i got merrid on the 10th of this month after the docters told me that jeremy only had a few days to live. He pasted away on the 15th 5 days after we got merrid HOW do i cope with this i am having a hard time with this i hve no heath inscuren to see a dr and i dont have the money plz help me its been 2 weeks to sence my husband past away how do i deal with this
2007-08-29 10:59:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People stop asking her why she married him. Obviously they LOVED each other.
I work Social Services and in the town I live in they have support groups for people for different reasons. Try calling around and see if there are any support groups. Call your local hospital and talk with the Social Services. They should be able to give you a list of Counseling agencies in your area who accept patients without insurance.
Also spend time with family and friends. Go out and do things you enjoy. Try to keep your mind busy. You won't be able to forget what happened but as time goes on you start to heal.
You have had something terrible happen to you and I wish you luck on holding your head up high and pulling through this.!!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
2007-08-29 11:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay Yes you have it bad. Remember your husband did not want to do this to you. Its understandable that your mad but thats a way of dealing with it. I think deep down your not mad your scared. Which is so normal who would not be. My brothers wife passed away a year and a half ago. He has a 14 year old daughter and a 11 year old son. Your two boys lost their daddy. You all need to get help. There are many organizations that will help. Try to find them online. Time will make you less angry and you will realize you missed him. My brother is just now dating and its hard for both him and his kids. However you are young and you will move on. When this happens try to find someone that is financially secure. I used to say to one of my friends there are so many people out there why not find one that's loaded. However don't just do it for the money. You will need to love that person or you will not be happy. Also you are a 33 year old female with two boys. Get gov. assistance if you need it. Don't be too proud. You have to survive and keep your family together. Your kids are number one for now. They are hurting inside and you need to remember this. Im very sorry for what happened to you. Sometimes life is just not fair. I like to think there is a reason for everything. You will find out what your made of. Good luck and watch your Boys. Make sure they are okay. Right now they need there Mommy. Try not to let them know your angry and don't blame your husband in front of them . Good luck....
2016-05-21 02:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry for your loss, death is never an easy thing, i just lost my aunt 2 days ago. Everyone mourns in their own way, you can try to do something, like reading or an hobbie you enjoy to get your mind off it, but its going to take a real long time to heal from this. My mom died 3 years ago and thats the biggest death i ever had to deal with, it was not easy and it was hard. Im sure you hate hearing people say they are sorry or ask if you are ok, when you not ok, you never will be the same person again. But best thoughts are to think of him, think of the person he was and how would he want you to handle this, how would he handle it. One thing my mom always told me was not to cry for her, but to be happy for the moments that you got to spend, got to experience and take those precious ones with you. It doesnt make you miss them less or love them less, it just helps you accept it. I read a book by Silvia Brown called the other side and beyond, which talks about what happens when you die and how to help the ones stil here to cope and it actually helped put my mind at ease being able to understand what happened and to know whats going on....hope that helps!
2007-08-29 11:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jersey Sweetheart 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
merrid?
docters?
past?
pasted?
get a job and spelling lessons.
2007-08-29 15:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry to hear that....The best way to cope with it is by the help of GOD....He will give you strength to cope with it all...
2007-08-29 12:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by caramel_sexy20 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Deal with it one day at a time. I am curious, why did you marry him when you knew he was going to die so soon, and why did he agree to marry you when he knew he was not going to be there for you? Truly sorry for your loss.
2007-08-29 11:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by John D 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get out- spend time with family and friends. talk to people.. don't law around all day
2007-08-29 11:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I felt sorry for u... U need time to deal with it... God bless u!!!!
2007-08-29 11:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by back2future 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pray for healing and I will do the same for you.
2007-08-29 11:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why did u marry him,u knew he is going to die...i dont get it....
2007-08-29 11:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Woman 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋