Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

2007-08-29 11:33:39 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 14 years. I admit that I did the most horrible thing and want my husband to try to forgive me. I feel like my life will be over if he doesnt. I know that many of you will say that it is unforgivable, but if anybody can suggest what I can possibly do to fix my marriage, please do. It was a horrible mistake, I just did not know how to stop it. I realize that I have hurt him terribly and would like to fix it. Please help

2007-08-29 11:32:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am married for 14 years. I admit that I did the most horrible thing and want my husband to try to forgive me. I feel like my life will be over if he doesnt. I know that many of you will say that it is unforgivable, but if anybody can suggest what I can possibly do to fix my marriage, please do. It was a horrible mistake, I just did not know how to stop it. I realize that I have hurt him terribly and would like to fix it. Please help

2007-08-29 11:30:24 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years now. Had a smooth first 3 years. Fourth year we split for 3 months due to his partying and unfaithfulness and my lack of understanding for his need to party . Here we are, going on our 5th year and he is having second thoughts of why he acts the way he does. He tells me I would be a perfect wife. And honestly, I would be. Its like I'm his wife already. We have lived together 3 years now. Have a car and split expenses. I have never pushed marriage, ever. In the last year BOTH of us talked of it. He asked questions of what rings I like...there was evidence and he was about to ask me. BUT didn't. He chickened out. I dont know what his problem is. You would think after 5 years he would be head over heels with me, just as I am for him. We are still in college and have goals, BOTH talk of our goals as a couple, together in the end. He has what he wants...sex, home, a loving companian. I'm scared to be hurt and scared of waiting for the unkown.

2007-08-29 11:26:30 · 13 answers · asked by WINO86 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He devotes most of his free time to helping out with the church's youth group, but won't do anything with his own teenage son. Never has done anything with any of his children. I think it is because he gets lots of attention there and has no responsibility for them outside of church.

2007-08-29 11:23:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friends husband works out of town and is only home on weekends..most of the time he doesnt even come home...he doesnt call her but maybe once or twice a week and she has found #s in his vehicle...he doesnt want her to come and visit him while he is at work, but all the other wifes of his co-workers do? What do you say to your best friend when you think the man she married may be a fraud?

2007-08-29 11:22:01 · 12 answers · asked by Mindy S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently read where a woman can now be tested if she's been unfaithful by sweat glands!

I also read that it's a viable test is over 99.80% accurate of the time for a period of 6 months, and is admissible in almost every court of law!

I read this because the JUDGE who stripped me of visitation rights informed me she could not stop me from having sex, but could prevent me from seeing my son who I hurt with horrid behavior in a sexual manner.

I was also told if I agreed to accept testing I could have supervised visitation rights!

HAS ANYONE HEARD OF THIS TEST?
IS IT AS ACCEPTED IN CALIFORNIA?

MY LAWYER SAYS IT , BECAUSE THE JUDGE IS NOT PREVENTING ME FROM HAVING SEX JUST PROTECTING MY SON WHO NOW HAS POST TRUMATIC STRESS AFTER A STUPID JOKE THAT WENT WRONG!
Here have a read: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070827222051AArhpXd
Or this one: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsyNNXajjD7SjvSlPaEJ59zsy6IX?qid=20070826225830AAZhZlH

2007-08-29 11:17:40 · 5 answers · asked by April Snow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Coming from a Hispanic country, women legally don't have to change their name when they get married, but people could start calling you Mrs. Husband's last name informally and that's ok by me. When you have kids, specifically in PR, your kids must have husbands last name followed by mom's last name so your kids would be Maria Smith Peters for example. When we moved to the states I am "Mrs. Peters" officially, but then when they meet my husband and/or kids, they get all confused and when I explained they just don't understand why I would "do that to my kids". I never had a mental issue with this when I was a child. Why do people make it such an issue. I find myself explaining myself all the time. Could we just be?

2007-08-29 11:13:01 · 24 answers · asked by lasm97 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well I have been making him lunch for the past 2 weeks, bcuz hes been telling me that he wants to start taking lunch anyway.. I found out he gave half of his lunch to a co-worker I speak to her on a daily basis u can say were friends not to close but getting there anyway I cant help it but it kinda makes me upset bcuz I make it for him and if he gives half away obviously he still hungry and will eventually buy.. which is the reason why weve started to brown bag it were on a budget.. am I exagerating??? serious answers please.

2007-08-29 11:07:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is verbal, and mentally abusive, i need out asap i cant handle this anymore, we spent 3 weeks appart for holidays and i realize i need out he is so crule do i write him a note and leave till he reads it or do i stay and listen to the verbal and mental abuse? please, i dont know how to get out :(

2007-08-29 11:07:03 · 16 answers · asked by 12121212 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been seperated for about 6 months now. we have a 5 yr old son. the relationship was unhealthy and tons of arguing and overall he was a bad husband. i cant decide what to do in means of sep or div? i dont miss him and i dont really want him back right now either. i love getting my individuality back and finding out more about me! .I can also see that he has not changed and not sure( almost positive) he never will. I am just not sure what to do from here?

2007-08-29 11:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by calimom42 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I close friend of mine asked me the other day a Q about rebound relationships. And in answering, I realized I wanted to hear what you thought it was. So, what do you think a "rebound relationship" is?

2007-08-29 11:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad has been stressed out lately and has become apathetic. He used to fish, hunt, and enjoy himself but now he isn't. He is diabetic and I have asked him if he is checking his blood sugar, he said once a day, I asked him how much he should, he said four, I asked him if he could check it more often and he said whats the point. What should I do???? Please help me find a way to get out of this stage. Hes been like this for two weeks. Please Help Me!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-29 11:01:30 · 19 answers · asked by Nick T 2 in Family

2007-08-29 10:59:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Right now we live in Torrance,ca and my dad is getting relocated to a new office so we have a choice of moving to Ohio, Vermont,England...My parents have finally come to an agreement and we are moving to the England. Now this is the town we are moving to....Addiscombe, Croydon, England is that a bad area or ok or really good? thanks

I know this is in the wrong section, but I need answers now and i knew this was a popular section..k thanks

2007-08-29 10:59:24 · 5 answers · asked by A Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that goes to my church, we are good friends and have known each other forever. well in the beginning of the summer before sunday school ended he said he was going to my high school. on monday he kinda like poped out of no where and we started talking. he has grown up quite a bit and isint the same little kid i knew last year. he has grown atleast 4 inches, his voice changed, and i kinda like him. how can i tell if he likes me. i mean i can sometimes catch him staring at me from in class room...but what are some other signs??????

2007-08-29 10:59:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got merrid on the 10th of this month after the docters told me that jeremy only had a few days to live. He pasted away on the 15th 5 days after we got merrid HOW do i cope with this i am having a hard time with this i hve no heath inscuren to see a dr and i dont have the money plz help me its been 2 weeks to sence my husband past away how do i deal with this

2007-08-29 10:59:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i said yes.
HELP.
IT FREAKS ME OUT.

2007-08-29 10:57:50 · 23 answers · asked by serrsly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How to make MY hubby do just few things ,just COZ I WANT IT.
Like making him be just polite but resreved INSTEAD of being very nice to couple of females who i hate like anything.

1. ONE WHO Tried everything to let our marriage not happen and him/his family to choose her.

2. OTHER ONE who is playing games n politics to make me look bad, creating lot of troubles in my inlaws and hubby. bro's wife. Ignore me, try to win my hubby by all time giving him attention, pick our baby and carry her love her infront of him only.

My hubby knew about both, all they did. Still would be nice to them. How can i make him not 2 be friendly with them andjust stick to hello hi.Nagging for years hasn't worked. I gave up for first girl.

2nd one is latest prob? Such things 've strained our marriage to point of breakup.
my enemies shuld be his too (imp)
& my friends his friends(not imp)
We were best friends + lovers b4 marriage 10 yrs.
dont i deserve dat he listen me on this.HELP suggest

2007-08-29 10:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by abeer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 10:55:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm talking about fishing weekends with his friends and going out of town for work. I trust him, I do so i dont understand why I get so emotional ... Mad ... crying .,...

2007-08-29 10:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by Shawn G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well the 2 of them are always talking and i keep giving them compliments but they don't give me any compliments. its really confusing and i need to be popular. if im friends with them, i can be one of the most popular girls in school. i try to join a conversation, but i have noooo idea whats going on with them and if we do, they just kinda give up on me and talk to each other again.... i really need to be popular so any one whose popular could u plz tell me???

2007-08-29 10:53:55 · 7 answers · asked by manlove_to_the_rescue 3 in Friends

Need recommendation for a relationship/sex therapist in the Los Gatos (California) area - thanks.

2007-08-29 10:53:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

in a relationship (dating, marriage) why is it ok for a women to smack a man but then if a guy smacks a women just as hard police would come

2007-08-29 10:53:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I cut all contact with my ex 2 days ago. It's so hard though. We were together for 3 years and I really loved him, more than anyone else. We stayed in contact after the break up but it was too hard for me, especially as he was the one who ended it. He was the one who wanted to stay in contact with me but I just could not because of all the feelings I have for him. We met a couple of weeks ago and it was a really nice meeting. He told me though that he thinks it's for the best to end our relationship and he wants to move on. But he said that he is scared that he might be making a mistake at the same time and we might get together again. i told him that in order to move on, I need to say good bye and go my separate way. It was so sad. I miss him so much and i am scared that I might not see him or hear from him again. Do you think by cutting all contact with him I ruined all chances for us to get back together again in the future? I really didn't want to do it but do I have any choice?

2007-08-29 10:50:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here's the deal.... this is the prettiest girl ive ever seen in my life and she looks like an angel. I talked to her on myspace a week before school started and told her I would help her find her way to class and walk her. I am in 10th and shes in 9th. Ok so she says alrighty that sounds great. But we couldn't find eachother in the halls on the first day, but we did get math class together.... I messaged her the night of the first day of school and said im so srry i couldn't find you, and she said it's ok we will see eachother tomorrow. Here's the problem.... today was the third day of school and we have math together, and she sits kind diagonally behind me. She won't talk to me or look at me. Im too shy to talk to her, but she doesn't even glance at me! its like im not there..... everytime i walk in shes talkin to this other girl (her friend) and i sit down without saying a word and get ready to do some math. I see her in the hall alone but am too shy to say a word, what do i do!??

2007-08-29 10:50:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like when you shake someones hand and then you feel like ur floating into the clouds. or if they kissed you on the cheak and almost over hyperventallated, or been hugged and almost fainted the first and the thrird on have happened to me does this mean we would be good together?

2007-08-29 10:50:11 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs.NICK.JONAS!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 10:49:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex wants to come over tomorrow to iron out some issues we have with the kids. she also said she wants to get some things off her chest and wants me to listen and keep quiet,then i get a turn. our talks always turn into arguments and she gets very angry she states she wants to keep it to the kids BUT,wants to say some things,then gets angry and brings up stuff from the past,she just recently got remarried,and claims how happy she is,but i get nothing but anger from her,she has no insurance and i"m going to try and steer her towards psychiatric help and pay for it if she will agree.She has a long history of opiate use (pills) and is currently on a maintenace drug suboxone. How do i handle this and do you think she has a hidden agenda? Why so much anger especially when she says i don't seem happy and there is so much out there! thanks

2007-08-29 10:49:36 · 14 answers · asked by pheggie101 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 10:46:22 · 2 answers · asked by roostersv2002 1 in Family