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i met her 2 weeks ago
went out on a date last friday
and we had a blast, she didnt want to go home
i left her at her house and she text
thank you for a great night. so she text me on sunday to hang out and i went to pick her up
we went to see a movie
our second date wasnt as intense as the first one but it was still good

at the end of the date i really didnt want her to leave so i ask her if she has to go home she said well eventually i have to go home Y?? so i told her if she wants to go and get ice cream then i drove her to her car and she said wait u r not taking me to eat ice cream and i said ok

we had a nice conversation on monday night it was ok nothing bad about it
we didnt talk tuesday
so i text her today hey how are you
and havent heard from her

what should i think? she usually text back right way

how long should i wait to try again
or has she lost interests

2007-08-29 09:48:27 · 10 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

I think you should try to text again but seriously, if this chick isn't interested in you, she ain't worth it. After all you did, you seem like a really sweet guy that diserves the best from a gal.
But don't give up hope yet.

2007-08-29 09:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by chelly 2 · 0 0

From what you've mentioned, I guess she enjoyed the dates but probably she was just busy that was why she wasn't able to text you right away. Wait until the next day and if you haven't heard from her try texting her one more time. If there's still no reply, you can try calling her. From that call, you'd have at least a clue if she's interested on you or not. If let's say she'd sound apologetic and would like to see you again then that's a good sign but if she'd give you excuses that she's too busy to see you then that you get the idea.

2007-08-29 10:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by margaux 1 · 1 0

Don't seem to eager let her come to you! tonight before you go to sleep text her and tell her that she was on your mind and you hope that everything is alright and to hit you back when she has some free time cause you miss her company!
If she doesn't move onto the next "victim" and she will come around eventually! nothing lost is nothing gained

2007-08-29 09:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by b-is-a-queen 2 · 0 0

I would text her at least 2 more times. If that doesn't work then try calling her and ask her: "What's up? You haven't replied to any of my text messages!" Try calling her several times through out the day. Mostlikely if she doesn't answer back on the text messages, and she won't answer when you call her then she has probably lost interest.

2007-08-29 09:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by ♥nikki♥ 3 · 0 0

She may be busy. Let her have some space today and try callling her tomorrow. If she doesn't answer, leave a voicemail and then wait. If she calls, YAY! If not maybe it just wasn't meant to be. But once you leave her a voicemail. DO NOT CALL AGAIN. You'll come across like a stalker.

2007-08-29 09:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by arrizona 3 · 0 0

Let the girl breath - she may really like you - but not need to have you permanently attached via the electronic world.
I guy that couldn't respect that I have other things happening in my life and that I'm not going to be at his constant electronic beck and call will find getting even busier.

2007-08-29 10:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by keezy 7 · 0 0

I lost interest reading your description. Do you also speak like that when you are together?
Maybe this girl is busy with homework, a job, her family and friends and isn't always available? Relax and let her come to you for a change.

2007-08-29 09:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lizbiz 5 · 0 0

i dont think she has lost interest but she may be busy of her phone might be off so just give it some time patience is a virtue

2007-08-29 09:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think that she thought you might be rushing her. I would apologize to her. It doesn't matter what you did, or even if you think you didn't do anything at all, just apologize, and see if that'l help. Best of luck to you!

2007-08-29 14:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

she is probably just busy and that's y she hasn't text u back

2007-08-29 16:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by 12 2 · 0 0

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