you have already a boyfriend but he will never know about it?
2007-08-29 08:50:44 · 20 answers · asked by woman whipped 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do it. if you want someone else why be with your bf at all? would you want that to happen to you? have respect for yourself and the bf.
2007-08-29 08:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. How much do you Love your boyfriend? it cant be much if your thinking of cheating on him! then again i feel for you because lust is a horrible thing but its easy to overcome, im not telling you what to do im just saying theres always a possibility of someone finding out! id just keep the guy i wanted out of my mind and spend more time with my boyfriend i mean if i wanted to cheat we cant have a really good relationship, id try and improve it somehow, try improving your relationship if that doesnt work then do what you think is best.
2007-08-29 15:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never cheat on my boyfriend.. and if i didnt want to be with him or i was falling for someone else i would break it off with him... youve probably never heard of this, but there is this thing people have called morals... some people, believe it or not, actually do the right thing and dont cheat...Cheaters are scumbags who are too scared to break off their relationships because they are afraid to be alone when everyone finds out what a scumbag they really are...if you are looking for advice on how to get away with cheating you are a scumbag too....
2007-08-29 16:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by e.kess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would put myself in my man's shoes for one... then, two, I would question why I'm in a relationship if I have to cheat? Maybe I need to keep it moving. It's not cool to cheat. It's disloyal and you should feel bad as a person to stab someone in the back. Don't cheat... just tell your man your done and keep it moving.
2007-08-29 15:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Buttafli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I felt the need to be with someone else I'd leave my boyfriend first. cheating sucks. My ex cheated on me and I swore I'd never do that to anyone. Once you experience it you'll understand.
2007-08-29 15:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is WRONG! You need to either dump the BF, and be with the other guy, or keep away from the other guy. How would you feel if he did it to you? Grow up.
2007-08-29 15:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by elizatash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been in this situation and i figured, if i'm mature enough to date two guys then i'm mature enough to be honest about it. only children who are afraid of getting in trouble tell lies. what is the worst that's gonna happen if you are open about it? maybe your bf will dump you, but that will happen anyway if he finds out about the other guy or when you feel guilty and tell him.
if you feel you must lie, then it means that deep down you KNOW you are doing something wrong. if you know it is wrong, don't do it. in my situation, both guys were ok with it because it also gave them freedom. i wasn't sexually active with both. one of them didn't care if i talked to him about the other guy. the other one never wanted to hear about the other guy so we pretended he didn't exist when we were together. i was able to hang out with both of them all summer, go to movies and dinner and never pay, and still no one's feelings got hurt.
it was one great summer.
2007-08-29 15:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my bf and would not cheat on him . Not even if I had the chance.
2007-08-29 15:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Constance M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do it if you want to be with the other person then break up with your bf . dont drag him into this!and not only that but how would you feel if he did this to you....i doubt very happy...but yourself in his shoes
2007-08-29 15:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by pinky1128 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe somebody is asking such a disgusting question. If you aren't happy with who you're with- then tell him, don't be so immoral.
2007-08-29 15:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by John T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋