i have a girlfriend that alrady has one kid from me and i am only 16 and i just fround that she is going to have another baby again what should i do should i brake up with her or what
2007-08-29 08:52:33 · 17 answers · asked by Joseph G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you crazy stay with her grow up and be a man. a real man. support love her dont elave when things are the hardest to deal. do everything you in power i mean everything to make this work. do not leave.
2007-08-29 17:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by answermania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. USE CONDOMS!!!!!
2. What kind of punk runs off on the mother of his children? You should be ashamed of yourself. Yeah, you're only 16, but at 16, you still should know better. You know what? Maybe you should break up with her. She could do FAR better than you. I hope she goes after your @$$ for as much child support as she can get!
2007-08-29 15:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by elizatash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello?????!!!!!! It a little too late to brake up you should of thought about that before you were having sex with her. Grow up and deal with it. Running will not solve anything. I suggest after this one you two get some effective birth control. And get yourselves together
2007-08-29 15:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the other baby yours too? If it is then you need to take responsibilty for having sex with your girl friend most likely unprotected after already making that mistake. If you don't have feelings for her anymore then you can break up with her, but you should still be there for her and the baby. If you still like her then why would you break up with her?
2007-08-29 15:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man, those kids are your responsibilty, if u dont take care of them u aint got no self respect, dignity and ure not a man...you didnt complain when u where maken em n when u chose not to wear a condom so suck it up...
2007-08-29 15:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Golden State Warrior 4 Life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why the heck would you brake up with her. You got her pregnant she is your responsibility and you ow her. I hate to see guys run away in fear it makes me so mad. This is exactly why you should wait til marriage.
2007-08-29 15:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by kellylizzz :). 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man up. you're the one who had unprotected sex, and now needs to face the consequences.
just like a typical young dude to weasel out of his responsibilities.
GROW A PAIR AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT!
2007-08-29 15:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you break up with her because the 2 of you created a child. You do realize that she wasn't alone in the creation of this child.
2007-08-29 15:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by labken1817 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you need to keep it in your pants if you're going to be that irresponsible. Why leave her? It took two to make the baby, so be a responsible man and live up to your responsibilities. You play, you pay!
2007-08-29 15:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
is it your baby?if so dont brake up with her cuz both of you were to imature to use protetion...the baby doent' deserve to grow up with out a father becase of you 2..be mature and deal with it..if you two are obviously mature enough to have sex den you are mature enough to handle the outcome
2007-08-29 15:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by pinky1128 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋