We were having a chat after sex, and he was about to correct me on my 'oral' technique, but quickly bit his tongue....
which is a bit strange, because he's never gone down on me ever!....
???
2007-08-29 05:45:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to do it himself HA HA Ha!!!!!!
2007-08-29 05:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by nne1072002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think he was going to complain. I was always told that the best sex to have of any kind is telling a person how to please you. I remember when I did it for the first time years ago, and my boyfriend at the time (who was more experienced) told me to try, and not let my teeth him so much, and he told me how to hold it as well as a few other things. After I mastered it, he told me it was the best. My take on it is maybe he was going to tell you how to do it so it could be more pleasurable for him because you don't have a penis, and he knows what feels good to him, why would you not want to hear what he has to say. When and if he goes down on you, and being that there is a wrong way to go down on a girl, would you let him do it the wrong way just for the sake of saying he's done it, I hope not. Ask him to tell you what he was going to say, and don't take offense to it, just listen and learn. Everyone who is a great lover now had to be taught to be that way through someone else teaching them, and/or books.
2007-08-29 12:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is ur bf or you are just friends with benefits?
Basically, he is just another selfish brat wanting to hv his enjoyment. Tell him what you like and see how he react the next rd. A gd sex partner should understand that if they want to cater to the other party to get what they prefer ya.
If he is ur bf, be open and just take it as a session to know each other likings.
2007-08-29 13:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Miko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even though it isn't fair that he doesn't go down on you, he does know what he wants. So, if he corrects you, I wouldn't take too much offense. We all have things we like a certain way and if it is any other way it just isn't as good.
2007-08-29 12:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy myself, I would never tell a woman !
How bad a BJ was given...
But your BF, is just thinking about himself !
He should be glad & lucky... that he is getting BJ from you.
the next time - he wants a BJ ? you tell him to take care of you first..... and after he is done, tell him how bad he was !
See how he reacts to that..
2007-08-29 12:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesnt want to go down on you. Otherwise he would have spilled the beans on how he would like you to do it.
But, you get an A in my book for at least trying to please him. I go crazy for girls that give BJ's...and yes...I return the favor. haha.
Pay him no attention unless he is returning the favor, otherwise, listen to his suggestions.
2007-08-29 12:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Until he returns the favor to you, he can't say anything.....even after he is done and you tell him he was bad, he still shouldn't say anything if he wants it again in the future.
2007-08-29 13:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should encourage open communication in that regard. You should convey that you are willing to do anything that is pleasing. And then you should communicate to him what you want that is pleasing too.
2007-08-29 12:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all have to learn at some point.........
He probably dont do it because he is bad at it.......
Tell him that if you do it to me ill do it to you.....see what he says.
Tell him your wondering if he sucks at it too......lol
Go along with it
2007-08-29 12:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by oklasoonersgrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm, well he shouldnt be complainin, he should be greatful, if its that bad, he should do it him self.
2007-08-29 12:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋