If your wife has not give you oral pleasure in a month or so would you be mad? you both still have sex but no oral? Do you think it's fair to say that the wife does not recieve it so you should not either? thoughts?
2007-08-29 08:52:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i haven't had oral pleasure in a really long time but to answer your question...the man has no right to be upset, if he's not willing to give he shouldn't expect to receive!
2007-08-29 12:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well when married and you are really suppose to love each other one will do things that one some times don't like to do...you know sex don't last that long most time so whats a little oral or anal....neither will kill you or make you sick. and it works both ways too I'm not just saying the woman...she may not need it sexually but with other things talking emotions house work the kids love is a two way street. and both should work to keep the other happy..
2007-08-29 08:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a man but still have an opinion. A man should not try to demand oral sex. It is when and if a woman wants to. Just like a woman cannot force a man to clean up after himself or help around the house, a man cannot force a woman to do that to him.
2007-08-29 08:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well from the other end of the stick my wife loves get'n eat'n and i love eat'n her .. BUT .. she does not enjoy giving the oral... =( we have had many discusion about this topic and have agreed of others things she can do for me to make me happy while lacking in this field. Remember its all about the 'two way street' and its not confined to I do so they should or they do so i should ... It should and is suppose to be as even and fair as possible. So he doesnt like eating, find something else for him to do ... but if you dont mind giving oral and he enjoys dont punish him just because he doesnt eat! So to sum up ... if you are punishing him with not giving bjs because he isnt a carpet muncher then yes i would be mad and you need to express what he can do to even the palying field. IF your not giving bjs cause you dont like to then you need to explain so he doesnt get mad and find something else you both enjoy or you can tolerate. As far as fair ... well thats to the eye of the beholder .. but there are otherways to make it fair other than if i do oral you have to do oral... you can make it if i do oral than you have to .... and you fill in the blank .. Hope it helps and good luck ..
2007-08-29 09:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no obligation whatsoever on anyone to give oral sex, so if and when the lady doesn't want to give it, that's fine - there are plenty of other enjoyable things to do. Nor do I think that it's a tit-for-tat thing. If I go down on her that's because I like to, not to make her do the same for me.
Hope you can work that out with your husband.
2007-08-29 08:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by cyranonew 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am not into oral, but if I received it, then I would give it. I think that's fair.
2007-08-29 09:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be equal - I enjoy doing that for my man, but if he didn't do it for me, I probably wouldn't want to do it as often - he knows that is one of my favorite things, and enjoys doing it, so we both get a lot of oral action. Fun stuff.
2007-08-29 09:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by HooliganGrrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to object I eeat at the Y everyday and my spouse likes oral so if she didn't feel like polishing the knob I would be ok we have an suction on our swimming pool that I frequent on a daily basis it just clogs up the pump sometimes
2007-08-29 08:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think oral is an important part of foreplay. I love going down on my wife, even though she doesn't always reciprocate. It's all good.
2007-08-29 08:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I always try to give oral to my wife! I like it alot. But she doesn't like to do oral on me, even when I beg her. Bummer!
2007-08-29 09:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by pain_of_unhappiness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋