Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

....and if you could choose, what would you be??

I am the youngest child, with an older sister. I wouldn't like to be an only child as I would get lonely and would probably get too attached to my parents. I would like to be a middle child, with older and younger sibling/s. I love learning from my older sister but I would also like to teach and assist a younger sibling :)

What about you ??

2007-08-29 02:40:18 · 33 answers · asked by ♥ уσυ вєℓσηg ωιтн мє ♥ 7 in Family

they all complain men are liars and cheater, when women are the worst offenders...i dont get it, if u don't want guys to lie, then don't spend your lives constantly lying to men...and i know this for a fact.....so why complain, then do it yourselves??? please explain?

2007-08-29 02:38:14 · 26 answers · asked by Marcelito 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 16 and my bf will be turning 16 in about a month n im really stumped in wat 2 get him we hav been goin out on n off for about 2 years n were really close but idk i wana get him something special that he will like.. he plays baseball 24/7 n the drums and he is a very big mets fan...
anyy ideass???

2007-08-29 02:37:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you are married but seperated is it classed as cheating if you are with someone else before you get a devorce

2007-08-29 02:35:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you heard of this phrase? I think I got it right. I was going to add it to my messenger status. I had it there before but since I had to redownload messenger I lost the phrase.

What do you think of this phrase, this is my favorite I can agree on this one because I am living it. I was married to a moron, but still loved him I fell out of love and divorced him. I met a wonderful man, probably my soul mate, I love him so much, and it doesnt compare to the way I loved my ex.

Do you have any other phrases that compare to your life, or that are inspirational?

2007-08-29 02:33:53 · 6 answers · asked by LadyRaven 3 in Singles & Dating

is there a problem with being friends with your ex? any things that should be avoided? he is adopted does that play a role in being friends with him? someone please help....

2007-08-29 02:31:36 · 9 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

You know before there was responsibilities and hurts...
Just want a time in my life where there is FUN .

2007-08-29 02:31:27 · 9 answers · asked by Kelli T 1 in Singles & Dating

what do i do we were seoerated when i got home from iraq for 4 months and we got back together she found out i slept with 2 women but we were seperated now four months later i went to korea and a week into it she tells me she slept with a nother man but jus to get back at me shu i forgiv and forget

2007-08-29 02:25:12 · 22 answers · asked by Alexander H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been saving for over two years for a laptop. Finally I bought one about a month ago.
Do my parents have the right to tell me I can't have full control over something I purchased?
Or say I can't use it for a week?
Is there like some issue with that?
Because I have it and I can not use it regularly because I can't update my iPod, play a game, or go on myspace.

All together...
Do my parents have the right to tell me I can't use what I bought?
And can't I use it whenever for whatever I want?

2007-08-29 02:25:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it because it is a sign of insecurity?

2007-08-29 02:24:59 · 21 answers · asked by posttk421 3 in Singles & Dating

After all the reading I have done on this board I feel more insecure about my marriage that I ever have. Is it just me or do some others feel that way? Especially after reading about all the affairs that are going on.

2007-08-29 02:20:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 02:17:08 · 26 answers · asked by * 6 in Singles & Dating

I am Catholic and he is Jewish so could we do both??

2007-08-29 02:15:47 · 13 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

my boy and i have been best friends for about year or so. recently, we started going out after i broke up with my boyfriend (now ex-bf) and him confessing his feelings for me.

We're about a month into our relationship now after going on 6/7 dates or so and last night he asked me if i wanted to sleep together while we were making out. I hesitated and said no because i didn't think i was ready to move forward and commit especially the fact that i was still hurt from my last relationship and wanted to take things slowly to make sure everything's right this time around.

i don't know what to do now/how to face him. He said it's okay if you don't want to [make love] and he doesn't want to pressure me into doing anything i don't want to do. He loves me dearly and cherishes me and in our social circle, we're publicly known as a couple. I don't know what to do now and how to talk to him about this issue and i really don't want to lose him. What should i do?

2007-08-29 02:15:43 · 24 answers · asked by bluemoon_743 1 in Singles & Dating

Do I ask a friend that was so depressed when she heard the news she couldn't call me and ask me how it happened like everyone else did, do I ask a friend that a traveled with but have not really been close with anymore, or do I ask someone that lives far away but is a really good friend, but I want her and her boyfriend to come to the wedding and enjoy not be in the wedding.?????

2007-08-29 02:14:57 · 16 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

2007-08-29 02:06:27 · 51 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Weddings

My budget is around £40. He likes sports of all kinds particularly football. I'd like a 'memorable' keepsake. Any bizarre suggestions?

2007-08-29 02:03:38 · 11 answers · asked by JOHN W 1 in Family

Whenever I tell her that we should stop using AC, unplug the comp during the day, or do anything, she just says, 'well, hon, believe it or not we are doing much more than the average american to save the environment. We recycle, we live in a small house...' Then she peters off. She just won't listen.

2007-08-29 02:02:56 · 9 answers · asked by Dinosaur 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How long did it take? Mine is uncontested with two kids(I didn't even seek child support cuz I know the sorry bastard won't pay and has no job) and no property I filed in May and it is now August and this freakin attorney won't set a court date. The spouse has not responded to anything therefore he has forfeited by default. All she has to do is set a date so that I can sign the papers and she has not. I am very polite and professional with her. How can I proceed to make her set a phucking date arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggghhh! I'm frustrated and can't sleep at night because I have done everything asked as far as obtaining the needed info. So it's up to her and she is not doing her gottdamn job.

2007-08-29 02:01:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really need more guy time. How can I get my wife to let me go out with friends, to a bar or whatever? We always go together. But, I'd like to leave her home with the kids and go out drinking once in awhile. She freaks every time I bring it up. Oh-I married into kids, so I figure, that once a month or something I should be able to. I mean-guys do that to their wives when they are their own kids, right? Geez. Only once in awhile, not every other day. But how? Also-Lately I've been telling her I'm running errands or whatever just to get in a game of pool once a week...it's really sad.

2007-08-29 02:01:07 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 01:59:28 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

2007-08-29 01:50:30 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 01:49:43 · 6 answers · asked by Marianna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfreinds ex is crazy. they broke up over 2 years ago and shes having a baby with someone else yet she still wont leave us alone she sends me about 5 emails a day. she doesnt stop calling weve changed our number so many times, but because she is friends with some of our friends she still finds ways to getting the new numbers.
shes forever causeing trouble for us with our families and friends all the time and its making everyone fight with everyone else.
ive thought about leaving my boy but i love him so much and dont want to give her the plesure of giving her exactly what she wants. weve even called the police about it, but all they ever say to do is to make copys of the emails that she sends me and tell them about it they dont offer any solutions what so ever....
...please help!!!!

2007-08-29 01:48:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want a new look, new style-- I think my hair looks cute short although I am getting married on October 19th-- are there any cute wedding styles I can do with short hair or should I wait until after the wedding to cut it off????

2007-08-29 01:46:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay I will try not to make this long. My mother abandoned my brother and sister and I when I was 7, brother 4 and sister 2 1/2 years old. My sister is epileptic. She abandoned us in a apartment for a week with no food. When the weekend arrived my father showed up to pick up (visitation). We were told not to open the door for no one. We survived off cold hot dogs, no gas to cook just an electric skillet. We had kool-aid to drink with little sugar. Long story short, my little sister drank finger-nail polish remover and started having a seizure. During that time 911 was not available, you would have to dial 0 and speak with an operator. Long story short, I learned how to help my sister when she would have a seizure. Okay now, my father shows up, we would not open the door so he called the police. I later remember sitting at this office were social workers were questioning us. We later ended up with our dad and his girlfriend with whom we hated. They later married and were

2007-08-29 01:45:48 · 21 answers · asked by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 in Family

I am geting married at 6:00 pm and to save time after the wedding , we would like to take our picture before the weddding to save time after that way we can go right into the reception.

2007-08-29 01:43:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 01:39:57 · 7 answers · asked by marife 1 in Weddings

2007-08-29 01:36:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for about 10 years, and my husband was my first. But over the years, the desire to love him has diminished. I am not attracted to him, I find him, at times, repugnant. I love him, he is a wonderful father and a wonderful person. I told him how I felt, and he insist that we work on our marriage, I cheated and he forgave me. I do not want to be with him and i do not want to continue abusing him. How can I make him understand that he deserves better?

2007-08-29 01:16:07 · 28 answers · asked by loveanonymity 2 in Marriage & Divorce