just sad tonight me and my boyfriend are fighting he said he wanted to hit me.he never has and i know he would not it just hurt me i guess......
2007-08-29 15:19:05 · 11 answers · asked by dragonfly 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Usually when a guy says that they are just trying to put into word how mad they really are. I'm sure if he really wanted to hit you he would've, but think about it like this... He didn't hit you because he loves you. I hope everything works out with the two of you. Good Luck :o)
2007-08-29 15:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by ~{Graciela}~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he say he was going to hit you - and you think he never would?
He is warning you now. And when he DOES hit you, he will wonder why you are so confused and surprised. He's giving you fair warning.
Tell him - now - that if he ever threatens to hit you again, you will respond as if he DID hit you. You will 1.) call the police and have him charged with communicating a threat and 2.) Pack your stuff and go.
Sorry these aren't kind words - but they may be words that save you down the road.
2007-08-29 15:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by kelannde 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please be careful violence start with words then it escalates to acts.. Put him on warning that if he ever touches you, he will walk the floors of jail.. Make this clear to him not even words can speak that he wants to hit you.
There is never a reason for a male to hit a woman.
2007-08-29 15:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, There is no excuse for him to tell you that ,, you need to let him know that it is unacceptable ,, because believe it or not it will happen sooner or later ,,, if you decide to stay in the relationship with him,, my advise to you would be that if he ever tells you that again or much less hit you ,,, you would need to get out of that relationship,,,
I hope that everything goes well for you..
Good Luck
Leena
2007-08-29 15:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by leena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fighting with him, it takes two to fight. Just go to your corner and the fight is over. Tell him if he ever does hit you, he is going to jail. You can say what ever you want and he has no right to threaten to hit you. He is trying to control what you say. Don't let him.
2007-08-29 15:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lisen all couple go though this every now and then you and your boyfriend is no exception. llisten you are sure that he would not hit you? So try and talk about what happen the best part is making up.
good luck
2007-08-29 15:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. You're not alone. You might try doing something nice for yourself, a little candy or a walk just something small to show yourself how much you care in the painful times
2007-08-29 15:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and know how you feel. I hope he never does. Try and look at the positive thats happend today if any. If you would like to talk more you can email me at fryfamily1106@yahoo.com
2007-08-29 15:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Courtney B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex is like your boyfriend...and I say it's not a good nor a healthy relationship. You'd better think twice about him.
2007-08-29 15:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awwwww thats sad...Am sure he didnt mean that. People usually dont mean whatever they say, when they are annoyed. So dont take it seriously. Give him sometime, and he will come back to you
2007-08-29 15:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by kiddo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋