Ok. I just know that these two guys are going to ask me out tomorrow. But the third, who I really like, I'm not sure if he will. How do I respond to the first two, and get the third? Help!
2007-08-29 09:53:09 · 6 answers · asked by dreamerfrommars 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, the other two are nice and all, but I feel nothing for them...
2007-08-29 10:24:33 · update #1
but that doesn't mean I want to hurt them...
2007-08-29 10:25:31 · update #2
I'm really shy, and don't know him too well, and no, I just want to date him, not sleep with him or any of the others. The other two are just friends of mine.
2007-08-29 11:52:44 · update #3
If you can't have what you really won't then don't settle. Meaning turn down the other two and accept the third if he asks, if not just be content with the fact you won't settle. If you can't have who you want have noone at all.
2007-08-29 09:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Understood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no to the first two, tell them u are not available. What u need to do with the third guy is ask him to go out with you instead of waiting around take the initiative.
2007-08-29 10:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kelechi I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess tell the first two that it's not them, but you just aren't interested right now... And try to encourage the third. Let him know that you are interested. If you catch him staring, stare right back with a smile!
And, if you are bold, ask him to hang sometime! Be daring!
But, if you are shy, work on being bold...or slowly watch him fade away....
2007-08-29 10:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If is sex, you are after…get them all Foxy :)
If you want a relationship, then your question is at least naïve.
You like one man, so what are doing with the other 2?
Keep them as a backup? Are you so desperate? Are you afraid of being alone, or rejected?
Ask yourself these questions.
The answer is only one: you like someone, go after him.
He dumps you or not is part of the life; your life
And after all if the third one asks you out, you won’t be available.
In my country there is a saying : He who runs after two rabbits won’t catch any of them” :))
2007-08-29 10:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by vallhala2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the one that you really want to go out with if he would like to hang out this weekend and see what he says--just do it the worst he can say is "No"
2007-08-29 09:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by shayshay7000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask the one you want, beore the others have a chance to ask you.
Then you will know...
2007-08-29 10:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋