Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

did u know tht pete whens is a selfcentere jerk and bisexual ya his bf is vocalist for The Acadamy is dnt get me wrong i like the bands is jst a fact and my friedn said tht he is truning completely gay(idk if is true) is not a question is jst tht i think u may wanna know

2007-08-29 08:22:33 · 3 answers · asked by Nansote 2 in Singles & Dating

For instance... when a guy goes out he says he's out "looking for p**sy"? The room can be full of beautiful, smart, classy women and a guy will say he's "surrounded by p**sy".
Have women gone so low on their own moral standards today that they jump into bed with just any guy and therefore are creating a reputation for all women as just being p**sy? Or have men just lost every ounce of respect for women in general?

2007-08-29 08:18:18 · 15 answers · asked by 1GR8GRL 2 in Singles & Dating

-What happens when you call - or don't call -the man in your life can truly make or break your relationship, if so how?

-Is there a such thing as not calling enough?

-How do you really feel about the woman who calls you when your not even calling her?

-What must happen for a man to fall in love with you, and how can the women influence his feelings?

-How can a women make you want her in your life more, simply by the way she handles the phone calls, text messages, and emails she send you?

2007-08-29 08:17:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 08:13:56 · 18 answers · asked by lifelover27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One day my husband went to the photo studio to develop photos from film he's had for nealy a decade. He returned with a strong desire to take kinky shots of us intimately. I found that fun and exciting and we had a blast.
The next day he asked me to get something out of his pocket book, and as I did so, I found a contact strip of he and his ex adn I'll just say, VERY pornographic. I felt ill and traumatized and obviously I am having a hard time getting over it. The worst part to me is the lying. He told me that he kept them there because he didn't want to throw them away where a small child might find them. He should of thought about putting them in a place where I would never find them, because I can't get over that horrible image in my head!

2007-08-29 08:08:58 · 49 answers · asked by gelfling 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 08:06:28 · 37 answers · asked by Robert D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a male friend (I'm married) who I like to go to museums and do things with because my husband does not....I asked this guy to go to something else with me and he said "you aren't my girl"...does he like me or is jealous of my husband?

2007-08-29 08:03:16 · 6 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Singles & Dating

your depressed?
any like solutions to make you feel better?
cuz im having a real rough day and i already felt like cutting and ****
and i wanna get over it
somehow
any methods?
id appreciate it

2007-08-29 08:02:56 · 33 answers · asked by Landon 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't ask for much, just love me. Give my attention. I want someone I can depend on. A guy who will love me for me, and not trying to change me. Where are you guys? I am tired of going on dates, or having relationships after relationships. I mean, I am nice, respectful, fun person. I am 130lbs, 5"2 in height. I know my way around the kitchen a bit. I am very passionate, affectionate. I love giving attention to my partner. I am not too expensive. I don't wear Jewelry, don't buy brand name clothes. I dress nice. I am attractive. Damn, where the hell are you guys. I keep meeting these good for nothing men, who wants nothing more the usual. I want to settle down, have two kids(if God is willing), spend sunday night eating dinner with my family. cuddle in front of tv talking about any stupid things. I want to be chase around the house. I want to be expected to come home at a certain time. I want somebody I could get mad at once in a while and still can say u are the love of my life.

2007-08-29 08:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by Je T'aime 1 in Singles & Dating

If he calls you on his birthday. I was dating this guy, and I had not heard from him in a week or so, and then his birthday came, and I didn't not call him because I was taking it for what it was which was, maybe we were not talking anymore, and he would get around to giving me the memo, but instead on his birthday he called me around 11pm just to talk to me for a couple of hours. There was no talk about sex or hanging out or anything, we just had a normal conversation, and I wished him a happy birthday.

2007-08-29 08:01:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after asking my spouse to quit all contact w/these friends of hers she agreed she would. since that time her phone has been in her hand, left on silent or turned off pretty much 100% of the time. she has told me a couple of times that she has rec no text or calls from anyone. i have so much hope that she is for real but i know that there has got to b a reason for the phone being secured in this fashion. my question is this: do i wait for concrete proof of communication between her & them to do something or should i just tell her that i dont appreciate being treated like im stupid and do something?

2007-08-29 08:00:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You and your partner live together, one is leaving, says bye, but doesn't give you a kiss or nothing, is it over-reacting to get a bit bothered by this?

2007-08-29 08:00:18 · 14 answers · asked by LatinCaramel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a relationship a few months ago, where I was head over heels in love with this girl... and she was pretty accepting, which lead me to believe she retained some of the same feelings. Well, to make a long story short she dumped me for another guy after I left college. (Like literally a few weeks after she broke off, wth) Anyway, I'd do anything to have her back and I'm still hurting, but she's not hearing it... oh well, that's not the point. The question is, before she actually let me go, she started generally ignoring me and being kind of cold. Albeit, I wasn't around her all the time, as I had moved.. I still thought we could make things work. I told her I was thinking about her all the time and I missed her alot, which was totally true... and she proceeded to claim that I was "infatuated" and in a negative connotation at that. I care very deeply for her and I told her that? But do girls typically view that as just creepy infatuation or something?

2007-08-29 07:56:57 · 7 answers · asked by e mitch 1 in Singles & Dating

How many women have their guy wear pantyhose for this
reason- for support being on their legs all day, for warmth,
and / or for comfort?

2007-08-29 07:56:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-29 07:53:19 · 79 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to deal with a trouble at work. You feel like everyone is looking at you in a bad way, everyone is gossiping about you, you feel like people you trusted betrayed you and are now using this against you and your boss picks up on it and accuses of you not fitting into the team and showing his concerns over it. My first reaction is to distant myself to protect myself but people see it as you being negative.

2007-08-29 07:52:30 · 1 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ahlmndr7PLZ4pvD.Sb9y4g9IzKIX?qid=20070826111628AABajtc

your comments please?

2007-08-29 07:50:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My color light brown and either light blue or champagne. I want somethng guests can take home and they won't die.

2007-08-29 07:47:41 · 22 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

A girl i like I catch looking at me across the room like 3 times today (there was alot of people in the room) and the last time I caught her I looked her in the eyes and she looked down with her eyes then away and me and some one else were laughing about something I looked at her and she was smiling and laughing along with me. Shes not shy but she wont approach me. she seems to fix her hair and clothes all the time but maybe its just her. She did ask me what i did in class one day and then asked if it was fun . We both know each other but not well when she sees me she doesnt say hi is she waiting for me to say it to her or what

2007-08-29 07:44:10 · 1 answers · asked by dhfdfg 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so i come from a very italian new york family and i would realy like it if i could tell my parents about any of my relationships with guys but if they dont aprove of them then iam forbited to see them
should i tell them about my bf?
or should i just keep it to my seldf

2007-08-29 07:42:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This morning my wife, of just under eleven years, told me that she's leaving me today. She's taking the kids and going back home to her dad's.
My question, regarding this matter, is why does it not bother me? When she told me, I almost felt as if a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. Am I over her, or do I just not realize what's happened yet?

2007-08-29 07:41:45 · 45 answers · asked by daniel j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He's 22, I'm 27. It's so hard to have lucid conversations about emotional topics because he blows his top before you even finish your say. Sat. night he calls upset about a big problem with school. He asks, ASKS, what I think, what to do. I ask clarifying questions and start to talk. I don't even get to FINISH as he thinks I'm b!tching at him and hangs up on me. I call back, leave a message about growing up (reference to the hang up) and taking responsibility w/out lashing out on others trying to help. He calls back (I don't think he got the message yet) and proceeds to CURSE at me for being the "superior older sister." I hang up, I don't need this abuse. He seeks me out when it's too late, doesn't like what I have to say even when I try to be sensitive, and makes me the bad guy. Funny since he always accuses me of being too nice to people. I'm flying home from out of state for the weekend and don't know what to do, what to tell our parents if he refuses to see me, I'm so fed up!

2007-08-29 07:39:44 · 5 answers · asked by Sophra 3 in Family

2007-08-29 07:38:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom and I have been fighting for years. I am 16 and she often gets angry at me for talking back or being fresh. I will admit that I am not a perfect angel - I have started SOME of these fights and sometimes fight back or swear at her, too. She has told me she hates me, but on the "good days" she denies she has said that. Now, she makes sure that she tells me "You deserve every bad thing that happens to you...when you're like this" or "you are an embarassment to our family...when you're like this." She does hit me a lot, and not on the hand or butt, but on the arm multiple times once after I got a blood test on the same arm, and across my face REALLY HARD (once so hard that I blacked out in one eye for a moment). On the day of the blood test, when I hadn't eaten all morning, she threatened to drive me home the long way so I couldn't eat at all. She also threatened to postpone my driver's test, yet refuses to drive me anywhere I want to go to "teach me a lesson." I can't deal. HELP!

2007-08-29 07:36:17 · 21 answers · asked by H 1 in Family

My mom and my day have been married for 24 years but my mom really wants to get married in the Catholic church. She tried already a few years ago. The thing is my dad was married before. Not through any religious ceremony but he was married and the priest didn't want to approve their marriage because they couldn't find the marriage license of his ex-wife even though they do have his divorce papers. Is there any way they can get married without the license. I would think that the divorce papers would be proof enough that my dad was married. I have been researching this and can't find any answers and my mom is really desperate. Please help!

2007-08-29 07:32:39 · 6 answers · asked by MIMI 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does he like me?

-every time i sign into msn hes the first person to say hi. (within a few seconds)
-teases me about little things
-talks for hours and hours everyday
-cant wait for school on tuesday so he can see a few people that he hasnt seen so much (then he added a wink ;))
-wants me to go to dances, so they will be more fun
-when ever i say somthing about me looking like shi* or being ugly or somthing he always says that im pretty, and this one time i askd him to HONESTLY rate me out of 10..he said 7.8 (is that even good?)
-we just started being friends in grade 9 but were pretty close, i can trust him with ANYTHING, and he can trust me.
-eventhough wer are underage (like 15) he asks me to go out and party with him eventhough im not the type to do that
-he tries to include me in things..


i cant think of anything else at the moment..

does he like me? or just friends?

2007-08-29 07:26:55 · 2 answers · asked by ain't nobody but me.. 2 in Singles & Dating

I have seen in a few answers that the price of the gift should be comparable to what the bride and groom would be spending on you as a guest to attend the wedding. In essence to cover your meal and such. Has this always been the 'rule'. I think that is absurd. Why should I pay more for couple X mearly because they wanted to use the caterer that charges $90.00 a plate? Is this really the general concensus?

2007-08-29 07:20:53 · 31 answers · asked by Question Addict 5 in Weddings

Like if the women is 25 and the man is...49?

2007-08-29 07:18:59 · 29 answers · asked by Jane 3 in Singles & Dating

So I'm 22yrsold, sophmore in college, and I want to get married. I don't know what it is...(well I do know what it is, I'm sick of dating) , but I want to get married. I don't care what anyone else thinks, I want to start my family life young. I've always wanted to get married and start a family young, my parents both did, and it's just in my blood. Family is the most important thing to me in life. Everyone I have talked to, however, says that I'm really young to get married. I do not think 22 is young, and even so, I don't have a set date/year/or even a man! The thing is, and how I see it, is that I'm NOT going to pass up a good opportunity with someone I truly connect with and view as my soulmate, despite what my age is and what others view as acceptable. I dictate my own life! I'm not shopping for a husband, but I'm not dating casually either. I want something longterm, stable, and something I can build upon, and if it leads to marriage then great, even better.

2007-08-29 07:15:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After my own crazy experience of trying to plan my wedding which will be October 13th... I figured there are probably others out there that like me, want to cater their own wedding. Well, my future husband has been a chef for 11 years and we decided that other people may have use for a book (we are in the process of writing it) that includes easy to follow, but elegant recipes with menu suggestions so that people can cater their own weddings without having to put out all the crazy expense of having a company do it. Included would be set up ideas for displaying the food, as well as garnishing ideas. Each with step by step details to make it easy for the less experienced! Would you have a use for this book? Would it make planning for your big day easier? What would you expect to pay for this type book?

2007-08-29 07:14:30 · 10 answers · asked by Mariposa 2 in Weddings