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my exbf and I went out 2 yrs ago,we werent on speaking terms but i recently contact him to hang out b4 leaving for college. He agreed and we met up, hung out and kissed at the end of the night (that was our first kiss together) . A week later he left for college but kept in touch; calling me, texting me saying he misses me and wants to kiss me..etc. Well, when he came down from college he asked to see me, I agreed. But I had seen pictures of him and his "ex" girlfriend (he had told me they were broken up and werent really speaking to eachother) rather affectionate on the girl's FACEBOOK. This made me suspicious so I brought a camara with me and met up with him. We made out a lot and he was very affectionate and rather lustful with me..he said things like "things couldve been diff. btw. us" "you are soo good looking" "you are a cool chick to hang out with" and said wow a lot and kissed me alot. At the end, I took out my camara and asked him to pose with me. Well guess what? He hid his

face under his baseball cap and told me "next time we get together i promise you can take as many pics as you want of us" he ran away when I insisted. He said "i dont like taking pics" "pinky promise next time!!" I asked "why not now what is the difference" he said "i dont take pics with anybody" I asked him "r u in a relationship?" he said "NO why would I? i am in college."
he wouldnt even take a pic alone.
he asked for a hug before we parted and I was furious so i didnt give him one and i got in my car and we both drove off. Later that night, I text him "tonight was amazing, I guess we do have chemistry after all" he hasn't replied since. Its been since Sunday...
he was my first love and i am really upset over this. Do you think he'll call?
What do you think??

Answer 1

Focus on school, you two are both young and he is free to see whoever he wants. He will call you when he needs you and right now he doesn't. He has a life and so do you. Don't be upset with him, just learn from this. Don't text him are call him and when he text you, which he will, don't even ask him what took him so long to respond. Treat him the way he is treating you, sometimes you have to do that to prove a point, meaning wait a few days to respond to his text.

Answer 2

Wow...now thats what I call a rant.
Let me break this down for you coming from a guy that is not too far removed from college. You call him out of the blue just before he knows that he is going back to college. Very soon after, you too are pushing that "just friends" limit. Are you really confused as to what was going on?
He is going away to college and can very easily avoid you. Hate to break it to you but...you were used. It doesn't matter if he has a girlfried or not. You were there, willing and able. More importantly...he could turn his back on you when he went back to school.
You should have seen this coming. Don't hold your breath waiting for that phone call.

Answer 3

I've been married for 6 years now and I still don't like to take a lot of pictures with my wife, but that doesn't mean that I'm cheating on her. Does it? No. So, what I'm trying to say is give the guy a break. Now, it sounds to me like the guy is just trying to use you for a booty call or somebody to just get his grove on while he's back home. If you guy's really like each other try to make something work out in your life, if not quit waisting each others time and just remain friends. Of course their is "friends friends" and theirs "friends with privileges"...you decide what you want to be.

Answer 4

Maybe.

But I think you were dead on teh money wen you asked him if he was in a relationship, and I believe he is. No pictures? He already has some on his profile, why would he object? Because he is afraid you will psot them and he will get busted.

Don't know if he is a douchebag, but cheating and lying? Yeah, I would seriously think so. Perhaps you should either drop him altogether, or stick to being friends.

Everybody needs a drama free life.

Answer 5

well if it sounds like a duck and quacks would you consider it a duck. i think something is wrong with this picture. email his ex and see if the pics were recent and if they still 2gether. ask him about the factsu get and look him in the eyes while he tell u now if u get a feeling of lies or he seems like he's tongue tied u kno he's cheating so leave him alone be4 you get caught up in emotions and it hurts u worse than u want meaning scar you for life

Answer 6

I think he's cheating on you with his ex gf. He doesn't want to take pics with him because he thinks your going to post it up on facebook. And his ex gf will see them. I think he out smarted you! :( But don't worry about him, Move on and leave him alone. He doesn't seem like he wanted anything to do with you, that's why he wasn't staying in contact with you! Play your cards right and move one. Be smarter than him. Good Luck! Hey you have a facebook account also add me email: [e-mail]. My name on it is Alshiema Saheed. What's your?

Answer 7

I think you should steer clear of this guy. Why all this drama over this guy? Go out and date some other guys and leave this guy alone. He was just playing you for a hookup. If you want the hookup with him go for it but know it will never be anything but a hookup.

Answer 8

i think he will call eventually. but i also think he is in another realationship cuz when u wanted to take a picture with him he probably thought u wud put it online an someone he knows will see it so he hid his face under the hat. there are so many possibilities

Answer 9

guys are like this. i honestly think that he can do anything. he might be confused, or he might actually be an *** and be in a relationship. but you have known him for a long time, (as you said, you went out with him for 2 years) so you should know what he's like and when he's lying to you.

Answer 10

He has a girl friends in college and he is just using u as his "home peice" you knew about it and u still went along with it... he will keep using u til he cant get away with it any more