I am very frustrated and lonely. I have no shortage of dates, but cannot seem to meet the right one. I feel that I have bad karma from my past, when I broke up with a really wonderful person (it's a long story).
I'm just so frustrated. It seems like everyone has someone special.
2007-08-29 16:47:51 · 9 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey dont give up hope, there is someone out there for everyone.
i know i got asked out by some guys, but i said no. so at 31 yrs old i finally said yes and now i have a b/f and iam happy with him.
i almost gave up hope myself but i am now very glad i didn't do that!
have paitence and faith and the right one will come along for you.
besides you heard the saying you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-29 17:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of single people out there, don't ever think you're alone. A lot of people can't even get dates.
But maybe consider where you've been looking. If you want a long-term relationship, definitely don't go looking for guys in clubs.
Also don't completely romanticize the concept of soulmates. Love is a decision--you're in love when you love someone not despite their flaws, but because of them. No perfect guy is going to come along. Identify the most important quality you look for (sense of humor, responsible, caring, etc.) and start from there. There really is no easy advice, just don't give up and keep looking.
2007-08-29 23:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by chi_townballa2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell u this only because it worked for me twice. Everyone says don't give up hope, u'll find love one day because there's someone out there for everyone. But I say, give up. Go about ur business, and just don't even think aBout love. Get used to being alone and liking it. Get some friends and a dog, and just have fun being urself with people who care about u. Then, when u least expect it, and probably don't even want it, because it's out of sight, out of mind stuff, u'll find the one u've "not" been looking for all ur life.
2007-08-30 00:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just argue with yourself. I'll bet you a milk shake, that if you were in my city, and we were at the same place, at the same time, we'd end up being a good couple. There's someone out there,some where, for you. the real question is where is that someone? and when the two of you will meet.
2007-08-29 23:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. ive been trying and i think because im scared of getting hurt and i have such high expectations that no one seems good enough. i feel like everyone else is so much happier than me cuz they all have someone special. but then i hang out with my friends and i realize there all i need. so you should hang out with your friends more. that helps me a lot. good luck.
2007-08-29 23:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by RUBY<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do activities that you feel valued, that you are good and passionate about; it can be sports, art or volunteering. I have found that dating is a revolving cycle. By doing those activites, it will help you to be patient.
http://www.flirting-dating-men.com/Christian_single_dating.html
2007-08-29 23:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by flirting_dating_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I am in the exact same situation. DON'T give up. He is out there and wants to find you just as much as you want to find him.
ps- you have to kiss alot of frogs to find the prince. don't be bitter or blame yourself... keep your heart open!
2007-08-29 23:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by kissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love finds us all - when we are least expecting it. It will happen. Give it time.
2007-08-29 23:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Autumn S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush it, let him come to you. Make your life busy.
2007-08-29 23:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋