Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

My coworker was too shy to come her so I told her I'd ask this for her. Her 2 children, daughter 13 and son 11, have a conflict over the issue of friends. The son is kind of shy and sometimes has trouble making friends, while the daughter is more outgoing and finds making friends easy. For the past few years when the son has made a friend, the daughter will often get involved and the son's friend will push him aside to be friends with the daughter. It usually happens when he has the friend at the house, and she finds common ground between them in different areas than the son, so they push him aside. It really hurts him when this happens, and he won't bring friends over unless the daughter isn't home. My coworker is worried because she wants to know who his friends are. She wants to intervene somehow but doesn't know how, while her husband thinks they should sort it out between themselves. What is a good way to handle this?

2007-08-29 06:02:47 · 10 answers · asked by dapriz6 2 in Family

well im goin iceskatin with my boyfriend this week. how can i make him hold me tight?? or put his arm around me??

2007-08-29 06:02:43 · 13 answers · asked by martha s 2 in Singles & Dating

I have friends, some r married & some have girfriends. Most of them r always looking at other women with keen interest & they say 'What a hottie'. They fantasize about them. For them it is a normal thing. They r even ready to have a Fling with other women.
They see celebrities on TV or Cinema & they like to see them nude & they enjoy watching them.
Some say they r in true love with their partners, then why do they look at other women & fantasize about them.
Do Married women & those having boyfriend do the same?

2007-08-29 05:57:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i love my boyfriend to death me and him have been really romantic by the words we say to each other. but what other things could I tell him that he would really like. I need a guys adivce!!! what do you guys like to hear?? free points

2007-08-29 05:54:04 · 25 answers · asked by martha s 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you broach the topic with your partner? Say, you've been together for a while, and you are just now comfortable experimenting in the bedroom. I am not into the hardcore stuff, but a little light bondage (blindfolds, silk scarves, etc.) and a little (non-intensive) discipline is HOT to me.

How do I bring this up? I am comfortable talking about it with him, I just don't know when is an appropriate time to have that conversation. Or how to have that conversation.

2007-08-29 05:53:45 · 13 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Singles & Dating

The shower will have approximately sixty guests and although not formal, it will be a sit down meal. The bride refuses to have games but does realize that for such a large venue and group size, there has to be something going on the entertain. She attended another shower that showcased a fashion show. Although that is not reflective of her personality, she would like me to come up with something unique and memorable like this. Any suggestions are welcome! The location is a hall but also a gallery, if that helps spark any ideas.

2007-08-29 05:50:34 · 8 answers · asked by jen 1 in Weddings

I mliving with someone for yr now & he seems to be a million miles away lately. I am a mom of 2 and have also taken on his 2 boys & recently agreed they could move in with us 2. I am the "good girl" home everynight do the house, dinner, take care of everybody thing & consider myself a very attractive person. I cater to him as much as I can but when he went to get their things to bring them back to our home he dissapeared for a few days & came back without them. His ex & family said he has always been like this & did it to them 2 for yrs. He has lately not been working but tells me things will get better but I cant see past the hurt right now of him not doing right by me or the kids. He says he doesnt want to break up and he knows how to fix it but just wont. I feel as if I am being dragged. If you had someone at home to do all these things for you wouldn't you be inclined to treat them better? I do love him and want to try to see him through whatever this is hes dealing with but how

2007-08-29 05:48:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We were having a chat after sex, and he was about to correct me on my 'oral' technique, but quickly bit his tongue....

which is a bit strange, because he's never gone down on me ever!....

???

2007-08-29 05:45:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So when we first moved in togther we were chill, we went to movies and clubbing whith her freinds and mine and we talked and watched TV. Then we had sex it it was like my dream relationsip, a very attractive girl who would have sex wiht me but also go to a hockey game with me, no emotional baggagre. Well about 2 months later she set up a "romantic dinner" and ad like love songs playin in the backround. We ate dinner but then I got called to the hospital where I work and we were cut short. I know she wants to go farther than FWB

I guess myy question i, I kinda of like her mre tan a friend but i was realy happy with my old situation and Im not ready for a real relationship at this point in my ife. I cant move out but I dont know what do do!!

2007-08-29 05:39:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 05:35:53 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter and granddaughter has moved in and she doesnt take care of my grandchild( my only piece of heaven) my teenage son is out of control and actually i had to contact defax to learn what i should do & they tell me to leave the home and my husband want work in a pie factory. What can i do? I have a full time job and i cant support everybody on what i make. i ask my daughter for $15.00 a week and she won't even do that. my husband told me i knew how he was and learn to live with it.

2007-08-29 05:35:04 · 17 answers · asked by twisty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

no more sexy texts no more compliments, i am to see her tonight and she just called and said she is on her period and asked if im mad, i said no we can do other things and that doesnt matter.its been two weeks almost since i have seen her a little release would be nice , How should I approach it.

2007-08-29 05:33:46 · 3 answers · asked by be real 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 05:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know he loves me and he would never cheat on me, but I can't help being gelous when I see girls hiting on him. and he's not hiding that or anything, it's right on his myspace account. he chats with girls sometimes, he even met a few for a cup of coffee. I know it's just innocent flirting, they don't kiss or anything and he does tell them about me, but do I have the right to tell him to stop that? or should I just control my gelousy?

2007-08-29 05:30:08 · 15 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

for brother/sister?
for child?
extended family?
close friend?
just a friend or colleague?

2007-08-29 05:28:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Whats more important?

To me sex is.

Love gets you no where.

2007-08-29 05:27:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well the fact is that i am toatally addicted to sexual contact if its not one guy its two in one night i dont think i can stop right now as im asking for help well i just got out of the bathroom at school ..I NEED HELP

2007-08-29 05:27:33 · 3 answers · asked by Tiffany F 2 in Singles & Dating

how would you feel if your wife left you little love notes in your car and stuff? Would it embarrass you, or would it make you feel good? What do you think?

2007-08-29 05:26:05 · 16 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am so depreesed in this life of mine, ive been through alot since family problems, dad having affair and leaving me my sister and my mum alone for 8 months and know i live with my dad i always feel sad and want to go back to my country beacuse i really miss my family and i cant take anymore.

2007-08-29 05:25:44 · 1 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family

I have/had a crush on a guy at work. The thing is we used be close friends and I started liking him as more than a friend and I told hm . I got the since that he liked me too since he always flirted with me and cracked jokes, etc. But, he has a gf in the Phillipines whom he is engaged 2 since I helped him get the ring for her. He only gets to go back there once every 2 years and I think we started experiencing sexual tension since we had a convo about doing it. I called him a dog since I thought he was comin on to me but then he denied he was serious bout it and said he was kidding. Iwrote a letter apologizing to him but then he started ignoring me. He said I should focus on someone else and it's best that we no longer be friends since I was 2 weird & obsessive bout him. I emailed him saying that we were both wrong for talking about sex, he blamed me for being weird. i got mad and told him not to b my friend. He said not email/talk 2 him unless work relatd. we're ignoring each other.

2007-08-29 05:25:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 05:24:31 · 18 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

after youve seen eachover a couple times and the guy kisses her on the cheek or takes her hand and massages it? when is the connection, the mark to let the other person know you have feelings for them. what ignites that connection? do you express it through words or non sexual intimacy?

what are your experiences, thoughts?

2007-08-29 05:24:23 · 6 answers · asked by mecicoplajjer 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm not the jealous type. The short of it is this guy and my gf have been good friends since before I knew either one of them, though HE has been dating the same girl since before he knew my gf (all can be confusing, I know), so I never felt weird about it. Since meeting my gf, me and this guy have actually become pretty good friends, so I extended him the benefit of the doubt with regards to my gf, that they were '
"just friends". Look, I'm a guy. I know what a guy in a "just friends" situation might be thinking.

Anyways, yesterday he sent a couple of texts to my gf that I wish he hadn't (not about his eternal love for her or anything, but some stuff I didn't appreciate). I responded to one of them after she told me what he had said, but I still need to make it clear it better not keep happening. I have to rely on my words, I'm afraid, because he's probably got 80 pounds on me and he isn't fat.

What could I say, as a friend but also as a bf first?

2007-08-29 05:23:55 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I was informed of one wedding 2 years ago - it is a destination wedding, so they wanted to make sure everyone had time to save up to go to it. The second wedding is on the same day, and in a different state. I am good friends with both grooms-to-be. I knew of the destination wedding way before the second one that is out of state, but to add complications, my boyfriend is in the second wedding. What is wedding etiquette on this?

2007-08-29 05:23:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have asked several questions in the past about this topic and, found that it only plays a small part but, am curious to know how others feel about it.

2007-08-29 05:22:01 · 30 answers · asked by massgolfer0606 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my exbf and I went out 2 yrs ago,we werent on speaking terms but i recently contact him to hang out b4 leaving for college. He agreed and we met up, hung out and kissed at the end of the night (that was our first kiss together) . A week later he left for college but kept in touch; calling me, texting me saying he misses me and wants to kiss me..etc. Well, when he came down from college he asked to see me, I agreed. But I had seen pictures of him and his "ex" girlfriend (he had told me they were broken up and werent really speaking to eachother) rather affectionate on the girl's FACEBOOK. This made me suspicious so I brought a camara with me and met up with him. We made out a lot and he was very affectionate and rather lustful with me..he said things like "things couldve been diff. btw. us" "you are soo good looking" "you are a cool chick to hang out with" and said wow a lot and kissed me alot. At the end, I took out my camara and asked him to pose with me. Well guess what? He hid his

2007-08-29 05:20:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Josh is my cousin and Nikki is his CRUSH but she has a bf. Why does he still love her?!

2007-08-29 05:19:53 · 9 answers · asked by xxgerdyxxwillsxx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got a call today from David's Bridal. The bridesmaids dress style my future step daughter picked out for our wedding in April 2008 is being discontinued. So, in order to get the dress she wants, I need to order it soon, before they stop producing it. (On the positive side, it will be cheaper now)

My question is: she is 13 and is going through puberty. I've never had a teen daughter before and I have no clue how many sizes larger I should order, to be safely sure that the dress will still fit in April. I'm aware alterations will need done no matter what...but I also know it is easier to go smaller than to have a too-tight dress let out...

Any women who have daughters this age? I need some intelligent, adult advice.

2007-08-29 05:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by Kat 5 in Weddings

I was out to dinner with a group of friends and there husbands. I excused myself to the ladies room, when I came out of the ladies room. My friend husband was standing there and pushed me back into the ladies room throw me up against the wall and KISSED ME.. I pushed him away and he told me he has wanted to do that for the past year and He can’t stop thinking about me. Her husband is good-looking man, but I would never do anything like that to her. I was in SHOCK. When I got back at the table he kept staring at me.

She has already told us in private that she cant stand other women staring at her husband. She knows he good-looking, but have some respect for her at least. I don’t want to tell my friend. I known her from High School I don’t want to lose our friendship.

2007-08-29 05:18:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its so annoying to me.

Do couple's in general annoy you when they express their love in front of you?

I hate it it's like rubbing it in your face.

I never had a girlfriend and I'm already 20 and I have to see other younger and older people in love?

That's so annoying they should "get a room" like some people say no one needs to see that crap.

What about you does it annoy you as much as it annoy's me?

2007-08-29 05:16:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating