my boyfreinds ex is crazy. they broke up over 2 years ago and shes having a baby with someone else yet she still wont leave us alone she sends me about 5 emails a day. she doesnt stop calling weve changed our number so many times, but because she is friends with some of our friends she still finds ways to getting the new numbers.
shes forever causeing trouble for us with our families and friends all the time and its making everyone fight with everyone else.
ive thought about leaving my boy but i love him so much and dont want to give her the plesure of giving her exactly what she wants. weve even called the police about it, but all they ever say to do is to make copys of the emails that she sends me and tell them about it they dont offer any solutions what so ever....
...please help!!!!
2007-08-29 01:48:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your problem is somewhat similar to my daughters. She started dating a African American Baxter about a year ago, had his child two months ago and his ex-wife from New Mexico (Karen) was giving my daughter (Robin) problems every day. Robin had to get help from the police and finally even an attorney to get a restraining order against Karen. It worked for awhile and now she is planning on moving back to New Mexico. I hope that the ordeal will be over because it has caused many hardships for my daughter and Baxter. Karen would call his cell phone and her cell phone constantly looking for him even at 3 am in the morning. To be honest, the attorney was the real savior, once they got involved, the police and prosecutor paid attention.
I wish you best of luck, hope it doesn't turn out as bad as it was for our family.
Edna
Ohio
2007-08-29 02:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by edna_romano_1943 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go to the court house and file an exparte against this woman. Continue taking copies of all the emails and constantly take them to your local police station and show them and keep on reporting this every single time this happens. I would also go as far as reporting her to child services since she is pregnant and tell them what is going on because you are all concerned with the saftey of her child that she has some mental issues and that they need to watch her or possibly investegate her situation to help her.
2007-08-29 02:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you contact the police and report the harassment.
you can go to court and file a NCO (no contact order) which would theoretically end her ability to contact you in any way.
if she contacts you that would be a violation and you call the police again to report the violation.
use the non emergency # for your police, 7 digit, not 911 to report it.
everyone that has a problem with her should make separate reports so the police see how serious the problem is.
2007-08-29 01:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by nataliexoxo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋