Hey, ive been talking to a guy on the internet for a while and he wants to meet up sometime. Not only is he 28 (im 18), ive always thought that anyone who meets up with someone on the internet is a dumb f*ck, but im still considering agreeing anyway. We get along really well and have a lot in common, but what i want to know is whether his behavior is more consistant with ppl his age, or more like a perverts. Hes often told me he wants to date me, which im open to. The thing that bothers me is that he hints at sex a lot, and the other day when he was completly trashed, he just came right out and asked me if i would have sex with him. so im confused, i havnt dated older guys before and i dont know if the relationships hes used to are more mature and therefore more open about sex, or if the dating rules are the same as im used to and hes just a pervert in disguise. What do you think? thanks
2007-08-29 17:11:24 · 4 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as you get older you tend to treat sex as something that both can enjoy with no guilt (as long as you always practice safe sex) and as a deepening of the relationship between each other ---- as a 28 year old he probably just wants sex and its very normal --- if he is interested in you as a person just keep saying no and he will stop asking --- if he is just after the sex he will go away ---- best wishes
2007-08-29 17:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. Sadly the truth is you can become anyone you want on the internet....greasy 40 year old pervs can be sweet 20 sumthing year old guys...haha. I've watched my share of Dateline. The problem w internet communication is you dont know this guy in real life and you cant trust him/ he cant trust you so that isnt really grounds for a safe relationship...now maybe if you met him on a dating service or sumthing where the info is out there for everyone to see and have talked on the phone and stuff then maybe...but if he doesnt even know u (nevr met) and hes already giving innuendo..sounds like perv possible molester to me....hey, theres plenty out there...and you never know...plus the age gap seems kind of creepy he would be trying to find a girl so much younger than him and just the legal age. hum.
2007-08-29 17:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have not you believe you studied Dateline? you're inquiring for super situation assembly with a lots older guy. He would sound candy on the cyber web, yet getting you by myself ought to cost you your life. Please reassess. there are a number of adult men nearer on your age you should get to appreciate.
2016-10-17 06:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like all he is looking for is sex. A guy will tell you anything to get in your pants.
2007-08-29 17:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋