will i ever just know that my husband love me, or will i always feel insecure?

Answer 1

You are insecure, he is unsecure. He will love you as you love him, HOWEVER he will have times he will not feel like he loves you, And you will feel like you do not love him. He like you, may feel like you are in love another. This is the part where commitment must drag you through the daily routine, untill the feelings return. in short we all feel this way. we have hi and lows.

Answer 2

If there has not been an affair in your marriage or some specific reason not to trust him....then you probably have a little baggage there from your past.....some reason that makes you feel not loved..period. A lot of people get married thinking that this person will fulfill ALL their needs forever and ever. When they find out maybe he doesn't "show" love the way they expected...they decide maybe he doesn't care at at all....or that its all their fault. Talking is the best thing to do...if he will do that. Some guys don't know what it takes to make YOU feel loved...you might have to tell them. I know it sounds corny...but make a list of specific things that make you feel loved. If he is talking to you...get him to do the same. Then exchange lists...talk about it...and let it be for a little while. Don't keep reminding him. If he DOES do something on your list PRAISE HIM TO THE MAX!!....even if it isn't perfect. He will want that praise again. Good luck...it does work!

Answer 3

First of all if your husband did marry you that has to mean something, he wanted you than and he may still want you if you try to spice up your life.

best of luck

Answer 4

I don't know, but I hope you get some good answers cause I feel the same way.

Answer 5

Haha... I feel the same way. You just have to accept that he does. He married you for a reason. HE LOVES YOU!!! HE MARRIED YOU!!!

Answer 6

Apparently he does he married you!!