How to make MY hubby do just few things ,just COZ I WANT IT.
Like making him be just polite but resreved INSTEAD of being very nice to couple of females who i hate like anything.
1. ONE WHO Tried everything to let our marriage not happen and him/his family to choose her.
2. OTHER ONE who is playing games n politics to make me look bad, creating lot of troubles in my inlaws and hubby. bro's wife. Ignore me, try to win my hubby by all time giving him attention, pick our baby and carry her love her infront of him only.
My hubby knew about both, all they did. Still would be nice to them. How can i make him not 2 be friendly with them andjust stick to hello hi.Nagging for years hasn't worked. I gave up for first girl.
2nd one is latest prob? Such things 've strained our marriage to point of breakup.
my enemies shuld be his too (imp)
& my friends his friends(not imp)
We were best friends + lovers b4 marriage 10 yrs.
dont i deserve dat he listen me on this.HELP suggest
2007-08-29 10:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by abeer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BREANNA dear i got wt u r saying. But my point is i get hurt of his attitude.
If my family member would do this to my hubby, i wont tolerate that.
2007-08-29 11:19:43 · update #1
I would agree that in theory, if these girls make you uncomfortable, he should respect how you feel and try to distance himself from them. However, these girls were around when you married him and to a point, you chose him knowing (at least somewhat) that they might end up being part of the package deal. If you trust him not to cheat on you with these girls, and it sounds like you do, then you also need to trust that he isn't going to let them break you up. Explain to him how his behavior to them makes you feel, but then tell him that you trust him and will let him make his own decisions on what he does with that information. Then try to find peace if you can, don't let those girls keep you from enjoying the parts of your life that they can't touch.
2007-08-29 11:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Breanna C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might help if you weren't so (i hate to say it) nagging...let him be--has he done anything to hurt the relationship between the two of you such as an affair? jealousy is not the way to go
2007-08-29 11:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mindy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he needs to make a mutually exclusive decision: either them or you, but not both.
2007-08-29 11:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do much except express your feelings to him he ultimately has to come to grips and make better choices.
2007-08-29 11:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Maybe growing up will help both of you.
2007-08-29 11:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋