Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

my mum nags bout me asking her for money, but then goes and spends a huge amount on unnecessary health products. i freelance to get some extra cash but the cheques come in too late. im completely broke but my mum doesnt understand. im into varous exta curricular activities so that i can have a good cv for when i apply for college, but she keeps telling me to stop all im doing if i dont have the money to support my work. what should i do to make her realise that this is imp for my future studies??

2007-08-29 17:26:29 · 2 answers · asked by supergull 1 in Family

I want to do a decent yet not too expensive wedding. Is a 5000 dollar wedding attainable?

2007-08-29 17:23:13 · 17 answers · asked by Loving.You 4 in Weddings

ok as mentioned in my last question, i met this guy who started talking to me while i was waiting for my order in a restaurant, he asked for my number and never called (i changed my number, but i texted him though..idk if he received it)..then we see each other at school but complete ignored each other..then i came across on his page on myspace...u think IT WOULD BE DESPERATE FOR ME TO ADD HIM AS A FRIEND? should i add him? i started to really like him...thanks!

2007-08-29 17:22:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have some good moves myself but hey I'm just looking for advice

2007-08-29 17:19:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need life advice. I am a short and ugly loser and no girl likes me. Everyday I just sit and think about how I will be a virgin till the day I die and how no girl will ever want me and love me.

2007-08-29 17:17:18 · 10 answers · asked by Man 1 in Singles & Dating

right im 16 and i maybe having sex for my first time soon and i want to know if there are any secrets or tips that you guys or girls could give me?

AND im N-O-T waiting till im married so dont go telling me to :P

just to let you know i WILL be using a condom and my gf is not a virgin =( so i need to know how to go on for as long as i can aswell =/

2007-08-29 17:16:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my fiance for three and a half years and everywhere we go we get people who look at us weird or make certain remarks....he's black and I'm white....is it really that wrong?....love knows no color....I don't see him for his color I see him for who he is....I even have trouble with his parents accepting me....and although they say it has nothing to do with me being white...I think that has a lot to do with it....why does it have to be such a big deal....no matter what anyone says we are still going to continue to love eachother regardless....but any advice on how to deal or why this happens?

2007-08-29 17:16:44 · 6 answers · asked by pretty_in_pink88 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i went out with this guy and we hit it off but i was young {{14}} and he was {{18}}.but he never forced me to do anything and i just had a comfortable silence with him.well he went to jail and now am going out with my boyfriend of two months.

i always wanted to go out with the guy i am with now, but there is a problem.my old boyfriend is getting out of jail and i "think" wants to be with me.i broke up with him when he was in jail, and hear that he talk about me.

i still have feeling for my old boyfriend and didnt break up because our feelings changed.

so please give me insight on what i should do.he get out in acouple of days.

2007-08-29 17:16:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she calls me her husband then she tells me that she wants to kiss me and one time she was eatin a chocolate and i said you got some there let me lick it off so once i got real close she laughed and backed up a little. then one time she says that were going to run away and i said what about your bf she says ohh well ill throw him down a cliff. what does this mean does she like me or not

2007-08-29 17:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

after giving you to trust, and sign the paper, as in hopes to help out... i know, what an idiot, right? my sister got me into troubles and now im struggling all alone, as she acting like a stranger, and sometimes a smarty advisor that really isn't effective to help with a situation at all.

as a result, ruined credit, future haunting by irs and lenders... and instead of bonding, feeling of emptiness and betrayals.

sibling who'd lie to 'see if i am useful, otherwise who cares'.

2007-08-29 17:15:49 · 5 answers · asked by h 2 in Family

I have noticed sexual tension with some girls i know. i really don't know how to explain it, but i do know it is strange. I feel like i should try to flirt and see what happens.

2007-08-29 17:12:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, ive been talking to a guy on the internet for a while and he wants to meet up sometime. Not only is he 28 (im 18), ive always thought that anyone who meets up with someone on the internet is a dumb f*ck, but im still considering agreeing anyway. We get along really well and have a lot in common, but what i want to know is whether his behavior is more consistant with ppl his age, or more like a perverts. Hes often told me he wants to date me, which im open to. The thing that bothers me is that he hints at sex a lot, and the other day when he was completly trashed, he just came right out and asked me if i would have sex with him. so im confused, i havnt dated older guys before and i dont know if the relationships hes used to are more mature and therefore more open about sex, or if the dating rules are the same as im used to and hes just a pervert in disguise. What do you think? thanks

2007-08-29 17:11:24 · 4 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2 in Singles & Dating

okay i am 5 ft 10 in and i am 13 years old and i wana know if it is a bad thing, b/c most guys dont like girls to be taller then them. but people think im really hot!!!!!!!!! but guys in my grade r so much shoter than me. GUYS IS IT A BAD THING 4 YOUR CHICKS TO BE TALL?

2007-08-29 17:08:22 · 24 answers · asked by !! 2 in Singles & Dating

That Ima ***** if ya think I am one tell me everybody seems to be acting different and strange toword me so don't wait until the last minute to fight becuase I ain't having that bullshit up in heere!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-29 16:59:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Has any one ever been in a abusive relationship?I been with this man for over four years and never been abused physically by him until 2 weeks ago.I am shocked that he did and unsure what to do.I love him, we been together a while.But don,t know what to do.

2007-08-29 16:55:44 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm pretty sensitive and always seem to imagine that people are mad at me if, for example, I don't hear from them. Sometimes this causes me to write people off.

For example, an old friend has become distant with me over the past 2 years...pretty much since she started dating this guy. They are now engaged and she invited me to the wedding. I made up an excuse because I feel too hurt to go since we hardly ever talk (maybe every 5 months or so) and I just don't feel close to her any more.

However, I also don't want to be so "picky" about what I expect from people that I end up with no friends.

Should I go to the wedding? How do you maintain a relationship when you don't hear from someone for long stretches of time?

2007-08-29 16:54:58 · 2 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Friends

I like this guy in school but he doesn't know me although im pretty sure he has seen me when i passed by his class and he probably just thinks im cute . The problem is that im afraid of getting rejected once more and my parents wont let me have a boyfriend until i finish high school and finish a career that would mean that even if we do get together we wouldn't be able to go out and im afraid that would be a big problem but he seems like an understandful person but like they say "you cant judge a book by its cover". I have decided to talk to him many times but when i see him i get afraid and i don't do anything....... what should i do?

2007-08-29 16:54:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 2 months..
Lately my jealousy has been out of control, and i'm constantly worried.
Tonight my boyfriend went out, and i know this sounds like possessive, but he didnt tell me where. I was talking to him then he asked if he could call me back, he never did. And i know he went out somewhere.
i've been sooo worried about losing him even though he says that i have nothing to worry about, cause he loves me and thinks im perfect, etc.
Anyway, i just don't know what to do anymore, it feels like its starting to drive me crazy.
Please can yous just give some advice to get over my jealousy and worrying constantly?

2007-08-29 16:51:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am very frustrated and lonely. I have no shortage of dates, but cannot seem to meet the right one. I feel that I have bad karma from my past, when I broke up with a really wonderful person (it's a long story).

I'm just so frustrated. It seems like everyone has someone special.

2007-08-29 16:47:51 · 9 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think about sex before marriage?

2007-08-29 16:46:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why the hell is that the default ruling? What is the logic behind it? Every other weekend ain't ****. We should have 50/50 custody off the bat. Women need to stop being so selfish and accept the fact that children need their dads just as much as their moms.

2007-08-29 16:46:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 2 months..
Lately my jealousy has been out of control, and i'm constantly worried.
Tonight my boyfriend went out, and i know this sounds like possessive, but he didnt tell me where. I was talking to him then he asked if he could call me back, he never did. And i know he went out somewhere.
i've been sooo worried about losing him even though he says that i have nothing to worry about, cause he loves me and thinks im perfect, etc.
Anyway, i just don't know what to do anymore, it feels like its starting to drive me crazy.
Please can yous just give some advice to get over my jealousy and worrying constantly?

2007-08-29 16:45:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How long would you date someone before getting engaged? Would you want to do it right away or would you wait a few years?

2007-08-29 16:44:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-29 16:41:39 · 3 answers · asked by anne 1 in Singles & Dating

He buys me VERY cheap jewelry. He means well, but it always breaks and totally looks fake. I love really nice jewelry, but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What do I say?

2007-08-29 16:41:39 · 22 answers · asked by alexis n 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-29 16:41:18 · 2 answers · asked by Don S 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm in need of 2 poems, for I have 2 brothers that live back in USA where I lived all my life up until 4 yrs. ago. Whilst I was here in UK, my "mean and jealous sister" planted ideas into my beloved brother's minds: She actually made them believe that they are out of sight and out of mind. Also, she has managed to cause problems with communicating with my family (not to mention that my "sister" has ALWAYS been very jealous of me) My brohters and I are the older ones, and we 3 were adopted when we were just born-Dr's told Mom and Dad that conveiving would be impossible...well, Mom had what they thought was a tumor, and that tumor turned out to be my younger sister!,So Doc's were wrong after all. My sister has been spoiled her whole life, and my Dad just died 3 years ago. What she did was "GET our house, (our family house Mom&Dad worked butts off to pay for)because she knows how to play Mom like a fiddle. Real mean. I want 0 to do w/her. BUT, I've been SO sad that she actually turned my

2007-08-29 16:38:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-29 16:35:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im on the varsity golf team for my school...and i hate it! i hate golf!! everything about it!!..i mean i am good at it...but i just dont have the passion for it anymore...the funs gone...how can i get back my passion for my clubs? are there any games or things? and dont say "get over it and go play 18"

2007-08-29 16:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend loves it when I call him little baby names. I am running out of names and I'm getting tired of calling him the same thing. List as many as you know, thanks! And his name is Mike if that helps.

2007-08-29 16:33:08 · 6 answers · asked by Jess. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships