I have friends, some r married & some have girfriends. Most of them r always looking at other women with keen interest & they say 'What a hottie'. They fantasize about them. For them it is a normal thing. They r even ready to have a Fling with other women.
They see celebrities on TV or Cinema & they like to see them nude & they enjoy watching them.
Some say they r in true love with their partners, then why do they look at other women & fantasize about them.
Do Married women & those having boyfriend do the same?
2007-08-29 05:57:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing at all wrong about people in relationships (married or not) to fantasize about others...in fact, it's VERY common. Our imaginations are a safe place to play and act out anything we can think of, without any repercussions or downsides.
Having fantasies has nothing to do with how much one loves their partner...it's natural for humans to wonder what it would be like to be with others...that is a physical curiosity, not an emotional one.
2007-08-29 06:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is just that... fantasy. It's the one safe place you can indulge in all your desires without harm to yourself and others. Of course women look at other men and fantasize about them too. We're all human. It's when you get to the point that you're seriously considering cheating on your partner to fulfill a fantasy that you're in trouble.
2007-08-29 06:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It proves the fallacy of the relationship called 'love'. Yes , women are not also out of it !! If love is all about exchange of feelings then how true we all are to fantasize any one other than the lover!! But who cares for morality ? Only the fools!!
2007-08-29 06:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by priyabrata d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my partner stopped looking, I would be worried. Humans have 5 senses, and if something is in front of our eyes but we don't see it... something is wrong.
I am happy that my partner enjoys whatever "scenery" is on offer, and I take note of what draws his eye. Maybe there's a fantasy I can help him play out, a type of shirt he'd like me wearing, etc. It's not a threat, it's not cheating, it's being an average healthy human being.
If there is mutual respect in a relationship, no one ever has to fear that their partner is going to cheat. And if them just looking at other people produces insecurity, it's time for couples counseling. Learn to relax a bit.
2007-08-29 06:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh man...lol...tough one.
I know that most men are visual...and women are actually visual creatures too. It's just that maybe women are not as open abt it as men do.
I believe that my partner do look at other women and MAYBE fantasize about them.
I just....try to deny it and not think about it because whats the point? ill only end up feeling jealous.
Hey c'mon....we also have our rights to think that Michael buble is hot right?
2007-08-29 06:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ms B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets be honest, here !
I do look at other women, and there is nothing that I believe
wrong with that....
I do have a girlfriend myself, but I do not disrespect her. when
another woman or women are close by.
And women do the same thing, look and check out men !
but they do it.. in a way where they don't get caught.
Us men always get caught ? lol
2007-08-29 06:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Annie wot a load of rubbish.... MAKHAN what you are seeing or experiencing is natural normal behavior of the human race weather man or woman... so enjoy your life and don`t worry to much about what other people think or you will spend your life liven it to someone Else's tune as they say.....
2007-08-29 06:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by ICEMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people in this world are corrupt...I personaly dont think its right at all! whatever you do? dont do the same thing. Love is a precious thing. If your in love you need to be with that ONE person and dont pay attention to other woman or men.
2007-08-29 06:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋