why don't girls dig me?

Question

Girls don't like me because I have a wide nose. I mean there are more ugly guys out there with cute girls and I have no idea how! I just don't understand why is the nose or face appearance so important for a girl. I'm half Hispanic-Italian. It gets me so depress! I mean I had couple girls tell me right in my face that I have a wide nose. I wish I could do nose surgery but I don't have money and my mom don't want to spend the money. She said that there is a girl out there that will like me for who I am, but she must not be in this town!!!

I think confused dude has a point, facial appearance must be important to any girl. I mean you don't want to be embarassed infront of your family or friends.

Answer 1

aww dont lost hope! half italian and half hispanic sounds amazingly hot!! and dont sweat the nose-im iraqi and iraqi men are known for having big noses, but that doesnt stop women from totally digging iraqi guys! its your personality that matters, u know why? When we were kids, didnt we all think that our moms were the most beautiful people in the world? To many of us they still are, even if no one else agrees. Thats the secret-love is blind and unconditional. You fall in love with someone's heart, not their facial features. Everyone has problems finding the right person, so its not your nose, its just finding right girl. She'll come along eventually, just be patient!

Answer 2

believe me if a girl likes you she'll go out with you. and if she doesnt just because she doesnt like your nose, then shes probably not worth it. appearances do make things harder when you first meet people, but in the long run it shouldn't matter too much. youve probably heard this before, but its true. however, if you want to help your appearance in an affordable way, maybe you should start working out. on the beach, or any place where you would take off your shirt, the first things girls will notice is your bod, especially if theyre farther away. this advice sounds contradictory to what i stated before, but i understand that you want to do something about your appearance. also, being more confident and comfortable in your own skin is also very attractive. though you might not feel like that now, working out will probably help boost your self esteem. hope this helps!

Answer 3

The nose doesn't really matter, they were just being cruel. Personality can always make up for appearance but appearance can never make up for personality. Those girls are ugly and always will be.

I'll tell you exactly what I tell girls who post asking about guys liking them for their breast size. If someone does or does not date you because of your nose, they aren't worth your time anyways and they never will be. Believe your mom, there is someone who like you for you. Next time someone says you have a wide knows tell them they have a shallow mind.

Answer 4

so, you have a big nose. get over it and the girls will get over it.
if you let it wear you down, then they see that and won't give you the time of day.

girls want a confident guy...not some guy who has low self esteem.

i have ears that stick out like dumbo, but my husband loves me just the same b/c i am a beautiful woman and i carry myself as a beautiful woman. i don't mope around b/c i have ears that stick out.

look at the celebs in the world....
owen wilson has a messed up nose and he gets loads of girls.
tom cruise has a pretty large nose too
tom hanks has some wild curly hair
jon travolta hasn't been in shape for many years
will smith's ears stick out

they all have hot wives or girlfriends b/c they forget about their shortcomings and focus on the good stuff about themselves!

Answer 5

O.K. not to be mean to the ladies that posted but...u all say that. "Oh appearance doesn’t matter to me", well let me say it is a major part of a relationship. Yes, personality is a big 1 but looks are a factor 2. I’m not saying it is the most important one but u have to admit that it is important. You aren’t going to be with a guy are girl if u are freaked out about it. And for the guy asking the question....it is true u have to wait to find that right person, so keep trying, keep looking, and good luck man.

Answer 6

Hey it's ok...dont listen to that guy. You're not a nerd. Nobody is perfect and everyone thinks the grass is greener on the other side. You know what...When it comes down to it and the older you get the more stuff like that doesn't matter. I promise. Just be yourself but you need to raise your confidence...work on that...that is very important. One of the #1 things that turns girls on is confidence...I guarantee it! Don't try to hard and dont care about the negative things people say to you...

Answer 7

You must be hanging out with really shallow girls. I saw a saying once: Men fall in love with the women they're attracted too; women are attracted to the men they fall in love with.

Sounds like you're young yet. Take the time to meet lots of different girls. The best ones are the ones who aren't so full of themselves. Smart, funny ones are girls you should be looking for.

Answer 8

You don't need a nose job! You need an attitude adjustment!
If you are a good guy, there are lots of girls out there for you. We just want someone who is nice, comfortable in their own skin, and that love us.
If a woman comes up to you and says mean things to you, you don't want her anyhow!

Answer 9

You don't want a girl anyway that is superficial, and you can thank your nose for sorting them out for you in advance.

Meanwhile walk in confidence and don't let them get to you with their meaningless remarks. They have flaws as well not just physical but obviously personality wise.

You can find a hair style that compliments your best features if you look for it.
Look at this actor "Owen Wilson" if you have seen many of his photo shots you would notice that his nose is greatly damaged,crooked and rather large. Yet he walks in confidence with it and has money but doesn't change who he is.
http://www.imdb.com/gallery/granitz/4423/Events/4423/OwenWilson_Grani_7762351_400.jpg.html?hint=nm0005562

You'll be fine..just improve on your talents that you have and you'll grow into your features as you age.

Answer 10

Sweetie, you're so down on yourself!! Find friends, not girlfriends first!! A true friend will overlook any flaws you may see, or perceive. A true friend will love you for you, not what you look like. Besides, being half latino/ half italian, makes you really hot blooded!! The girl that loves you will be one lucky woman!!!