Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

im trying to befriend him

2007-08-29 08:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by poopsie w 1 in Singles & Dating

this morning ma man told me that 5 other gurls wanted him and he made me sad but he said he will rather b wit me because he love me and im his boo!!!

2007-08-29 08:50:53 · 6 answers · asked by rita 2 in Singles & Dating

you have already a boyfriend but he will never know about it?

2007-08-29 08:50:44 · 20 answers · asked by woman whipped 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 08:50:34 · 54 answers · asked by xtina 2 in Singles & Dating

I am conducting a study and want to compile as much statistical data as possible. How many times a year? How many times a week? Women in relationships versus single women. Any statistics in regards to age group, geographic location, LA versus New York City. Please back up stats with websites and references if possible.

2007-08-29 08:49:53 · 3 answers · asked by 15fsg546rge1rrheljh45hjr90459ty3 3 in Singles & Dating

So many times, when I have been happy, or excited etc, he says something cold, or rude, or inapproriate, and then I'm not happy anymore. For about the last 5 or so years, I've noticed it to the point where I hid my enthusiasm from him, hid what made me happy, or misdirect so he says cold, mean stuff about something else, but can't say stuff about what I am really happy about. Recently, i finally started to get mad at him for it. Feeling stupid for being happy in front of him. So he gets angry with me for being mad at him. Says I should just let role off, not take him seriously, give him the benefit of the doubt etc.
I finally asked him if he there something about me being happy, that bothered him, and told him what I noticed. He said "no", and that he does want me to be happy.
I'd be easy to blow him off, if he was a coworker, a clerk in the store, etc, but he is my husband. I've put distance between us to avoid the mess, and once I relax.., he does it again!

2007-08-29 08:49:46 · 29 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep noticing girls my age (14/15) staring at me when I'm further away. And I dress normal, don't have any acne, or anything like that. I'm talking about girls I've never even talked to too. Like at random stores and places. Are girls just like that or what?

2007-08-29 08:49:19 · 3 answers · asked by Alex S 1 in Singles & Dating

At what age should I be telling her about periods? the problem is her friends appear to know more than she does and I dont what her to appear naive. I want her to stay as innocent for as long as possible but looking at the real world it just aint like that! I started my periods at 10 and didnt have a clue what ws going on! and I dont want that to happen to her....but then if I tell her I dont want to scare her or freak her out!!!

2007-08-29 08:47:41 · 19 answers · asked by vampini 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-29 08:47:19 · 56 answers · asked by Florida-Fan1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For girls: what do you wanta see on a guy?
For guys: which one works better?

2007-08-29 08:46:45 · 11 answers · asked by hockeyfreak 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay...so I've had this guy friend for a long time now, and we werent anything before. He found himself a girlfriend, that he obviously says that he loves her, and after like two years that he had been with her, he started being unfaithful with me. I really wasn't thinking about it, and we didnt do much really as we speak, we have never kissed!!!! We've had a lot of physical contact!!! and i believe that it doenst matter, it counts as unfaithfulness. The thing is, that we said that we were gonna stop with our "sort of affair", the thing is that I cant get him outta my head! I know he cant possibly be BF material, because he cheated on his GF, and I actually know her!! when we started 2 b friends w/ benefits, I wasnt thinking, honestly sometimes i want to do more stuff with him, but i know it isnt right!! should i tell him? what would u do? what should i do in general? how can i get him outta my head? weve always been close friends, but not THAT close...i dont wanna lose the friendship.

2007-08-29 08:44:28 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 08:44:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 32 and have been dating a 30 year old guy for 1 year 4 months. We have had a lot of fights about jealousy. He is a very social person with a lot of female friends. He keeps meeting new girls all the time and I get to meet all of them too eventually. Recently he met a girl that works in his building, he introduced her to his coworkers they started all going out for drinks once a week. He clearly told her and all coworkers I know that he has a girlfriend. But after 2 months when I finally met her at happyhour she was rude to me, it was obvious that she thought there been a chance to get him. He was very surprised, agreed that suddenly does seem like she might have misunderstood. I am jealous and claim that he is flirting and sending girls wrong signals. He claims he is just friendly (part of spanish culture) always superclear about having a girlfriend. He just met a new friend at a brunch this weekend and has emailed her about meeting for lunch. He claims it is not flirting? Trust??

2007-08-29 08:43:59 · 12 answers · asked by losing my mind 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just curious on people's opinions because nowadays it seems that people fall out of love, cheat, or just do stupid things in a marriage. People divorce even after 5, 10, 15 years of marriage still. Do you think love doesn't last nowadays?

2007-08-29 08:42:49 · 10 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Now, call me naive if you need to, but I hear all this crap about women saying "size matters." My ex complained heavily that she couldn't take it in anymore and that it was hurting her. Now, I'm not the longest brotha out there, so what was she talking about?

2007-08-29 08:42:19 · 5 answers · asked by King Matthew 2 in Singles & Dating

when things happen like 3-5 times a week and i tell each and everything rightaway and expect some responce. I DO NOT make him resolve things coz dats unfair i knw except when big things arises.

We have debates and fights over the way he act practically e.g if really horrible things happening and he goes to some particular member of family and keep laughing and pretend nothing happens.

Even when couple of his family members will say chat with him all the time and im sitting there but wont ever give me importance. e.g his brother's wife would be all so nice to our baby and even do drama of love and will only keep pleasing my hubby and ignore me all together.

He knws it but still will engage in chit chats with her and never ignore her back just like her husband (my bro-in-law) does to me.

when we have fights over such stuff as why he chatted with her, how come it becomes nagging which has to be stopped by me.

2007-08-29 08:41:49 · 2 answers · asked by abeer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and boyfriend have just started having sex, i was a virgin and he's been with 2 other girls before me. We use condoms and i'm on the pill but the thing is i really really wanna give him oral, he hasn't asked me to or anything, i just wanna, he hasn't offered me any eitha ( :( so any advise on hinting this please also). I'm just worried about STD's and stuff because i can understand guys not wanting to use condoms for oral (again he hasn't asked me so he isn't pressuring me) but isn't this a bit unsafe?? We've been doing stuff for a while and i haven't come up with any simptoms for herpes so i guess he doesn't have that, will it be ok if i don't use a condom?

Should i ask him to get tested first or not worry?
What do other girls do with this situation cos none of my friends use condoms for oral but do for sex? I would prefer not to use condoms for oral!

p.s. we're 18 if this makes any difference

2007-08-29 08:40:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just want to know if that is what the case is. If so, then those are the girls I know not to waste my time with. This happened to me once today and once yesterday (my other 3 or 4 (I didn't really count) 'try to talk to a new girl' attempts were successful). I feel like if someone's trying to talk to you then you could wait a couple minutes to get on the phone for an everyday conversation. I know that's her choice, but that's just my opinion and that's why if that's what the case is, then I comply because I'm not wasting time and I'm not fixing to get into any trouble.

2007-08-29 08:39:50 · 13 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

have you ever loved someone soo much..but you guys could not be toughter..

2007-08-29 08:36:32 · 3 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

Everytime my girlfriend even so much as saids a guys name I think hes going to try something or shes going to cheat. I really love my girlfriend and I just wanna keep her with out worring about every guy shes with can anyone help me?

2007-08-29 08:35:50 · 4 answers · asked by josh g 2 in Singles & Dating

i recently broke up with my wife and i really love her. should i fight for her and send her flowers and write her a poem to try to let her know im sorry?

2007-08-29 08:34:19 · 70 answers · asked by notaglumguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible for a person to love an inanimate object as much or more than a person?

2007-08-29 08:34:11 · 25 answers · asked by thathirdrail 2 in Singles & Dating

This isnt really a question but i think i know you cuz that sounds really familiar to me.....can you try to email me? from yahoo answers????

2007-08-29 08:33:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this guy & i that have been 'casually' seeing eachother for a little while.(i mean hookin up when we see eachother...we live at opposite ends of state) i really like him, he says he likes me. we had plans to meet in the middle for a couple days, but that fell throughand he ended up having to stay for work. i ended up going to see him. i was there for a day or so then he said that he would have to work on his house all day the last day i was there. he keeps telling me that we cant have anything more b/c of our distance. i went there hoping to see if there was any chance of there being an "us". i think he took my trip as me going out there for just sex since he keeps saying we cant have anything. i havent talked to him in a couple days b/c we got in a little argument when i left, but 2nite he says that i used him by going to see him. what does that mean? if anything, i feel i got used b/c i went hoping for more than just sex. help...

2007-08-29 08:30:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it wrong for a girl to pick you up from your house and drive you to the movie theatres for a date?

2007-08-29 08:29:46 · 26 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this is how it is. I'm a senior in high school and have NEVER had a girlfriend. I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm 6'2, in good shape, I have a job at Hollister, I'm pretty popular and I know a lot of people. I'm not cocky at all, as a matter of fact, friends tell me I'm too reserved. But for some reason, I have no idea of being able to tell if a girl is showing interest in me. I used to be fat and kind of a nerd so I'll admit I have some insecurity left and I'm shy when I first meet people. Everyone tells me I have it all: looks, popularity, parents with money, and brains (4.2 GPA). I just feel like everything would be perfect if i could at least fins a girlfriend. Even though I have all these people on me, i feel lonely because i don't have a girlfriend. I know it sounds lame, but it's true. I am bad at picking up signals and even worse at asking a girl out, HELP!!

2007-08-29 08:29:20 · 30 answers · asked by JM 1 in Singles & Dating

I had an AFFAIR on ex. husband with my 1st love who was his older brother (i'm older then my EX. by 7 years) after 24 years of marriage!

I hurt my son ( 13 soon to be 14 in NOV.) to the point that he now has POST TRUMATIC STRESS, and has violent outburst when I'm around for and period of time.

The last time he was with me I made a real stupid joke when my then O/man felt me up and said to my son after "a finger in the right place can do wonders" with no thought of hurt I inflicted on him, when he yelled at me I said "grow up it's a joke"!

He got violent, pick up candle stick holder and started to hit both of us , yelling "IT'S JUST A JOKE, IT'S JUST A JOKE".

O/man was hospitalized he's now in wheel chair, I have broken facial bones and jaw!

Son was brought to a judge, she heard why it happen she dismissed case and had Phyic. revue done that how "PTS" charted!

I lost my son that day, and stole his innocents for sex!
I'd want that back for him.
What yours?

2007-08-29 08:28:03 · 15 answers · asked by April Snow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

(1) a girl with a wild fun side, flirts a lot, has had a lot of sexual experience with men
(2) a girl with a whole lot of morals, sort of goody two shoes sometimes, no sexual experience

2007-08-29 08:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just recently turned 20 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We are both virgins because we prefer to wait to have sex when the time is right.
Instead of sex, he wants oral... but I'm definitely not a fan of that. I hate the taste and liquids... that might sound immature, but it just doesn't cut it for me. He gets mad at me because I don't want to do it. Even if I tell him that a lot of girls don't like giving oral, he doesn't listen.
Plus, I don't like "receiving" anything. Because of this, he thinks I don't find him attractive. That's not the case. I just don't want to do anything.

Any tips?

2007-08-29 08:26:24 · 30 answers · asked by ♥ Lisa ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

heres a brief scenerio: Im at the club I see this fine girl, as i approach her I notice my worst fear that every guy at the club faces, THE C@CK BLOCKING FAT FRIEND!!! So, i take a heavy swag of my beer and enter the battlefield in pursuit of the pink taco. Thanks to Maxim magazines techniques and advice, i was ready for action, One strategy is for the wing man to take one for the team, another one is focus more conversation time to the fat friend, so the hot girl will think your a nice guy and not shallow and the fat friend will approve of you. There are many techniques you can use... But why put us through all this?! Because the last thing we want to hear is the fat friend saying she wants to go home, and automatically the hot girl that your rappin to immidiately listens to c@ck block girl, leaving you playing with the skin flute at the end of the night. Also why do hot girls bring the fat friend out? So she can stand out being the hottest????

2007-08-29 08:23:40 · 17 answers · asked by xcuriousjorgex 1 in Singles & Dating