I was in a relationship a few months ago, where I was head over heels in love with this girl... and she was pretty accepting, which lead me to believe she retained some of the same feelings. Well, to make a long story short she dumped me for another guy after I left college. (Like literally a few weeks after she broke off, wth) Anyway, I'd do anything to have her back and I'm still hurting, but she's not hearing it... oh well, that's not the point. The question is, before she actually let me go, she started generally ignoring me and being kind of cold. Albeit, I wasn't around her all the time, as I had moved.. I still thought we could make things work. I told her I was thinking about her all the time and I missed her alot, which was totally true... and she proceeded to claim that I was "infatuated" and in a negative connotation at that. I care very deeply for her and I told her that? But do girls typically view that as just creepy infatuation or something?
2007-08-29 07:56:57 · 7 answers · asked by e mitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"at least she didn't lead you on"
-uhm, yes. actually she did, lol. Unless receiving text messages every 5 minutes from a girl is normal.
"you're a crybaby, move on"
-done. that's not the question anyway lol.
2007-08-29 08:30:58 · update #1
No, unfortunately you don't have the same feeling for each other. I hate to say that she is probably more interested in the guy she is dating now. But don't worry, now that you are a new place you'll have more opportunities to meet other people. Someone that really appreciates you
2007-08-29 08:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by ca481 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. i understnd that your hurting right now, but your over analysing this situation. the girl dumped you. that hurts. from the sound of the way she was behaving before school was out i would suspect that she was seeing this other guy even then. she probably had it in her mind that she would stay around you til classes were over so that you wouldnt be to hurt while you were taking your final tests & stuff. then, as soon as it was iver, bam, off she went. move o n, brother. mark this one up for the experience. there's plenty of women out there who are just dying to meet you. so, wipe the tears out of your eyes, get up on your feet, & start moving around again! you'll be ok, i promise!!!!
2007-08-29 08:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls are different, just like guys.
Some girls are "clingy" or "needy" and get dumped left and right. Some guys like that though.
The same can be said of guys, as well as the fact that there are girls out there who like that.
She's obviously not the one for you, but there's plenty of girls out there who would loooove to have a guy that appreciates them and loves them.
2007-08-29 08:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much
2007-08-29 08:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by JLC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like you were into her alot more than she was into you. At least she didn't lead you on...
2007-08-29 08:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no,,shes just not interested,,move on
2007-08-29 08:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is telling u .. iforgot u....u forget me! get a real gf
2007-08-29 08:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋