we were really close until she accused me of stealing her brothers' phone. now, she only says "hi" and acts all nice when i'm w. my friends and when she's w. hers she doesn't even look at me or say "hi". today she did this and i'm pretty sure she saw me. idk what is up w. her and idk what to do. these little stuff get to me...
2007-08-29 14:49:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend has a bad emotional tool set. Your looking inward to yourself and missing the fact that your friend is lacking some very important life skills. Firstly how to maintain a friendship when she is angry. Life will throw you curve balls all the time. How you dodge them or catch them is a key factor to being happy.
It is important to accept that people are not perfect and that you will never feel bad enough to make anyone happy. If you really like this friend try to focus on what you liked about her. If you try and talk to her when you are hurt your tone and body language could be miss interpreted. Be honest and direct about what you feel is happening. A good friend will be truthful with you. Give her the chance to be a good friend to you.
If she can't do this just realize many good friends are in your future. You may have grown beyond what the relationship can be.
The little stuff gets to everyone. The way to get past it is to remember as important as a friends opinion is no opinion is more important than your own.
I hope it works out.
2007-08-29 16:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by mavrachangawoke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she apparently thinks you took her phone and shes angry. well at least shes not stupid saying things in front of the groups. well let it lie and go on shes not worth it. if you know who took it tell her.
2007-08-29 14:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe trying to b back wit u again
2007-08-29 14:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by funky_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋