Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 2 months..
Lately my jealousy has been out of control, and i'm constantly worried.
Tonight my boyfriend went out, and i know this sounds like possessive, but he didnt tell me where. I was talking to him then he asked if he could call me back, he never did. And i know he went out somewhere.
i've been sooo worried about losing him even though he says that i have nothing to worry about, cause he loves me and thinks im perfect, etc.
Anyway, i just don't know what to do anymore, it feels like its starting to drive me crazy.
Please can yous just give some advice to get over my jealousy and worrying constantly?
2007-08-29 16:45:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are choking him with smothering and that is not love its possessiveness. its horrible and that jealousy is bad. that is not caring and you are not caring for him. that isn't sign of growin gup. you need to find a way to either trust him or find someone else. he will not like you and try and keep away with you cating like this. you are not married and therefore you have no right to find out where he is whether you are going with him or not that is how he think s i am sure.
2007-09-02 15:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know hes honest don't push him away by getting jealous or by calling him all of the time.
You will only push him away,,
Hold on loosely but don't let go,,
If you know hes not an honest guy, and your jealous for a good reason, then let him go and spend some time being single till you meet an honest guy.
It wouldn't hurt if you spent some time with your friends while hes away, it will give you something to do so you can relax a bit, and it will also give you something to talk about when you do spend time with him.
2007-08-29 23:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by nelppik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happens to me. and i hate being that person.. the like jealous.. worrier haha.
i know this is probably bad advice.. but the only thing you can do is trust him and try to relax a little bit.
2007-08-29 23:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋