2007-08-29 03:37:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start again and start enjoying your single life.
I was divorced 3 years ago and today I can say that I have never looked back. The past 3 years, my son and I have enjoyed every minute. I have also found someone else who I adore and he adores my son and I. We are getting married in March next year. I just know I'm doing the right thing this time, and I have found my soul mate.
Enjoy life to the full as you only have one stab at it. If your not happy now, then it's time to put back that smile on your face and start living again.
2007-08-29 03:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Be honest, and then move on don't live a lie you will be unhappy. You have the rest of your life to live, it wont be easy as even though your marriage is over and you know it you will still think of the good times and all the happy memories. But if you know it's the right thing to do ending your marriage then you do it. Good Luck
2007-08-29 12:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by kevina p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first marriage ended about 8 years ago, you need to seriously asked yourself whether it is or is there another way. don't believe for 1 minute that the grass is any greener cos it's not it's just a different shade.if you have kids involved you have to think how this will effect them, cos it does from a bit to a lot.don't look back like i did and think could i have changed anything, could i have made it work.don't get involved with anyone else that just makes it harder,and you are constantly clouded by everyone elses opinion. stay focused see if there's anything left to rescue, talk to your husband you maybe surprised how he feels. i was lucky 3 years ago i meet the most amazing man, and we eloped in october. he is my life and for me the grass did in the end become greener, but it's a hard tough road to get there.
2007-08-29 10:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to terms with the fact that it is over. Begin to do things you like. Continue to live life enjoyable to the best of your ability. Talk with a close friend to grieve over the loss of your marriage.
In my case I am throwing a party I'm happy it's over because it was a horrible marriage and I'm just ready for the end to begin a new life.
I hope you begin fresh and excited and do things differently for good.
2007-08-29 10:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u r 100% sure ur marriage is over the walk away, deal with it and move on. people these days dont seem to realise MARRIAGE IS A COMMITMENT FOR LIFE! when ppl say my marriage is over, it should never be over!
im sorry coz im sure ur hurting but before getting married, ensure u know the guy properly first, ensure u r 100% he is THE ONE.
2007-08-29 11:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by *T*I*N*K*E*R*B*E*L*L* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage is truly over with and there is no hope in saving it...I think divorce is the answer. There is life after divorce....and when the time is right for you....and if you so choose to do...you can begin dating again....and one day you will meet someone that will love you for who you are.
2007-08-29 10:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you take a deep breathe, get yourself a good lawyer, and show your husband you are a strong person and can make it without him. the first thing is to do is make sure that you have a roof over your head, and a way of supporting yourself if in Britain then go to the social security offices and they will be able to help also the citizens advice will be able to advice you on all the legal side and where to go for aid. keep your chin up honey things will get better for you and I wish you all the best in getting your life back.
2007-08-29 10:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by fruitcake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce, keep it as amicable as possible, remember only solicitors do well out of divorce.
Get a life, learn from your previous marriage not just about what you want but also what you don't want.
2007-08-29 11:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by elvis_liveonstage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I split from my wife at the time 2 years ago - under reasonable circumstances - we are in the middle of a very amicable divorce and i have met someone else, sometimes you have to realise things dont always last forever and mover on
Good luck
2007-08-29 10:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by manuman1002003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My God!! Get laid! Have some f*cking fun. Why would you sit there and be miserable about it. Life to short to be miserable! Look I'm sorry that your husband cheated on you but you have to move on now. It's your time now to enjoy life and what life has to offer. Live it up! Hell get laid by three different guys in the same night. Do something! Just have fun doing it.
2007-08-29 10:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by hunting4u 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋