I don't ask for much, just love me. Give my attention. I want someone I can depend on. A guy who will love me for me, and not trying to change me. Where are you guys? I am tired of going on dates, or having relationships after relationships. I mean, I am nice, respectful, fun person. I am 130lbs, 5"2 in height. I know my way around the kitchen a bit. I am very passionate, affectionate. I love giving attention to my partner. I am not too expensive. I don't wear Jewelry, don't buy brand name clothes. I dress nice. I am attractive. Damn, where the hell are you guys. I keep meeting these good for nothing men, who wants nothing more the usual. I want to settle down, have two kids(if God is willing), spend sunday night eating dinner with my family. cuddle in front of tv talking about any stupid things. I want to be chase around the house. I want to be expected to come home at a certain time. I want somebody I could get mad at once in a while and still can say u are the love of my life.
2007-08-29 08:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by Je T'aime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what I did. Concentrate on yourself first and one day he'll get around to you.
2007-08-29 08:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by proud of it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tamoun, Darling right here waiting for a girl like you ! But don"t get exited, I am disabled and divorced."motercycle" Sweety I am a shut in and from everything I hear and see it sounds pretty sad out there ! Where have all the truehearts gone? That is why I divorced ! My x wife said I was too serious about loving, go figure ! Honest I will pray for your good fortune in finding a gentleman !
2007-08-29 15:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it DOES matter (despite what "no screw" up there said). The reason good guys can be hard to find is because they've been dumped on by a lot of women who didn't know how good they had it and left for a bad boy, so now, when we find a good girl, we tend to stick with them.
Not allegng that that's your situation, but hopefully you'll recognize a good guy next time he comes along.
2007-08-29 15:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably give too much too soon...
The Rules is an Ok book - I would recommend The Manual by Steve Santagati. It's much more fun to read and is coming from a guys perspective. It's worth the $20 bucks.
2007-08-29 15:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly suggest you read the book "The Rules", "The Rules II" and "The Rules for Online Dating" if you choose to go that route.
Some of what they say is old-fashioned, but the rest of it is very helpful stuff. It'll help you weed out the losers and not act too desperate with the good ones.
2007-08-29 15:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your looking in the wrong places... I tell my single friends that they should look for a guy in places where they would want that guy to take them.... not online,, not in some corner bar...
One of my friends always finds a wedding to go to and she has luck finding boyfriends at those... grooms men and all :)
go out to places by yourself. Parks biking, hiking, site seeing. You'll be surprised what single guys do. they do go out by themselves much more than women think, so take advantage of this... good luck
2007-08-29 15:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've asked myself the same question. You have to open to it. Its amazing that if you don't have the confidence in yourself no guy will approach you. I started using a dating site online and it unbeleivable the hits I get and I've dated 3 guys in the last 6mths. I get hit on in public too. I changed too. You have to be ready for it. It will happen but don't think he will just fall into your lap...go out looking for him. He's there.
2007-08-29 16:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by manhunt_kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that you'll appreciate your prince more , the more frogs you kiss. You're not doing anything wrong, but hold back a bit maybe and let them do the chasing.
2007-08-29 15:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by falutd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing nothing wrong. There are no "good" men. Men are driven by lust not love. Even if you found someone after a few years you will become common to him and he will start looking at other women comparing you to them.
2007-08-29 15:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Retarded Dave 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
dont give up lookin, theres a man out there with his name written all over u lol xxxx
2007-08-29 15:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by BabyDoll 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋