what do you do if your stepdaughter wants to smoke pot all day?

Question

She is a spoiled brat. 16 years old and a freshman in highschool. She thinks pot is a way to live. Mom says ok because she threatens to move out so she can live smoking pot. what to do?

Answer 1

This is a hard one. You could go with tough love, send her to JDH, let her find out the hard way.

But I know what this is like. I was a stoner once apon a time. Its hard to deal with. You sit there and think that people just don't understand! Then when people sit there and tell you to stop you want it even more. You have to be gentle with her. She's still a person, but she has a bit of a problem. Get close to her be her friend. Take her places she wants to go. Be there for her. Stuff like that. Once you get her trust, let her know how you feel about smoking. You have to stay with her.

You can choose which one. Hope things get better for you.

Answer 2

When your stepdaughter is in possession of pot, call the police to come. This is your house and you are responsible to do something if the law is being broken.
Believe me, it is imperative to involve the police for your stepdaughter's benefit. Once she is in the system, she and you can get all kinds of help to deal with her problems. Tell your wife that calling the police is the best thing to do for her daughter. But even if you can't convince your wife, you can't have this going on in your house.

Answer 3

Who provides her the money to buy pot? If you and her mom are the support for her to buy pot, you are both should be reported to police. Your wife spoiled the *****, go and slap the **** out of her and take away all weeds. Or take to drug treatment center.

Answer 4

what the heck is wrong with mom ??? jeezzz !! id show her the door. Is her mom buying for it as well ?

Answer 5

Tell her that she either stops, or you send her butt to Juvi.