Love stinks... Do you agree?

Question

In my first question about this boy I liked, a lot of people said to approach him. I am too shy to do that. Why is it so hard to get a guy? (cry =(

BTW, I'm 12

Answer 1

yes that does stink. but you can make it not by trying. if he likes you and you just tell him he is probably going to tell you that he likes you to. just go ahead and tell him if he shows these things:

IF A GUY LIKES YOU:
1. He will sit by you whenever he can.
2. He always takes things from you and hides them.
3. He makes eye contact as much as possible.
4. He messes with your hair.
5. He laughs at you just to see you smile and tell him to shut up.
6. He asks about your day.
7. When the 2 of you have play fights, he always argues, no matter what.
8. He sneaks up on you.
9. His friends ask you if you're going out with him yet.
10. He smiles every time you look at him.
11. He's always teasing you.
12. Whenever you hang out with him and it's time to leave, he argues and wants you to stay longer.
13. This one is rare but every once in a while, if he doesn't quite know how to express his feelings for you, or he doesn't want anyone to know how he feels about you, he will be mean to you, in a joking way.
14. He's always laughing at you, even if what you did wasn't that funny.
15. He walks next to you whenever he gets the opportunity.
16. He shows off with his friends when you are around him and his friends are there.

GUY FACTS:
1. When a guy calls you, he wants to be with you.
2. When a guy is quiet, he's listening to you.
3. When a guy is not arguing, he realizes he is wrong.
4. When a guy says, "I'm fine" after a few minutes, he means it.
5. When a guy stares at you, it can mean 2 things - he is wondering why you are so wonderful, or he wishes you would care about him as much as he cares about you and wonders if you do.
6. When you are laying your head on a guys chest, he has the world.
7. When a guy calls, texts, or comments you everyday, he is in love.
8. When a *good* guys says "I love you", he means it.
9. When a guy says he can't live without you, he's with you until you are done.
10. When a guy says "I miss you", he misses you more than you could have missed him or anyone/anything else.
11. When a guy walks next to you all the time, he's willing to give up anything for you.
12. When a guy is with his friends and glances at you every once in a while, he'd rather be with you.

Answer 2

hm... this always troubled me why is it really so difficult i guess some people just have it others dont. I am always really shy myself but you can change that like im doing. Try making more friends in class whenever someone tells a joke always laugh at it they will think your an open person and arn't all serious and boring you know? Join clubs and sports more? And always smile and look confidence thats what makes someone look more approachable. I'm sure it will work out eventually especially if he likes you although i havn't checked out your other post but i think you should go for it. Don't think about it. Just do it. First start with saying hey and then ask him what hes doing this weekend then see if he wants to go and see the latest movie and see what he says . Ohh, and I know its difficult and all... really difficult. But try and act like its one of your friends or someone you know really well.
Good Luck

Answer 3

Love is possibly one of the best things you could ever experience. You will never feel better than when you fall in love with someone who feels the same way about you. In fact, love is so wonderful that when we lose a love, nothing hurts more.

Of course to fall in love takes a lot of risk due to the amount of hurt that can come from it, but if you have just one love in your life it is worth the risk to take.

If you are too shy to approach the boy, you might just want to wait until you are a little older and have more confidence, or you could take that risk and see what kind of rewards you might receive.

-Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

Sometimes love stinks because you are not ready to commit yet to a big relationship. After all, you're still young.

It's hard to get guys, but wait til you're older... It will be easier then! Just take baby steps to overcome shyness -- it's a problem that will disappear within some practice.

Answer 5

The only real love is in peace. If you can find that with another person you are on the right track.
All else is short lived and evanescent and frightening.

An aunt once told me that shyness was selfish. It is not letting others, who would like to know you, come close to you.

Just be yourself and be nice to others, and you will find it a lot easyer.
Ah! Also..., don´t expect too much of yourself, or others.

Answer 6

Love does not stink. everyone has there problems but for the most part the outcome is very rewarding. Its not hard to get a guy. you need to come out of your shell a bit. Dont hold back

Answer 7

Yeah it does. Everything has its ups and downs like love has its rejection and romantic moments.

Its not hard to get a guy. It is hard to find the right person that is good to and for you.

In regards to your 1st question, I would recommend you introduce yourself to him. Be friends and see how he is like personality, behavior in various situations, and so on. Time will reveal who he truly is. In the end, he may turn out to be some guy you never wanted to know.

I hope this helped. Good luck.

Answer 8

love totally stinks!!!! i kno i shouldnt be sayin this since i am only 14 but i think sometime or another a boy will notice you you just gotta wait!!!!!!!!!!!! i hope everything goes well for you!!! and i am totally shy to so i ussaly hav mi friends ask the guy out for me! yea i kno its lame but o well!
Good luck sweetie!

Answer 9

Don't take advice from people who've never taken it themselves.

My advice that I've actually USED is to get him alone and chat a little, if your feeling a good thing going, make friends w/ him and get to know him more.

Think about it, you'd test drive a car before you bought it right? So get to know him and see if he's your type ;)

best wishes :)

Answer 10

Yes love stinks sometimes. Have a little confidence in yourself.