I know he loves me and he would never cheat on me, but I can't help being gelous when I see girls hiting on him. and he's not hiding that or anything, it's right on his myspace account. he chats with girls sometimes, he even met a few for a cup of coffee. I know it's just innocent flirting, they don't kiss or anything and he does tell them about me, but do I have the right to tell him to stop that? or should I just control my gelousy?
2007-08-29 05:30:08 · 15 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1ST learn how to spell jealous!
tell him it hurts your feelings
but make sure you tell him that you know he would never cheat on you!!!
2007-08-29 05:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should blow a gasket over him talking to other woman, but it's totally ok to let him know that it kinda bothers you that he flirts with other woman. Tell him that if he wants to hang with other woman that's cool, but that you would like to be included in that as well. In his eyes you will be a better girlfriend if you draw some boundaries between you two and still let him be himself. It will take a bit of patience on your part. But if you can keep it together, he will love you for it, and it will be a non issue. Hope this helps.
-Ty
2007-08-29 12:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's minor flirting online then it might be okay. but if he's meeting some of these girls then i'd consider it beyond flirting. he's testing your limits. if you keep staying quiet and letting him do whatever he wants with these girls then you guys aren't gonna last long unless u wanna stay with a guy that cheats on you. i'm the kind the believes cheating isn't only physical. he hasn't been faithful to you mentally and emotionally if he's been flirting and meeting all these different girls.
2007-08-29 12:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by jmiller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meeting girls from MySpace is WAY more than innocent flirting. I would be concerned
2007-08-29 12:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's meeting them for coffee that is a little much. it feels like he thinks he can be like this because he believes you're not gonna go anywhere. don't be as available to him. start living your life for you and find what makes you happy. we all flirt, but to do it in front of you is not a good sign.
2007-08-29 12:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by plastik punk -Bottom Contributor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know anything if you're not there. There is no reason for your boyfriend to be meeting other women for coffee, tea or anything. You seem gullible and he knows that and that is why he is doing it. You need to put your foot down, if you even know how to do that.
2007-08-29 12:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by KSR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop! if he doesnt, break up with him! no girl deserves a cheating boyfriend, even if its just innocent flirting. good luck!
2007-08-29 12:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you need to tell him that if he likes haning out with other girls so much that he can live without you! Remember YOUR the girl in his life...now do remember that its not wrong to hang out with girls, it's "bad" when he goes out w/ them and flirts with them. Is he really comitted to you?
2007-08-29 12:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id ask him why don't you ever come to me and say im meeting a girl online. If he doesnt tell you then it means that he doesnt respect you. I'd call him out on that...
2007-08-29 12:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Balrog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh...
Some people are just flirty.
I flirt all the time and I don't even know I'm doing it until someone tells me.
2007-08-29 12:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Starieberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he talks to other girls and doesn't include your name and saying he likes u then u should do the same or leave him.
2007-08-29 12:36:48 · answer #11 · answered by truth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋