I was raped when I was in 7th grade. I'm in 10th now. Anyways people know about it,well like my parents,&a few teachers. Anyways I was just so scared when I came out about it & I don't know I felt like it as somehow my fault. Anyways my cousins were over and they wanted me to go over a friends house so I did, and there was these older guys over there & yeah I was hanging out with this guy name Justin I mean I never met him before, anyways I was sitting on the couch with his &he had his arm around me, they were like drunk, and I kept pushing his arm off but he kept doing it, and then he like started kissing all on my face and i kept telling him to stop but he wouldn't, & I don't know I have this fear of guys so I froze, and didn't get up & then he placed his hands in my pants and touched me. Idk still irrated & stuff in that area maybe its mental Idk. But I need to tell but I can't tell my parents, I just can't, there is this 1 teacher, but I don't want to go through this again! Help?
2007-08-29 14:14:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well sweetie I am so sorry that this happened to you but you do have to tell someone, a doctor that you can trust and feel comfortable with. The reason I am saying talk to a doctor is that if you are still irritated down there then you need to get checked out. The doctor will be gentle and understanding and maybe tell you where you can go to talk to someone about this. I seriously doubt that it's mental. If nothing else please see a doctor and get a clean bill of health so that you can move on. Then once your stronger, realize that all guys are not like this and give yourself a chance at a loving relationship. I feel like I don't want to lose contact with you not knowing that you have atleast seen a doctor after this scum threw himself on you. I am a mother of four girls and I guess I can relate in some way. You don't know me so if you ever need to vent or talk more please go to my email juliabeebout@yahoo.com and vent away ok.
Good Luck!
and please take my advice
2007-08-29 14:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by julia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to see a school counselor. They don't deal with just school issues. He/she can help you and tell you how to act and perform the next time this happens. And it will happen again. Guys get grabby. They should stop when you say so, but many don't, especially if they've been drinking. They think they are having fun, but you are not. The counselor can give you pointers in how to handle such a situation.
2007-08-29 21:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were assaulted. You might want to go see a counselor, it's one of the best ways to start recovering from such an expereince - and get checked out at the doctor to see if there really is an irritation, or if it's a mental thing. It could be either. I completely understand your not wanting to go through it again, the decision is up to you - so you do what's best for you!
2007-08-29 21:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When that happens, you should make a police report. Or if you are in a situation, you not only have to say NO. but you should say that you will report to the police if he persists to touch you .
Until you resolve this issue it will always be a nightnare to you. So go report it to the police and many things will follow after that. All of those who has molested you will stop doing it to you and you will be safe again..
take care
2007-08-29 22:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats sexual assault!!!!!! if any guy does ANYTHING sexual or remotely sexual and you tell them to stop and you dont, then its sexual asault.
im not going to be all "go tell ur parents" cuz i know how hard that would be. so personally i would go to a counselor of some sort...or maybe the teacher. but you honestly dont HAVE to tell anyone but i would advise you to talk to the guy about it or at least one of your good friends who u trust.
im sincerely sorry about what happened to you .
2007-08-29 21:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL! TELL! TELL!
he will do it again, or to someone else!
TELL!
2007-08-29 21:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋