every day more and more people are hanging out together ,so every day i look more and more left out,i over heard a kid saying he felt bad for me,5 kids came to me while i had my face down ona school desk,i hesitated so i said i was sleepy,more and more singled out.last year i failed a grade so i was sick of my self,i also was forced to change schools and i got fatter,my self confidence was and still is gone,the whole year i ignored everyone,if someone said hi,i hi'd them back,but i had a bad attitude(thats weird for me,people used to call me happy go lucky)keep on acting like that,so no friends.what can i do to get my confidence back?and i can't quit sweating about little things!if anyone can please help,my family is starting to think that i have a "complex"you know where you cut your self and stuff,i don't tho.ina little while i'll still be acting like a new kid,everyone looks at my strangly already!im in high school,help?!
2007-08-29 14:34:21 · 7 answers · asked by Vergil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm already taking care of the weight,and the grade are'nt an issue here,i was only describing the situation is all,the shyness and getting friends before its been to long and im an out sider,i've been one alot before,and i can't stand the thought of it again pls help me,anti shyness ideas?self help exersises?PLS?
2007-08-29 14:49:26 · update #1
i have a conflicting scedual at home,i can't take an after school club,so i'm screwed?yeah another year of being pitied and pretending to sleep in lunch to not draw attenition to my lonely self
2007-08-29 14:56:54 · update #2
o 9th,really anyone got any ideas?
2007-08-30 06:05:38 · update #3
Join a school club. It'll be a small group and easier to talk to people. As for you weight. Start running or going for walks. Have someone go with you, a brother or sister. As for your grades, there is no excuse. You have to go to school, so do the work. Get help after school if you need it. Only you can change your situation. Sitting there feeling sorry for yourself will only make things worse.
2007-08-29 14:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are dealing with some depression there, sweetie. You also may be dealing with mono. I had that at your age. Stress can bring it on. They call it the "kissing disease" but that's not how you get it.
You need to talk to your parents and have them take you to a doctor for a check up. You also need to start making an effort to meet and make friends and not just sit around and wait for people to come to you. You can join a club at school, volunteer for projects, all sorts of things. You can take control of this situation and turn it around.
2007-09-06 04:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to really tell you. When I was in high school I was a loner and I was fine with it. I had a boyfriend but he did not go to my school. I joined all types of clubs like the debate team, I played drums, I was on women's organization against rape, I wrote for the school paper. These were things I liked and even though it made me part of certain groups I still stayed to myself and I only had one close friend in school because I felt to mature to even involve myself in their everyday drama.
2007-09-04 05:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by My Three 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was once handiest nasty within the first position cos he appreciated you beneath all that difficult external,that is what more often than not occurs. If you favor him,simply be pleasant again and spot in which it takes you. And if you happen to 2 get rather pleasant,simply ask him what was once in his brain while he was once nasty in the direction of you,if you are that near,he's going to more often than not inform you that it was once not anything and he rather did such as you and was once simply being daft.
2016-09-05 17:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes get over yourself and pull yourself up and get out there and meet some guys and gals. you need to move around and quit playing the dpressed person. you need to see the kids and move and talk tot hem and not lay down and sleep. its live and you need to take qa chance and be happy there are so many out there that need friends you be one to them take care.
2007-09-04 15:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a job, go get one that requires you to talk with people often...... Sorry about your problem, hope you get better!
2007-08-29 14:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jay P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat grade are you in? just asked because im kind of having the same problem and its my last year.
2007-08-29 16:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by elmo7990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋