Looknig for armchair psychologist that answered my question about my interest in the categories of...?

Question

psychology, marriage and divorce, etc?

My question was "Is it weird/normal that I like answering in subjects of psychology, marriage and divorce, etc? (it's in my profile...i think it's about my 10th question that I asked?)

His answer was something like "You say you feel numb and weren't affected by your family problems, but it's not true. See the psychological answer my friend- i think you like to answer in those areas because it makes you feel better. it speaks well of you"

The reason why I'm looking is because I was wondering if he'd talk with me for free online, since my parents would never take me mainly cause they'd blow me off and say I don't need one, and that coming from them would be pretty stupid to say.

Also, if he DOES answer, I have to say I'm pretty bad at describing myself and my life....so if you're not good at helping people..open up i guess? don't answer

I"m only in 8th grade but I'm heading in the direction of becoming a psychologist or something like that. Also, any other psychologists or something- feel free to give your opinions on how to be more open and why i enjoy answering questions in those areas

Answer 1

That wasn't me, but I will answer anyway.

I would say that you are probably worrying too much about nothing. If you like the Marriage & Divorce or Psychology sections, then you are simply interested in those subjects. Perhaps you would enjoy a career as a marriage or personal counselor.

If you think you are unskilled at describing yourself, then go get a spiral notebook. At the top of page 1 write this question: Who Am I?
Answer that question. Wait 1 week, then answer it again. Afterwards, read both responses and see what is there. Try not to repeat yourself, if possible; also, don't answer with things like "I am a student at " or "I work at "--your school and your job are not who you are. After 6 months of this, you should begin to know yourself (and be able to describe youself) much better.

Answer 2

Well I wasn't him, I don't think.... but I'm an ACTIVE armchair psychologist just look at the darn account.... ether way I actually answer all the questions I can for those area's myself. I'd have to say it has alot to do with the fact that I'm quite intuned to how darn important relationships ARE! They are actually one of the most important things we can do, the most meaninful things, the most fulifilling, the most bitter/sweet, and of course the most wonderful experience we well ever have. And the act of taking this serious, of doing what I can to help, gives my life meaning. Besides I've came to realize that most of the social problems that have domanited my life have something to do with peoples inablities to accept that. Also I tried doing the drag towards getting the good old doctorate, and found out quite suddenly the game thats being play'd and the fact that its really something WE ALL SHOULD DO!!! The fact that we even have concollers isn't because we've became better at understanding peoples minds, so much, as people have gotten worse at having deep and meaningful relatonships.... sad state of affairs. It also has alot to do with having purpose in life, since we don't have religion anymore, but I digress. Glad to see someone who is opening up to the importance relationships play in our lives, keep up the good work! Ooooooo and READ THIS BOOK!!!! Carl Jung "Man and his Symbols" very, very, very benifitual, its old, only the frist 3 chapters are really worth it, because after that he kind of applies his theory alittle to much and sort of trys to explain EVERYTHING, thru archtypes and ooo so much other stuff, but thats not as important as what drove him that direction. Namly the falsehood of symbols, but you NEED to give that book a look, trust me. He was a student of good old Sigmond Frued who didn't like his approarch, of course neither did his daughter or most of the american culture, but again I digress, keep up the good work!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You must have a genuine interest in helping people. This is a wonderful trait to have. Keep up with your studies. Have a wonderful life..