Once in a while i find my mind wondering about sex with the same sex. I still desire men, well my man. Is this something I should explore. Like sometimes they just pop into my fantasies. Does this happen to any other straight women?
2007-08-29 22:28:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if i did come home with someone else my fiance would be okay with it. He wouldn't join in but he would watch. we have discussed it already
2007-08-29 22:39:58 · update #1
This happens to me too and yes I'm straight also. One of my fantasies is of taking my partner away for a weekend and getting another woman in to "experience and explore" in front of my partner. I know this would be a turn on for him!!! You're completely normal because if I were to tell you you weren't what would that make me haha!!!
2007-08-29 22:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a normal thing for woman to think about, for most of us is just a fantasy and nothing else. If you were single I would say go for it and find out (as long as you aren't leading anybody on, make sure you let them know that you are just experimenting and it might not work out).
I know you say your boyfriend would be okay with it and I know people who have multipul partners and it works for them but still be careful because I have seen too many times where partners have said they would be okay with it and even get excited about it but after the fact it changes their entire relationship. So if you want to experiment WHILE having your partner make sure you REALLY talk about it, not just joke around or passing comment, a serious in depth conversation to make sure.
2007-08-30 05:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought of that myself. If you have a boyfriend then that would be cheating. Unless your boyfriend doesn't mind having a threesome. ;) You can ask him.
Personally I don't think you should do that. Leave it to the imagination. Remember some people will treat you differently if you sleep with another woman.
If you really want to do it, then you can ask your boyfriend if he would like to have a threesome or if he would like to watch two girls going at it.
That way he won't think that you like both sexes. He will just think that you are being a great girlfriend and would do anything just to make him happy. Do it as a birthday present or something. Good luck!
2007-08-30 05:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my wife came home with another women and wanted to have a three some that would be great. But if you want to have the women to yourself then that's a different story. Explore what will make you happy if its a women there is nothing wrong with that. Satisfy yourself before you think about what people will think about you.
2007-08-30 05:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember if he lets you live out your fantasy it is only fair that you live out his and you may not like that. So think before you pursue doing anything you will regret and he may say he only wants to watch but come the time he may say he wants to join in and if you dont allow him then what makes it right for you to enjoy it alone? Just remember relationships are all about both of you not just one.
2007-08-30 06:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by red04yr6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are just that -- fantasy. Lots of fun to imagine,
but if you are happy in your current relationship, it's not something you should pursue in real life.
2007-08-30 05:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by rsps1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very common, but if you are in a relationships with someone else, that would be cheating.
2007-08-30 05:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
for me, it doesn't. i'm too much of a woman to think of having it with a woman also.
2007-08-30 05:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋