Ok here's the deal.... this is the prettiest girl ive ever seen in my life and she looks like an angel. I talked to her on myspace a week before school started and told her I would help her find her way to class and walk her. I am in 10th and shes in 9th. Ok so she says alrighty that sounds great. But we couldn't find eachother in the halls on the first day, but we did get math class together.... I messaged her the night of the first day of school and said im so srry i couldn't find you, and she said it's ok we will see eachother tomorrow. Here's the problem.... today was the third day of school and we have math together, and she sits kind diagonally behind me. She won't talk to me or look at me. Im too shy to talk to her, but she doesn't even glance at me! its like im not there..... everytime i walk in shes talkin to this other girl (her friend) and i sit down without saying a word and get ready to do some math. I see her in the hall alone but am too shy to say a word, what do i do!??
2007-08-29 10:50:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, obviously, she does like you!
Lots of woman are shy, I myself was shy when I first started dating my boyfriend. The reason she is always talking to her friends when you come into class is because she's to shy to look at you or speak to you, which is perfectly understandable.
Don't be intimidated by this. Since you two are both shy, I suggest you converse with her a bit more on myspace, that way you can both get a feel for each other and by time you do start talking face to face it will be like you already know her.
Chat about things that went on in class, your homework, and as things progress offer to help her with her homework or vise verse. But let things gradually progress, because if you try to move too some and too fast, you'll turn her off.
Good Luck!
~Nay~
2007-08-29 10:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's waiting for you to make the first move, bud. You can start by asking her something about the math class- like just say, "Hey, do you want to go over the homework together after school?" or "I can't figure out this equation. Can you help me?" Then you can take it from there...
2007-08-29 17:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you guys can talk "virtually" or whatever... but if you like her then just get some gusto and go up and talk to her. She's probably waiting for you to come up and since you haven't said anything she probably thinks you saw her and didn't like her. Confidence is key and if she's a jerk then she's obviously not who you thought she was.
Remember on the internet we can pretend to be whoever we want to be.
good luck hon.
2007-08-29 17:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Brielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well that might mean she is confused abouat you to. Just try talking to her. and text her and sit with her a lunch and other classes you have together. And to take her to her classes and offer to carry her books.
2007-08-29 17:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by Fall Out Girl 101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way your going to find out whats going on in her head is to talk to her and find out if she likes.
2007-08-29 17:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by pinky112203 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you man up and talk to her. what else can you do? she's obviously too shy to talk to you too. so just talk to her. it's not like you're gonna ask her out the first word you say to her.
2007-08-29 17:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask your friend to tell her that he has a friend who likes her and wants to know if she has a boyfriend.
2007-08-29 17:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in 9th grade math....ha ha......grow some and talk to her already
2007-08-29 17:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋