Ok one of my not very close friends has a husband that works at the same gym as I do, but he is a personal trainer. Well I am taking one of his gym classes through the college I go to. Alot of times when Im working at the front desk he comes up there alot and talks to me. Yesterday was the first day of my gym class and there were only 4 ppl in the class and I was the only girl. Well while he was explaining the rules of the game he would mainly only look at me when he was talking. Then later on I was working out and my b/f came up to the gym to work out with me, and when me and him walked by one of the offices in the gym, the guy(my instructor) was looking out the door right as we passed, and he literally almost did a backbend trying to follow us with his eyes when we passed by that door. I dont know why he would be like this...he has a wife and I am friends with her and they have a new baby. I also asked how she was doing and he told me that she was busy taking care of 'that' baby.
2007-08-29 03:56:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why do you think he would act like this? That is his baby too... its not "that" baby!!
2007-08-29 03:58:39 · update #1
He's resenting the baby because she is now focused on it and not on him. This is a very very immature man and will probably, if not already, cheat on her. This is a sign that her marriage is in trouble. He's looking at you because you are probably attractive and he's not getting what he thinks he should get at home. More than likely he's not helping her at all.
However, any of that is none of your business. You can't tell your friend any of this. What you can do is steer clear of this guy. Don't let him be your personal trainer and don't take any classes he teaches. This is going to blow up and you don't want to be anywhere near it.
And offer to take your friends baby for an evening so that they can go out. If you can't handle a baby, then pay for the sitter. Its not uncommon for a new mom to be overwhelmed with a baby and wind up ignoring her husband.
2007-08-29 04:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time you go to another gym. I agree that he acts very weird with you. Sounds like he wantsto cheat his wife with you. If you don't want trouble, stay away from him before your friend can make wrong ideas.
2007-08-29 11:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋