this boy has been seeing his girlfriend for ages but then he met me and we fooled aroun a bit for sometime but then we decided to stop cuz i moved but i still love him and hes still with his girlfriend and ants nufin to do with me and she has no idea aboume what shall i do?
2007-08-29 10:11:01 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cut your losses. You knew what you were doing before, why feel bad about it now? Move on and find someone who doesn't have a girlfriend before karma comes back to bite you in the butt.
And as far as the guy, he'll get what he deserves as well because he knew he was acting ho'ish and he'll soon wallow in it.
2007-08-29 10:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You love someone who used you for sex? That is what happened because he sure didn't leave the girlfriend for you. Maybe you need a reality check as to what really happened between the both of you. You fell in love, and he used you for a booty call. Even if you ever got together, he will be the type to always have someone on the side to mess around with. I think I would go get a checkup, if you didn't use condoms, to make sure you weren't infected with an STD, as I doubt you are the first girl he has messed around with.
2007-08-29 10:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking what to do? You made a big mistake for doing that cause now you're having regrets. What good is to come from all of this? Are you happy and proud that you just messed up a relationship? He's not yours. If he really wanted you then why is he still with his GF? Are you asking for yourself to get hurt? I suggest that you drop him and find someone of your own it's not worth the time in your life to wait around for someone that belongs to someone else trust me I know.
2007-08-29 10:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by *hayn/filipina* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing...do not do anything. Discretion is the name of the game if you fool around. You knew he was attached when you got together. You may not like the fact he is still with his girlfriend, but move on. Sore feelings are what you get when you get involved with someone who is involved. You have no right to destroy the relationship and you have no right to absolve your guilt by hurting an Innocent bystander--the girlfriend.
2007-08-29 10:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mad Embalmer From the North 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first you should stay in school, and learn how to spell.
I don't feel sorry for you, that was a pretty skanky thing to do. And now that he knows you are skanky...he doesn't want anything to do with you anymore. It's quite simple.
You might have helped him cheat, but you also helped him to see what an "easy" person you really are. Guys like a challenge, and you pretty much just handed him the prize.
.Way to go.
>Karma sucks...doesn't it.>
2007-08-29 10:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WHAT?! Seriously! Never fool around with a guy who's in a relationship. A: It makes you look easy. B: If he can have HER and YOU, he won't leave her. C: You are wasting time on him when there is someone more worthy out there. Soooo, tell him that you are moving on since he won't associate with you in the open. Tell him good-bye and if he really cares, he'll find his way to you.
2007-08-29 10:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know, you set yourself up for a heartbreak right? because if you are in love with this guy it will only end in heartbreak, because if you tell is gf she is going to break up with him, and he is going to be mad at you for saying something. Your best bet is forget about him. The only way you would even have a chance with this guy is if he moved to where you live now, because then he would call you wanting to use you for sex, because guys go back to what they get for free, and as soon as they have to start paying for it they move on, or they buy it.
Sonojudan
"She was a virgin, how was I spoose to know I would break her heart, I mean what did she expect I had a girl friend."
2007-08-29 10:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by thesonojudan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you set yourself up for failure with that one. How could you care or love someone who would want to have a fling behind his girls back? What if he decided to leave her alone then what? If he got bored with her and cheated he will do the same to you, believe that! You got to let that go, I'm sure it was fun and all, but seriously go out and find someone to mess around with who isn't committed.
2007-08-29 10:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. He have no intention of leaving her or otherwise he would have broken up with her before. He was probably using you for sex and fun. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't have gotten involved with you until he ended it with his gf. Let it go and move on. If he wants you back, he'd break up, and contact you.
Why would you want to mess with your emotion by getting involved? Im sure in the back of your head you knew it would not work.
2007-08-29 10:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Pwincess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell the other girl that he's been cheating on her. He obviously doesn't care about you and wants nothing to do with you. So at least take some payback. He used you for physical pleasure, there's no excuse for that. Ruin his current relationship then leave him and never look back.
Good Luck!
2007-08-29 10:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋