I dont want my friendship to get lost To maintain everlasting friendship i always remain in distance and ask his & his families well beings through email as he stays abroad. I never want to lose him as a friend and try to maintain this ideal relationship as it is. I havent ever crossed my limits and made him uneasy as he is married too and i understand the value of marriage. Friends pls tell me how would i be able to mainatain long lasting relationship that will never break? Pls dont tell me to forget him as i cant do that.
2007-08-29 04:10:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just let it flow if you are meant to stay friends you will, if you aren't you will drift apart naturally. But a true friend will always welcome you back even when you've drifted apart.
2007-08-29 04:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have some e-mail friends of the opposite sex and we communicate on the e-mail also. At first I thought this might be wrong, and then I realized something very important. I have nothing to feel guilty about!! The key, is to communicate with these friends as though your spouses are in on the conversation. If you are able to write/speak to each other as though your spouses are listening in- you will probably never have to worry about anything. Behave in the same fashion as you would expect your spouse to behave with a member of the opposite sex in your absence. It is about respect.
2007-08-29 11:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lissie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just learned my wife has continued a long distance relationship with an "old friend" who she admitted had a "thing" for her. I don't understand why she didn't discontinue this when we got together. It has hurt me to learn of this and leaves me wondering why she felt it was so necessary to correspond with a man she may never see again.
2007-08-29 11:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no business remaining friends with a "gentle" married man, esp. when you are married yourself.
You clearly don't understand the value of marriage, as you say, if you are so distressed over this. You should have this kind of friendship with your husband.
2007-08-29 11:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for trouble in your marriage and his marrige? Love me and love my dog or forget about it... too many women get blindsided when a relationship becomes more serious. If you don' all get together as married couples, you will all drift apart in problems that WILL come up.
2007-08-29 11:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by RT 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like nothing has changed unless you are starting to develop feeling for him. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting on here. Do you like him more than what you are saying or is it him that is wanting a little more.
2007-08-29 11:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are so much things that you can do with your married friend. You plan a bbq, make dinner for them or go out to dinner with them. All you need to do is just do things that can include everyone.
2007-08-29 11:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by 2 Beautiful 4 U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True friends don't lose contact with eachother. By you asking this, seems to me that you are exerting all efforts to keep contact with this friend of yours, while he could care less if he ever sees or talks to you again.
2007-08-29 11:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't do that then you want more from him. You need to be honest with yourself and see what we see.
2007-08-29 11:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no to long
2007-08-29 11:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by jay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋