Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

first nite of honeymoon in a really nice suite directly after wedding. both are virgins. after first nite flying directly to Tuscany, Italy for duration of honeymoon. anyway, what is right to do - first nite? embarrassed to ask: do I just start touching him soon as door close or wait until he say it's okay? what does male want? or can I freshen up immediately upon entering hotel room (take a shower) after dancing, sweating, and nerves, etc might feel better if i'm showered before the "deed." VERY nervous -- what is best to do first? thanks.

2007-08-29 15:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by camillabrightside 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 15:25:46 · 2 answers · asked by solonay 2 in Family

I like this gurl, and we are both in the same 11 grade US History class, but she sits on the other side of the room, and everyone kinda has seats they sit in every day, they're not assigned, but i dont really want to take someones seat. And i know i need to get to know her before I make any moves, But i dont know how to get to know her, because i dont know what to say if i see her in the halls. (Actually its a portable, so it would be on the way back to the school) and i dont want to make her late.

What should I do?

2007-08-29 15:23:58 · 3 answers · asked by helix 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im in my late teen with a girlfriend. and i'm having some problems with overprotective and racist parents.

they say i can't go anywhere after 8, and i always need to go places where i know the direction.
my GOD DAMN CURFEW IS 8!
they also want to know what i'm doing in college(this isnt THAT overprotective, but if they check it every hour, it gets very annoying).

i have a girlfriend who is caucasian(i'm asian) they hate her just because she is not asian. they said i shouldn't trust anyone but asian. that the fukc?
there's nothing wrong about my girlfriend. it's not like she is a slut or anything. we started to date just cuz we liked each other and we still do.

i dont have enough money to support myself. but after i get a decent job and make some money, trust me, im living away from them!

until then, what should i do?
i had some serious conversations with my parents, but they don't understand me. i mean, you know, those 'typical' asian parents.

help me please

2007-08-29 15:21:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he's 4 or 5 years older than me..we both know were interested in each other ..I dont know what to do..so i give him cold stares cause its kind of wrong and I think he's too good for me..what should I do ?..forget about him..?

2007-08-29 15:19:55 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After a series of "significant others" got through with me, I hardly know who I am. Ladies, is this a compulsion common to the gender?

2007-08-29 15:19:39 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In my first question about this boy I liked, a lot of people said to approach him. I am too shy to do that. Why is it so hard to get a guy? (cry =(

2007-08-29 15:19:12 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

just sad tonight me and my boyfriend are fighting he said he wanted to hit me.he never has and i know he would not it just hurt me i guess......

2007-08-29 15:19:05 · 11 answers · asked by dragonfly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Any suggestions? Where go to? What to do?

2007-08-29 15:18:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am very supportive of my bff she is not at all with me?

2007-08-29 15:16:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-29 15:15:25 · 27 answers · asked by QuantumB 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband bought me a mood ring! When I'm happy, it turns GREEN... when I'm p***** off, it leaves a big red mark on his forehead! i deserve a diamond! how can i persuade him>????

2007-08-29 15:14:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was online and my dad did not sign out of his email account..I know it was wrong but I looked at his email and found emails he has written to a woman!! He wrote things like he and my mom have not had sex in ten years and he will not divorce her because there is to much money involved and my brother has a learning disability (he is 32 yrs old) it would break his heart....he wrote things in his emails about his love for this woman how much he loves her ect.. I felt sick to my stomach after reading them and wish i haven't..I know my parents have had problems they sleep in separate bedrooms..my mom is always nagging him about money..I always though they slept in separate bedrooms because of his sleep apnea machine (my mom complains about the noise) but according to his email its that way because they just don't sleep togther anymore--I don't know how I am gonna look at my father after reading all this..

2007-08-29 15:11:16 · 32 answers · asked by beaq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

No Fault divorces are easy as pie to get and the blame falls on neither person. Are irreconcilable differences, which are neither ones fault another piece of the puzzle. Is it the easy way we can attain divorces or is it the decline put on the seriousness of marriage and staying married? Where did soul mates and true love go?

2007-08-29 15:08:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know of a nice place to have a wedding at on the Gulf Coast in Tx? We want to be close to the beach but not necessarily have the ceremony on the beach. A nice hotel or someplace the can hold up to 65 people.

2007-08-29 15:07:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm married and I love my husband. One of his (and many men) dreams or fantasy is to have a threesome with two women.

I am not bi, lesbian or anything to that sort.

We have talked about it and he said that if I let another woman into our bed, he would let me have a threesome with another man. He said i could choose the girl, he wouldn't do anything to her but touch her boobs (I know that isn't a threesome), He would rather watch me and the girl get it on. I'm not too sure about this. I am not comfortable with this situation. He said he wouldn't do anything with her, but I know in the heat of it he might. Do I trust him and say okay lets do it or stick with the constant no answer that i have given him. It makes me nervous.

2007-08-29 15:06:46 · 14 answers · asked by Meg 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short: I quit a higher paying job to go into daycare to save money and be with our disabled son who was having a hard time in daycares. I am enjoying spending time with him and am going back to school next year for business when he starts school. Hubby is in sales and makes good money now. He has treated me like sh** since he started the job. He calls me names like stupid and bit** all the time. He is never home and insults me when he is. It is like he is arrogant all of a sudden and I hate it. We discussed this plan and he thought it was a great idea for a year. Now I feel so helpless depending on him when he calls me names. Now he wants to sell my car I worked so hard for out from under me and stick me with a 25 yr old clunker!!!!!!!!!!!! I transport our child around in the car!? What do I do here? I almost wanna get a job like I had back and say f you!

2007-08-29 15:04:47 · 21 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i do this? it's not a french kiss or a peck, i want like an in between one. Where there's no tonuge's and no little tiny peckage! How do i do it? And i need details! very good details!

2007-08-29 15:04:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my parents have been divorced since I was 2. And I lived with my mom till I was 4. But when I was 4 she just got up and took off. I have lived with my dad since and I am now 13. I visited my mom over the summer and we got into talking about me maybe living with her one day. And from the two weeks I spent with her I know I want to. I want to move at the end of this school year so I will be starting high school where my mom lives. I want my dads aproval alot but when im 14 I will legally be allowed to choose who I WANT to live with. So I thought maybe if I told him now it would make it easier. Give him time to think about it. What I need help with is a way to aproach him with this. I dont want it to come off as " I dont love you and want to live with my mom" I just have lived with him for 9 years and I think my mom deserves the last 4 before im 18. SO please help. I dont want to hurt him.

2007-08-29 15:03:05 · 4 answers · asked by mcrgirl94 2 in Family

i just recently moved 2 pa and i haave 2 get my license here soon. can someone tell me what to expect for the test. what do u have to do. how to pass. i kno @ home, it was only parallel parking and driving. r there 3 point turns or u turns? some one was telling me u had to back into a space. Help please

2007-08-29 15:02:07 · 2 answers · asked by LOV 4 EVE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does this mean

2007-08-29 14:59:43 · 1 answers · asked by questionable 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and i have been married for 3 years. We have 2 children. I love all three of them with all my heart. The problem is that I was in the military when we got married and when I got out I became a truck driver. Because I know that she hated me being gone so much I got out of that career and found a job closer to home where I can be home every night. I think i found it too late though. She has said that she has turned off her emotions for me and prepared herself for leaving. She has also said that she does not want to be here. I asked for her to give it a few weeks to see if things will work out and she agreed. What can I do to make her love me again? Thanks for the help!

2007-08-29 14:57:52 · 20 answers · asked by racing_82 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this is the last question i asked. please anser it for me? i really really would like other peoples perspective on the situation...

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap83qKQfs42o7EtHEDAf13nsy6IX?qid=20070829181513AACL65z

thank you so much, i will read all answers to it and i promise to vote for best answer!

2007-08-29 14:56:12 · 0 answers · asked by Ashley M 7 in Singles & Dating

We moved in together about a year ago. When we first moved in she had a few photos of her and one of her ex's displayed. I told her that it bothered me and she disagreed. Eventually she did take them down...

She now has them stored in albums in her closet and it still bothers me.

What is the right thing to do here? Am I being ridiculous? Should she get rid of them?

2007-08-29 14:54:27 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

now with him not working he can not pay until he finds a job and right now its really hard for him to find work as an electrition, What can happen to him if he does not pay? He plans on paying as soon as he finds work, but we have been getting court letters for child support because it's been a little over 2 months now any advice would be very helpfull.

2007-08-29 14:52:22 · 12 answers · asked by tinkerbell7629 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 14:52:10 · 24 answers · asked by Kare Bare! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we were really close until she accused me of stealing her brothers' phone. now, she only says "hi" and acts all nice when i'm w. my friends and when she's w. hers she doesn't even look at me or say "hi". today she did this and i'm pretty sure she saw me. idk what is up w. her and idk what to do. these little stuff get to me...

2007-08-29 14:49:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A while ago my daughter came home from her weekend at her dad's house and literally explained to me how her dad makes "blunts" with "weed". My daughter is 5yrs. old. No 5 year old should know what weed or blunts are. She also stated that he smokes it in front of her with his friends. We are going to court on this coming friday. She also watches rated R movies over there which she named off for me (Kill Bill, Black Christmas & House of Wax). I have seen none of these movies, but am 99% sure that it is nothing a 5 year old should be seeing.

2007-08-29 14:47:37 · 4 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Family

I like this guy who I think is really cute! But my mom thinks he's really ugly. I showed a picture of him to one of my friends and she gave me a really weird look. I could tell she thought he was ugly too. All my friends are pretty with really cute boyfriends and I'm afraid to show the rest of my friends this guy I like because apparently he's so ugly! I don't want to keep my crush on him a secret to my friends so how can I make them understand my attraction to him? I'm afraid they'll disown me as a friend if they all knew what he looks like, lol.

2007-08-29 14:34:23 · 28 answers · asked by oh geez 6 in Singles & Dating

every day more and more people are hanging out together ,so every day i look more and more left out,i over heard a kid saying he felt bad for me,5 kids came to me while i had my face down ona school desk,i hesitated so i said i was sleepy,more and more singled out.last year i failed a grade so i was sick of my self,i also was forced to change schools and i got fatter,my self confidence was and still is gone,the whole year i ignored everyone,if someone said hi,i hi'd them back,but i had a bad attitude(thats weird for me,people used to call me happy go lucky)keep on acting like that,so no friends.what can i do to get my confidence back?and i can't quit sweating about little things!if anyone can please help,my family is starting to think that i have a "complex"you know where you cut your self and stuff,i don't tho.ina little while i'll still be acting like a new kid,everyone looks at my strangly already!im in high school,help?!

2007-08-29 14:34:21 · 7 answers · asked by Vergil 3 in Other - Family & Relationships