Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

Both my parents are deceased, leaving only my stepmother who has not been on speaking terms with me for almost a year. I saw her at a family gathering and she is still the spiteful woman I always knew. She assumed my fiance has no job and bought my own ring, to the point she told my uncles this. I feel inviting her is asking for trouble, however not inviting her might prove another problem as I do not want to hurt anyone or be questioned as to where she is that day. Long story short, she has not wanted my father's children. She has not treated us well and we are at the point that we decided we do not need to be in contact with her. Honestly, my life's been better this way. Is it proper to invite her? I'd plan on not sitting her at the family table. She also does not respect my deceased mother - oh the drama she's caused if I only had more room to explain. Does she have to be invited in the sense of ettiquette? Please help.

2007-08-29 09:38:44 · 29 answers · asked by Just Me 7 in Weddings

I came home last night to find my companion masturbating to pornography! We have been together (exclusively) for 7 years now, and this is the FIRST time this has ever happened (that I know about).
What strikes a nerve the most is the fact that he denied it. I tend to believe him blindly, but as I was online I stumbled across some disturbing websites.
He denied it, leading me to believe he KNOWS he was doing something wrong and while doing it he KNEW I would be hurt/upset by finding out, since he lied, lied, and lied by trying to hide it.
We suffer from a healthy sex life from the beginning, you see I want to make love just about ALL the time, and he for some reason can conform himself with once a month. In fact asking him for sex, or trying to get him aroused is a task in itself (he'd rather sleep). It would be easier and faster to wait for rain in the middle of a drought.
My friends say "Cheating is doing something u suspect or know would make ur partner uncomfortable."
???

2007-08-29 09:35:49 · 76 answers · asked by K@mi! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Believe me, i do put him 1st most of the time. I cooked, cleaned, kept myself up and attractive, did the majority of the work around the house, carried the family health insurance, etc..., and I did NOT with hold sex from him. I just didn't want it as often as he did. I have also tried all the things he has asked me to do as far as sexy clothes, etc... I was also molested by my own brother as a teenager, and I had a hysterectomy at 35, and I am on multiple meds for fibromyalgia, and thyroid problems. I don't think he takes any of this in to consideration. I just don't know anymore. My gut feeling, is that he just wants to get rid of me, and find someone new. Like he's outgrown me or something. So confused......

2007-08-29 09:32:51 · 20 answers · asked by CSmom 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I know he might have several other FWB's but we are always protected. Last night he asked me if he was the only one f***ing me. I told him yes.... and asked why hes asking... He told me that he wanted to be the only one f***ing me...Why, if we are only FWB would he want to be the only one?? Shouldnt there be no strings attached?

2007-08-29 09:28:55 · 17 answers · asked by queenofpop 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 09:27:00 · 29 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me and my three children. We have been married 13yrs and this is all I ever known. Each time I start to move on I am pulled back by him saying he doesn't want a divorce and I feel like I am on an emontional rollercoaster. I am very depressed and anger because I feel there is no closure to this. Please help me

2007-08-29 09:25:46 · 17 answers · asked by danaispeace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 09:20:18 · 7 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am going to move out of my hometown in a couple of months, but to be honest i am a little scared. i am very shy and dont know how to go about meeting new people . i dont know where to go or what to say. plus i feel a little weird going places on my own (bars, clubs...)i dont want to look or come off desperate, but i just dont know how to come out of my shell. any suggestions...

2007-08-29 09:18:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since they always bit(h about shallowness but then try to get with a skinny girl.

2007-08-29 09:17:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She says that I toss and turn all night and keep her awake. She says she sleeps so much better without me there. I am a restless sleeper, but I don't want our relationship to suffer because we don't actually go to sleep together. Do I have anything to worry about.

2007-08-29 09:16:38 · 40 answers · asked by I wanna talk to Samson 3 in Marriage & Divorce

"now i feel like f**king your boyfriend so you can taste my pu**y. She's a fat tramp with four kids and works as a waitress. she always teases me about my gas station job to and she doesnt know im there only grave cause i go to school and stuff. thats all i know about her and she's 28 years old. please help me think of something to say back at her.

2007-08-29 09:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by tinkerbell88 2 in Singles & Dating

i work at a Med Spa...my cousin also works there...at work we have been missing some very expensive products....it is my job to keep inventory. I felt suspicious of my cousin because she had done that kind of theing before...so today i went by her house and the items were there in her bathroom.... I feel torn because this is my cousin....and this is also the best job i've ever had , the owner is very good to all of us.

2007-08-29 09:13:51 · 6 answers · asked by janetmead2000 2 in Family

and also what does it mean when you dream your boyfriend is cheating on you? real answers please!

2007-08-29 09:10:26 · 4 answers · asked by tinkerbell88 2 in Singles & Dating

so, guy meets girl online and they chat and after a while they become intrested in each other. do u think that it can evolve into a real love/some other feelings.. or u dont believe that it can ever become anything real and is nothing than just a stupid chat

2007-08-29 09:10:19 · 7 answers · asked by woop woop 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend asked me if i liked this guy and i said sure and she is going to ask him out for me but my parents dont want me to date yet but they didnt nessarly say i couldnt date....wat do i do...make parents happy or make me happy????

2007-08-29 09:10:17 · 1 answers · asked by vivalabammtv2 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 09:07:32 · 39 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 09:07:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister's boyfriend wants to get a divorce from his "current" wife. They've been separated for a while and now he wants to marry my sister. But they don't have money to get a lawyer. What can they do?

2007-08-29 09:06:46 · 7 answers · asked by always_sweet_b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How come you want a girl who pushes you away more than a girl who shows you she cares about you?

2007-08-29 09:05:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Left a year ago still comes around. I love him very much and he is a very good man in a lot of ways will some faults not bad ones. We had problems with communication and the way eachother reacted to certain situations. We both weren't that great to eachother at times. anyhow. I feel deep down he comes around and he has fun with the kids and I. But he says he is not coming back home. We are still married and I feel soo alone at times but not alot cus I am busy working going to school and raising four kids but alone in the couple factor. Once in a while we still well you know but I don't know I can't seem to move on. I love him sooo much. Why won't he come back and work it out and go to counseling why does he seem to be happy and have fun around us but not fully want to come home. There are nights he shuts his phone off and goes out with friends. I sit all night wondering if he will meet someone else. I know i should move on and focus on what I have goin on now. But how?I try

2007-08-29 09:04:06 · 53 answers · asked by youcandoit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 5'6 and apparently thats too short for most girls. Even short girls like 5'1, like 6'4 guys. That annoys me..when I see a REALLY short girl dating a REALLY tall guy. Its like haha..the girl even in these towering heels still is only up to the guys shoulder. Short girls like tall guys..tall girls like tall guys..medium height girls like tall guys..Does this mean me, and all short guys are screwed?

2007-08-29 09:00:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so I'm just wondering how to kiss
I know someone'll kiss the bottom lip and someone'll kiss the top but like......still a little confised....
I know i should know this...but......I need a little help
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2007-08-29 08:59:50 · 8 answers · asked by asdfjkl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 08:58:28 · 45 answers · asked by mehmetbacak 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some would think that the answer to this question is obvious. But to me it's not, cause if you meet this person in the flesh and they have misrepresented themselves, the other person is subject to running and screaming in the opposite direction. I know, cause it's happened to me before.

Whether it's a false picture on a profile, chat room photo space, MySpace, or someone sends you a picture of what they looked like 20 years ago, this practice is ridiculous and just wastes time.

2007-08-29 08:58:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married and my dad wants me to hyphenate my name. It is my choice to only keep my future husband's name. Now my dad is saying that he won't contribute any money or even walk me down the aisle. Am I being unreasonable? Has anyone else ever faced this type of drama over name hyphenation?

2007-08-29 08:57:13 · 15 answers · asked by Gods Child fo Life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would consider it disrespectful (and a major hinderance to marital intimacy) for my spouse to go behind my back to solve a conflict that is between us with out my consent.

2007-08-29 08:54:35 · 5 answers · asked by Intension Juxtaposed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a girlfriend that alrady has one kid from me and i am only 16 and i just fround that she is going to have another baby again what should i do should i brake up with her or what

2007-08-29 08:52:33 · 17 answers · asked by Joseph G 1 in Singles & Dating

If your wife has not give you oral pleasure in a month or so would you be mad? you both still have sex but no oral? Do you think it's fair to say that the wife does not recieve it so you should not either? thoughts?

2007-08-29 08:52:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think? Does life get any better than this?

2007-08-29 08:52:14 · 4 answers · asked by latoyaevon 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

two women,,

2007-08-29 08:52:04 · 21 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2 in Marriage & Divorce