger sisters, my cousin (21 yrs old, who's training to be a nurse at the moment so a student) and my fiance's sister (29 yrs old, who's just bought a new flat)

Bridesmaid dresses are £70 each.

I'm fully prepared to buy my sisters dresses as they're only 17 & 14 but do I have to buy the others dresses? I can't really afford it but could probably afford it more than my fiances sister!

What do I do!?

2007-08-29 00:34:06 · 22 answers · asked by Mrs Stevo 2 in Weddings

I have been in a relationship with a strong Christian for 3 months. She has just decided that it can't work.

Why would you let that happen in the first place? I have enjoyed every second with her and have enjoyed learning about her faith. I just can't understand why we can't be together when our love for each other is so strong. Shes hurting as much as me, but claims she has no choice. Everyone has a choice in my opnion. I can't bare to think that my chance of happiness is being taken away. I might except faith at some point, but I just don't know. I've never met anyone like her, but can't just pretend to be a believer when it would be a lie.

Canm anyone help or provide guidance. (You can probably tell im not too good at the moment and very worried, but totally in love)

2007-08-29 00:28:22 · 18 answers · asked by craig l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 00:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by Mrs Stevo 2 in Weddings

my ex bf allways accused me of cheating on him with guys i spoke to on the internet. the gus i speak to are friends from work and people i met on holiday 2 years before i met him. we just chat and say hi to each other on msn its nothing other than casual chat.

we split up nearly 3 weeks ago because he was insecur and made my life hell. he split up with me and told me it was because he didnt trust me. he called me nasty names and was really nasty to me.

since we split i found out he was the 1 who was cheating with his ex gf and he was meeting her when i was staying at my mums in the week. i dont now how long its been going on for because he is still denying it but it was his neighbor who told me when he saw that i was crying when i was waiting for my taxi.

what i am trying to ask is do all people who accuse you of cheating cheat themselvs?

2007-08-29 00:27:46 · 27 answers · asked by Emma L 1 in Singles & Dating

So my gf likes sex....a lot. And she likes to salsa and waltz a lot. And she likes Bubble gum almost as much, Just a coincidence? A few days ago I was in our room, looking at her new shoes, they were pink. The next day, she was singing a song by Matchbook Romance, But then stopped when she looked out the window. Today she drank whole milk, apple juice, and Coke. When she went shopping she brung home 3 oranges. I know creepy, but it gets deeper. 5+5=10 10 is the day she was born she has 5 count them 5 uncles and 5 aunts, when she dances she counts 4 count them 4 beats, 6+3=9 9 is the month in which we ment 6 is the number of months we've been together -2 1+1=2 2+6= 8 the number of months we've been a couple now all of that isnt a coincidence because 5+5+10+6+3+9+-2+1+1+2+2+6+8=55... the first sequence was 5+5. So I Think my gf might be a alien, should I hit her with a shovel, or call the FFA? ......(Continuation of the title) And the world

2007-08-29 00:27:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother in-law is mean and selfish to both me and my wife. I have never said anything to my parents. They live so far away and we see each other only once a year. So when they ask I always say she is ok and leave it at that. My mom is here for a visit and my mother in law is mad at us for stupid things again and is giving us the silent treatment. She does not call or come over and she does not live far. My mom asked what is our relationship with her because she finds it odd that she is retired and not more involved in out daughter’s life. I side stepped the question and did not answer ( I did no lie just avoided) Now the Labor Day holiday is coming and she will really see the difference. We always have something really small like four or five friends over this is for every holiday. Her mother never comes for one reason or another she did not come for Christmas one year. My mom will ask again should i reveal all the awful things she does or keep it to myself

2007-08-29 00:25:24 · 13 answers · asked by Big Daddy R 7 in Family

Your husband's socks around the house, urine on the toilet, empty pop bottles left on the table?? Is it possible to be married and not live together because I have be thinking about it??? Tired of having to ask him to clean behind himself

2007-08-29 00:22:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am in the finals for DAV debating, D grade and this is the topic. i am affirmative.
does any one have any suggestions on points my team can argue, we need at least 4 good points.
thank you

2007-08-29 00:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by bianca 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright there is this girl from my work who I really like, we have known each other since last year, she seems to like me she talks to me a lot and says hi to me all the time and smiles at me. she also seems to trust me because she has told me things that I'm sure I'm the only one from work that knows this( she told me not to tell the stuff she told me to anybody else.) She is such a nice person and i love being around her, and mostly just talking to her. The problem is that she is leaving, soon and i want to tell her i like her before it's too late. I don't want to be wondering what if i had told her would we be toegther... what if what if. At the same time i wonder if i tell her it will affect our friendship, i don't want to be wondering what if i didn't tell her would we still be friends? She already has a boyfriend two of my co-workers/friends know that i like her because i told them but they said they would have no idea if i hadn't had told them. what should i do?

2007-08-29 00:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother always clls me gay and things but if i hit him i get in trouble. he always annoys me, so what can i do to get him back, but without anyone knowing it was me

2007-08-29 00:20:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My 13 years old sone hates school , even though his 13 but still in forth grad , praimary stage . He faild 2 years , and he never ever study or open a book at home. In my country it is very important for a man to have degree. please some one tell what to do.

2007-08-29 00:13:40 · 17 answers · asked by mouniraanis 1 in Family

2007-08-29 00:09:15 · 23 answers · asked by Crazy in Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a 59 year old man proposed me!
i think of him as a father figure!
but how do i tell?
oh! i had once slept with his son-in-law. (b4 he got married to his daughter, she is now 27 years old!).
i m only 23. how do i tell him

2007-08-29 00:08:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i've been seeing this guy and i feel it's time i slept with him. i am still virgin, while he's started his sex life for quite a while. i talked to mom and she says i should do it with condom, for protection against STDs, but i want to do it without, because it seems much sexier. what should i do? should i ask him to do his tests before sleeping with him? because it seems pointless to do it for a while with condom and give up using it .

2007-08-29 00:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by lilith 2 in Singles & Dating

wondering what to eat

2007-08-29 00:08:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm with a chick who's GREAT. I mean, seriously great -- In 6months not a single argument, she's a nympho&we have great chemistry, we have the same attitudes about everything, our friends get along -- perfect in every regard.

But whenever I'm not around her I spend a considerable amount of time weighing my options -- whether I should dump her and find someone hotter -- she doesn't have the best body in the world.

I'm generally not a shallow person, I was just wondering -- can anyone relate?

And please no a-hole moralizing 'you're so shallow' bla bla -- I've been with her for 6months so if I was so shallow why would I have started going out with her if it wasn't for her amazing personality?

Is this normal, or am I not listening to myself -- that I'm not attracted enough to her?

2007-08-29 00:04:50 · 4 answers · asked by Mr Anon 2 in Singles & Dating

What going on?

2007-08-29 00:01:32 · 12 answers · asked by Tony Peters 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 00:01:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating