What do you think about sex before marriage?
2007-08-29 16:46:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would you buy a car without a test drive? Sex and sexual compatibility are important. It wouldn't go over too well if you get married and discover you and your partner have no sexual chemistry.
2007-08-29 16:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My choice is to not have sex before marriage because when you finally do marry, the sex with your husband/wife will be so much more intimate. Your first time will mean more and the sex would feel so much better because you will have been waiting for so long. I recommend no sex before marriage, but if you REALLY want to, by all means, go ahead.
2007-08-29 23:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by trombonegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to the individuals involved. But if they end up not married, then one shouldn't expect their future mate to be something they're not. Plus, one should be ready and able to the best of their abitlity to be mature and handle sex appropriately, emotional wise. But I'd still advise waiting for marriage. Because then u know the person loves u, and is clean. It can be a wonderful experience. And u can be glad u saved urself for ur mate. But if choosing this route, u should only do it for urself and no one else. Same with the others but moreso with this.
2007-08-29 23:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really starting to contemplate that, except that I don't want to get married for a long time. I would at least have sex until the relationship has passed the one-year mark.
2007-08-29 23:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Austrian Theorist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says no
The world says yes
They say rules are to protect you
The world says rules should be bent
Following the Bible's advice is unpopular
Getting STD's is becomming quite popular
It's your choice, but from a non-religious, strictly practical standpoint, is it worth the possiblility of pregnancy, stds, or just a broken heart because you got used?
I wouldn't think so, but again, it's up to you.
From a religious standpoint, i'd have to say stay away from it. God knows more than we do. He's trying to help us, not control us.
2007-08-29 23:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great so far, I just hope it stays that way when we do get married next summer.
It's a personal decision that should have nothing to do with anything that anyone else says. It's nobody else's business.
I just don't see the point of waiting, but I won't quarrel with anyone else about it.
2007-08-29 23:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think it's ok to have sex if you already know in life that you won't be getting married. but if you want to get married at some point in your life, and you've had a few partners before, then wouldn't it make it less special for your husband?
2007-08-29 23:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by rika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Marriage has no other meaning than legal civil union.
2007-08-29 23:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you aren't late for the ceremony!
Don't tire yourself out before the reception. Save something for later!
2007-08-29 23:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the ages of the couple.
2007-08-30 00:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by Pinyon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋