You and your partner live together, one is leaving, says bye, but doesn't give you a kiss or nothing, is it over-reacting to get a bit bothered by this?
2007-08-29 08:00:18 · 14 answers · asked by LatinCaramel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't think so. I'd be upset too. Does he usually kiss you goodbye?
Did something happen to make him angry beforehand?
Or was he perhaps so upset about his destination or departure that he didn't want to get more upset by saying good bye?
Well, I think that it is important to talk about this when he is back.
Was he leaving for work? If so, you'll just have to wait the end of the day to have a chat with him about it. But do not jump on his case as soon as he comes in. Maybe later on, after dinner, while relaxing? just say how you felt when he left without a kiss or saying good bye.
Don't accuse, say how YOU FELT and ask if there was a particular reason why it happened.
Good luck.
2007-08-29 08:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you always kiss good bye? My husband and I have always said good bye with a kiss when he leaves from work and when we go to bed, even when I am asleep I can feel when he kisses me. If in your case is only ocassionally then you do not have to be upset. What you can do, is to start making it a habit for both of you that way he will do it without you asking him to
2007-08-29 13:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's happend to me before where he I walked him to the door as he was leaving for work and didn't give me a kiss. It upset me the whole day for some reason, but I guess you can call it over-reacting.
I make sure that he doesn't leave the house without giving me a kiss and a big hug because you'll never know....things could happen
2007-08-29 08:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tulip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal to be bothered or upset. First try communicating your feelings to your partner.Make a game out of it that might also help. To avoid any hard feelings we both make the extra effort to hug and kiss whenever either of us is leaving. Never leave without a proper greeting because you never know what will happen ( not to be morbid or anything).
2007-08-29 10:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be bothered if your partner does n ot give you a kiss when he leaves!! He may have too much on his mind for that morning! Don't blw things out of proportion if you don't have to! This normally works really well, when you guys get home give him a kiss and casually say you owe me another one for the one you forgot to give me this morning!!! He should smile and everything should be fine!
2007-08-29 08:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by veronica h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a loving routine for every day, then yeah, I'd be sad...I wouldn't get mad..but I'd tell him I didn't feel right all day long because he didn't give me a kiss or hug or whatever our routine is before he left, because you never know it could be your last.
I miss that...that is one thing about being single you don't get those good bye kisses everyday and the hello huggs.
2007-08-29 08:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get sad, cuz you never know if that will be the last time you see that person and who wants to live with the guilt that the last time you saw that person you never even gave them a kiss goodbye or said i love you
2007-08-29 08:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is something they always do and then one day they don't I would be upset.
If it isn't something they normally do, I wouldn't be upset, but I would change it. Try kissing them first, make it a regular thing.
2007-08-29 08:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a good trip Maple Leaf, give me some hugs :D
2016-05-21 01:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by lenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be a little upset but dont go over board.
2007-08-29 08:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋