Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

How could I find out for sure?

2007-08-29 10:12:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm an italian girl I'm 20..I want to chat with some american guys..because I love your language and your country!!

2007-08-29 10:11:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

psychology, marriage and divorce, etc?

My question was "Is it weird/normal that I like answering in subjects of psychology, marriage and divorce, etc? (it's in my profile...i think it's about my 10th question that I asked?)

His answer was something like "You say you feel numb and weren't affected by your family problems, but it's not true. See the psychological answer my friend- i think you like to answer in those areas because it makes you feel better. it speaks well of you"

The reason why I'm looking is because I was wondering if he'd talk with me for free online, since my parents would never take me mainly cause they'd blow me off and say I don't need one, and that coming from them would be pretty stupid to say.

Also, if he DOES answer, I have to say I'm pretty bad at describing myself and my life....so if you're not good at helping people..open up i guess? don't answer

2007-08-29 10:11:13 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

this boy has been seeing his girlfriend for ages but then he met me and we fooled aroun a bit for sometime but then we decided to stop cuz i moved but i still love him and hes still with his girlfriend and ants nufin to do with me and she has no idea aboume what shall i do?

2007-08-29 10:11:01 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is there like anyway too make them like you?


if it helps hes a year older than me.

2007-08-29 10:10:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad have just divorced. i want to help my mom more because she's kind of a wreck now. my piano teacher asked us to babysit her dog for 2 weeks. we've taken care of the puppy for 5 days now and i feel like i'm putting more work on my mom. what are some ways to help her???? please help me nowwwwww!!!! <3

2007-08-29 10:08:42 · 4 answers · asked by lsaseiar 1 in Family

i have this problem, i am a teenager and for some reason i get gealous when some other girl is in a relationship or she hooks up.. i think that the more guys u get with the better it is.. like when someone breaks up in my mind i go like.. hey now they are going to have one more guy, while i have been with this one for 6 months..
i know it wrong in any aspect, and i do have a boyfriend who is amazing ( i love him, his fam, his friends, and they all love me back) i know its selfish of me but i can't help it..

also.. in middle school there was a certain friend of mine who got all guy attention... maybe i didn't get over it yet.. i want to.. idon't want to be like this anymore... it shouldn't matter who is with howmany people

2007-08-29 10:07:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Member since: August 29, 2007
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Laura H
S **dont know what to do**?
i done something really bad recently...and my mam took my phone off me and said im NEVER getting it back wat i done was bad but not that bad like and i hav learned my lesson i really have i have school 2moro and really want my phone!?
any ideas on how i cud persuade her 2 give it 2 me or any other ideas!??

2007-08-29 10:07:04 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Loz♥ 3 in Family

Me and my ex talked on and off for 3 years. he had a girlfriend that kept him on a short lease. it was pretty pathetic. She juss recently left for college and hes still in highschool with me. A few days ago we reunited by partying with some friends. He was all touchy feely and cuddling with me. we even slept in the same bed.... Is this proof hes missed being with me?

2007-08-29 10:05:24 · 7 answers · asked by babbyy 1 in Singles & Dating

I Told a friend that I would sell him my xbox360 elite, with a bunch of extras, and a few games and an intercooler almost mint, no more than 3 weeks old, for $300. But then I was talkin to other people, and that told me it was worth WAYY more than that, but my friend got all excited about it and keeps calling wanting me to sell it to him tomorrow at school, but I dont want to sell it to him anymore because of how much its worth, and I just ended my summer job, so I dont have any money coming in now.

We are both 11th graders...

Someone PLS PLS Help me!

2007-08-29 10:01:08 · 4 answers · asked by ihaveaquestiontoask 1 in Friends

Mine is Unfaithful by Rihanna.

2007-08-29 09:59:39 · 29 answers · asked by ¤Forever¤ 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay - I need opinions here. My husband for the last year sleeps with his cell phone in his pocket. It used to be he kept it on the charger like most normal people but now he charges it in the morning or at work. Does this seem strange to anyone to sleep with your cell phone on your body?

2007-08-29 09:55:22 · 35 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with a guy for 21 years. He is possessive, controlling and demanding. I loved him when we first met and started going out. I still do love him by not like I used to. He moved back in with me a second time. He still likes to take control, and demand things. And calls me names every so often. Sometimes he accuses me of being with someone else if we don't have sex. He doesn't like my kids (whom he helped raise since they were two and three). If I send my kids text messages from his computer I have to erase them because he has a problem with that. He finds out I send messages and erases them and accuses me of plotting something. He has been staying with me since January of 2000 and I paid all the bills. Since 2005 I have not worked and he has been paying all the bills. I had quit school, to try and find a job, and I was 4 classes short of graduating. He threatens to leave, then ends up staying. I only deal with this because I have no job and no money. What should I do?

2007-08-29 09:53:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been impotent for the past year. Been seeing a doctor and tried all meds but still no luck. I have tried all "other means" to sexually satisfy her but she wants actual penetration. Don't get us wrong, she is actually a real compassionate person and is heartbroken we have this problem but the marriage is starting to erode. We argue more often. She is mid-forties and still has a strong desire. I want her to be happy so I am considering allowing her to take a lover. I know it's risky but what have I got to lose at this point. How would a counsellor help in this situation?

2007-08-29 09:53:36 · 47 answers · asked by ckretajent 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. I just know that these two guys are going to ask me out tomorrow. But the third, who I really like, I'm not sure if he will. How do I respond to the first two, and get the third? Help!

2007-08-29 09:53:09 · 6 answers · asked by dreamerfrommars 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who lost his wife in a car accident in February of 2006. Sadley, they were still newly weds, only married for 6 weeks. About a year after the death of his wife, he started dating a long time friend (somone he had known for 10 years), and this Saturday they are getting married. That's only a year and a half after the death of his first wife, but he is very happy.

Do you think he should wait longer? Or do you think if he is happy that's all that matters. Some of his ex-inlaws have mixed emotions. They are happy, but it has been less than two years. What do you think?

2007-08-29 09:51:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband got mad at me for buying a work shirt without telling him. The shirt wasnt even that expensive, when I brought it home along with some other items he knew I was buying he took my car, cell phone bank card and emergency credit card away. He was "nice" enough to give me the car for work and school but he is keeping my cell phone (which I need for work and my kids) and cards in his posession to teach me about being responsible. I feel this is controlling behavior but he feels its a good lesson to learn. I admit I have made past mistakes with finances but is this too far?

2007-08-29 09:51:38 · 29 answers · asked by Lovinlife915 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So i told my bf of 4 months that i loved him last night because i just couldnt keep it to myself anymore. I knew immediately the look on his face that he wasnt going to say it back to i quickly put my hand over his mouth and told him not to say anything. I was worried that i might have freaked him out but today he acted completely normal and acted like nothing had happened....so what do i do now? act like nothing happened? I know that he has strong feelings for me at least because he brought me around his family who he is really close with and im the first girl hes brought around in 5 years...help?

2007-08-29 09:50:26 · 1 answers · asked by Selina S 1 in Singles & Dating

We live in Illinois and my ex wants to see the kids every other weekend as stated in our divorce decree. However, the decree states he is supposed to have them from 6PM Friday night to 6PM Sunday night. He can only take them during Saturday and Sunday daytimes because he is living with his dad and can't have them overnight there. Does it mean I'm denying visitation if I say that if he can't take them during the allotted time in the decree, he can't take them at all?

2007-08-29 09:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by Hanna-Banana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What kind of characteristics would you want your dream girl to have?

Girls what characteristics would you want your dream Guy to have?

For me they would have to have a sense of humor, kinda shy but not completely quiet, can hold a conversation, is smart (not einstien smart either!), and can accept me for me!

Please answer! allanswers aregreatly appreciated!

2007-08-29 09:48:34 · 16 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i met her 2 weeks ago
went out on a date last friday
and we had a blast, she didnt want to go home
i left her at her house and she text
thank you for a great night. so she text me on sunday to hang out and i went to pick her up
we went to see a movie
our second date wasnt as intense as the first one but it was still good

at the end of the date i really didnt want her to leave so i ask her if she has to go home she said well eventually i have to go home Y?? so i told her if she wants to go and get ice cream then i drove her to her car and she said wait u r not taking me to eat ice cream and i said ok

we had a nice conversation on monday night it was ok nothing bad about it
we didnt talk tuesday
so i text her today hey how are you
and havent heard from her

what should i think? she usually text back right way

how long should i wait to try again
or has she lost interests

2007-08-29 09:48:27 · 10 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Singles & Dating

k well i am a teenager ya im into boys i curently have a crush but its so weird i cant imagine dating any of my curent or past crushes to me it seems so akward (i like keeping things underwraps)i just tell myself oh in highschool it will be diffrent not so akward cause there will be more people and no one will find out

2007-08-29 09:48:16 · 30 answers · asked by living the life 3 in Singles & Dating

It means, if i talk about obese people in USA. Because i wrote about it before and got some violation notices. I mean, it didnt solve the problem to them anyway.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/20461564/
Ot talking about teen pregnancies, if somebody cant control a daughter then they report on me again. What is wrong to talk about it? If nothing is wrong with having 17 year old pregnant daughters.

2007-08-29 09:48:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 1 1/2 yrs into divorce. Husband cheated, left. I own real estate here & FL. Atty said I can't sell anything because X wants 50/50 even tho he's not on Deed, etc. They are getting title work, appraisals, subpoenaing banks... In the meantime, I've got 2 school aged kids, we asked to move to FL a year ago. My dad is not well and my rentals are empty. I do not get temp support, do not work due to health reasons, been living off line of credit that is now maxed. Kids do not have visits w/ dad; neither he nor they want it. In March my attorney said X was allowing me & kids to relocate to FL. I prepared, school, furniture ... Recently I called Atty to be 100% sure, he says X won't let me go unless I sign Global settlement agreeing to his terms. What did I spent 20K on?! The place we're currently in is rented as of 9/15. Plus, my kids got bullied here as new students last yr. I feel my very high cost lawyer has dropped the ball. He's also made sexual innuendos. We want to be able to go.

2007-08-29 09:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by FLmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I been dating this guy josh on and off for a long time.We recently broke up and are trying to work things out with each other.He wants me to move to Iowa and live together with him.My parents don't want to talk to me about it.How do I make my parents see Josh and I point and that we both are adult and they need to let us be together.I will find a way and be with Josh with or with out help from my parents.My parents are making things with Josh and I not good. How do I change my parents mind about Josh and let me be with him?

2007-08-29 09:46:47 · 12 answers · asked by Molly M 1 in Family

She is a spoiled brat. 16 years old and a freshman in highschool. She thinks pot is a way to live. Mom says ok because she threatens to move out so she can live smoking pot. what to do?

2007-08-29 09:46:20 · 5 answers · asked by michael c 1 in Family

2007-08-29 09:44:34 · 9 answers · asked by angie m. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with him for two years and we have a new baby girl that is 2 months. We began having problems when I was pregnant when money began to run low. I made matters worse by blaming him for all we didn't have and for ruining my life. He stayed through that and was there for me every step of the way, but I recently discovered he has been talking to other woman, but has been emotionally and physically involved with on of them. He is begging for forgiveness and he says he has no feelings for this other woman and he wants us to work. But I am trying to forgive him but I know in my heart that the trust is completely gone. What do I do. I want to teach him a lesson so I have been killing him with dead silence and ignoring him he is even back at his mother's house. But I know in my heart I need him home with us.

2007-08-29 09:41:15 · 19 answers · asked by Sye S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and how many times?
how old were you when you first ran away?

2007-08-29 09:40:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have had one best friend and she has been my best friend for a few years.she left the school and really right now i only have a few ok friends. no best friends at all.But all the people im my class treated me really bad like last year cuz im fat.they would call me rude names.im still pretty big this yearbut i got alot taller so i thinned out a tiny bit but everyone is nicer to me. i talk to all the guys alot more and they dont look at me in disgust. and last year when someone was assigned to sit by me they would groan. this year they seem to be happy with it. Even this year the guys let me hug them. THIS HAS NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE do they let me hug them cuz they like me nowlike as a friend or do they think its fun cuz im fat?and then the girls they used to ignore me and they all ask me Hey how are you how was your summer or they will sit by me on intention.During class we read in the book outloud and we can pick who reads next and they pick me alot more often.why are they doing this?

2007-08-29 09:40:16 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating