I had an AFFAIR on ex. husband with my 1st love who was his older brother (i'm older then my EX. by 7 years) after 24 years of marriage!
I hurt my son ( 13 soon to be 14 in NOV.) to the point that he now has POST TRUMATIC STRESS, and has violent outburst when I'm around for and period of time.
The last time he was with me I made a real stupid joke when my then O/man felt me up and said to my son after "a finger in the right place can do wonders" with no thought of hurt I inflicted on him, when he yelled at me I said "grow up it's a joke"!
He got violent, pick up candle stick holder and started to hit both of us , yelling "IT'S JUST A JOKE, IT'S JUST A JOKE".
O/man was hospitalized he's now in wheel chair, I have broken facial bones and jaw!
Son was brought to a judge, she heard why it happen she dismissed case and had Phyic. revue done that how "PTS" charted!
I lost my son that day, and stole his innocents for sex!
I'd want that back for him.
What yours?
2007-08-29 08:28:03 · 15 answers · asked by April Snow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is sick!!!
2007-08-29 08:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are truly remorseful and this says alot. You need to make amends to your son in any which way you can, without giving excuses, just taking responsiblity for what you have done and tell him how very sorry you are. Then you must learn to forgive yourself. We all are human and make mistakes, mistakes we wish we could take back. I know I have made my share of mistakes in my past, really not worth mentioning to anyone but myself, but I do thank the lord that I am able to put it past me and move forward with my life, so can you. Best of luck to you.
2007-08-29 09:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for your son, not an easy thing to deal with. I cant even come close to that story. Good luck getting him to come around to normalicy again. Unintended consequences are a bad thing sometimes.
2007-08-29 08:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Qyllix 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are absolutely no people on here that are going to be able to help you with the many problems that you have. I would suggest therapy. Lots and lots of therapy.
2007-08-29 11:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for him and the immense emotional sexual damage he's suffered. How can he ever have a girfriend like any normal boy?
2007-08-29 10:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me this is some kind of sick joke......
PTS isn't something that comes from making ONE mistake with a child.....it's from years of bad mistakes, and it looks like you've made one HECK of allot of them!
Won't even tell you MY biggest mistake.... I'm sorry....you screwed up ROYALLY and I won't lift a finger to help someone like you feel better about something like that!
You're just sick!
2007-08-29 08:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by wentfishing2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think he lost a lot more than 'his innocence for s*x'. wow that is awful, though i think your 'Oman'( ?? other man), was a complete W*nker for saying that to any young boy, never mind your son!
2007-08-29 08:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmmmmmmmm......... wow, really cant think of anything else but this: i really hope u enjoyed ur night of passion, i mean to do this to ur child, have u no remorse?
i think that ur man and u got lil compared to what u really deserve.
2007-08-29 08:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People like you shouldn't have kids.
2007-08-29 08:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Crazy stuff.
2007-08-29 08:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by boozer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not have married my ex-wife!
2007-08-29 08:51:38 · answer #11 · answered by tempest_twilight2003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋