i made out with my bestfriends and now people are callin me a lesbian what do i do?

Question

I made out with my friend and now everyone at school knows and is calling me names. What should i do?

Answer 1

Well this doesn't make sense to me. What do you expect if your making out with another girl? Maybe you ought to have done it privately.

Answer 2

The first question you have to answer for yourself is are you a lesbian? Or just simply what sexuality are you. Then once you settle that for yourself, and are at peace with it no name calling will hurt you. If someone comes up and calls you a lesbian or whatever then just tell them something to the effect of "don't knock it until you've tried it," or "you're just jealous because no one wants to make out with you." Just make it simple, leave it at that and walk away. No matter what your answer to the first question is, hold your head high and walk proudly. Never apologize for who you are.

Answer 3

well, I would say we have all had some sort of sexual experimentation at one time or another, I assume they are calling your friends les. as well? If you think you prefer women, don't worry about it. If you like men and women, enjoy it both ways, I'm quite sure you will always find a willing Male partner to join in.

Also, you're young, people will forget it as soon as the next conversation piece comes along, the more you make it a big deal the longer it will be a big deal, play it off, and enjoy the freedom you have just created for yourself...

Answer 4

Either one or both of you can't keep a secret apparently. so now you will have to live with the name calling. If you don't want to be called a lesbian, then I strongly advise you to stay away from your befriend and all females.

Answer 5

Who cares. You're not a lesbian are you? Just stop getting so drunk you start making out with your friends. if you don't want people to know, you should probably be more private about these things. People talk ALOT in high school... i'm guessing you are in high school. There really isn't much you can do about it. :)

Answer 6

Many of the girls that are callling you names have done the same thing, but managed to keep it under wraps. Many of the girls that haven't done it, are curious about it and are envious of you. I know for a fact that the boys think it's hot and wish they could tell you, but they're afraid to say anything.

So don't worry about it. You didn't do anything wrong.

Answer 7

You should not let it bother you. You shouldn't need to do things to gain approval of other people. You will find that no matter what you do, there will always be people that will frown upon what you did. Don't let it get to you. Be yourself and proud of the person that you are.

Answer 8

well you have just done something lots of girls do...and lots wont admit it...lots of girls are curious about things and try different things and it don't make you a lesbian..or even bisexual...i just means you are open minded enough to try new things...and get use to the name calling cause that will happen the rest of you life..when ppl. don't understand something or are closed minded about things they may be jealous and try and make ppl. look bad while trying to make themselves look good. so just ignore them and be proud of who you are and never listen to name calling or gossip....good luck and enjoy being open.

Answer 9

Search yourself and see if maybe you are lesbian, or atleast bisexual/bicurious. The thing about it is.......you may have just been curious....or you may have really liked it. If you liked it, then you need to come to terms with some things. If not.....then tell them you were just curious.....you did it, and found out that it wasn't your thing. Then just walk away, and let that be that.

Answer 10

Frist off what did you expect? You made out with a girl!
Second you need to play it off and say "you're just jealous that all the guys are going to want me and my friend"