I have a FWB but Ive only been sleeping with him and he knows that.?

Question

I know he might have several other FWB's but we are always protected. Last night he asked me if he was the only one f***ing me. I told him yes.... and asked why hes asking... He told me that he wanted to be the only one f***ing me...Why, if we are only FWB would he want to be the only one?? Shouldnt there be no strings attached?

Answer 1

Used to have a Trinidadian FWB that was awesome in the sex arena and knew how to lay it down!!

He got all weird like you're describing and tried to control the pu$$y, exclusively, but I had no hoe rights to his dyck.

It is a control issue cuz ur whipping his azz. GO GIRL!!!!

Answer 2

there shouldn't be any strings attached but at the same time feelings could get involved when two people are being intimate regardless if it started as frinds only especially if its FWB..also its a guy thing double standards they might feel its okay to have several FWB but not okay for the girl to have more than one. Besides the point if he is having other girls as well you should bow out because there are too many stds out there and you certainly don't want to catch it from him. BWF only good with two people..

Answer 3

There shouldn't be any strings attached but it doesn't always work out that way. Men still want to be the only one with you even if they have others.
My fwb is starting to act like this also, it may be time to part.

Answer 4

It sounds like this guy is a little selfish. As a guy who had a FWB I think I know exactly what's going on. He likes you but wants to keep his options open. FWB is like communism, it sounds good but it never turns out the way it should. I hope this helps.

Answer 5

That guy is breaking fwb rules. He is trying to put some "wants" on you (I want this, I want that, I want to be the only one...). Call him an Ahole. He's an FWB and he can't tell you what to do. Tell him his fwb priveleges have been revoked then scratch him off your list and get somebody else in there.

Answer 6

Because he's jealous. HE wants to be YOUR only one, but he wants to play the field and find someone he thinks might be better.

OR

He's getting attached to you through the sex and can't help it.

These are the problems with FWB.

Answer 7

it should be no strings attached - that's what FWB's is all about after all.

but it seems he's getting too comfy with the situation and he thinks he has some say so over what you do, even though he ain't your man.

some men can't seem to handle emotionally unattached females.

you may have to cut him loose if he starts getting to bossy :)

Answer 8

Maybe he wants some strings, it happens. Tell him that he's the only with access to you, you should be the only on with access to him. See how he takes that.

It's hard to share passion with a person and not to develope, or at least think you feel something for that person. Passion often breeds lust, and sometimes breeds love.

Answer 9

Cus men like to have their cake and eat it too. Of course he wants to be the only one you're sleeping with but if yall don't have an official understanding then you should politely tell him that's none of his business. Why didn't you ask him if you're the only one he's sleeping with? And if yall do have an understanding of being friends with benefits then he crossed the line and should be notified and checked. Cus remember yall are sleeping together but he's NOT your man, so if he's not your man he shouldn't be questioning you.

Answer 10

Maybe he wants to be more than just FWB.