Family & Relationships - 9 July 2007

no one seems to be bothered (unless there is a huge age difference). When a woman gets with a younger man she is called a cradel snatcher etc. Surely if two responsible adults are attracted to each other then there shouldn't be a problem. Why do we see age difference as such a bad thing. As surely people get into relatioships knowing the pro's and con's of having an age difference.
Also I wanted to know when do men and women start finding people in their own age group less attractive, and start going for older or younger people. Seriously help me with this question ????

2007-07-09 03:42:39 · 16 answers · asked by Paddy Beast 1 in Friends

I really care about my boyfriend its just when I got into arguments or disagreements with him I question if I love him or not. Is it normal to feel that way and question the way that you feel? Or am I always suppose to be sure that I love him and not question it? I think that I do because I've never done anything for anyway like I've done for him. I am faithfull and give him the best of me. Its just sometimes when I feel mistreated I question weither I love him or am in love with him. Maybe I just got use to the fact I care so much and I've been with him so long am I just use to him or what?

2007-07-09 03:41:05 · 11 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 03:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by sivakamy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

They're all going to laugh at you!

2007-07-09 03:38:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I loved this girl when I was at school and she did used to send me signs cross the class like looking at me and she ask me out but everone told me she didn't love me and this guy went out with her and yeah I got very very Jealous and they made me watch them kissing each other and she come round my house try to sort it out with me but I was so so Jealous I was just playing up by acting like a kid and I was getting my own back on to them anyway they went to court with me which I won and that was the last time I saw her when she cry, when she cry deep down it hurted me to. 7 years last this past march we both walked each other way and her new posh boyfriend went inside of a shop and me and her was just looking at each other in the eyes and it hurted when he got hold off her hand and walked past me but has she walked past each other we couldn't keep our eyes of each other and we didn't give each other no black looks. how can I show her I have changed and that I have grown -up

2007-07-09 03:37:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am bivash k.c.

2007-07-09 03:37:00 · 8 answers · asked by Bvskc 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 03:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by sylmeyrous 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I`m 33 every one is telling me I`m too young to be going through the change,but I think they`re wrong! what is the normal age the change begins?

2007-07-09 03:36:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-09 03:33:59 · 23 answers · asked by ST 1 in Weddings

I have asked him plenty of times if he is or if he is hiding anything. He says no every time. He has had Sexual relations with a few girls while him and I were going out and he still talks to them. But i know that the only way he talks to them only is through myspace mail.
I was wondering if any of you knew how and would tell me how to get into his account so i could just look to see if he was talking to them. I wouldnt read any of the messages i would just like to see if he is.
CAN YOU HELP ME!?!?

2007-07-09 03:32:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help.

i havent seen my dad for over 7 months.

i need a website that you can search for people without paying for a stupid membership.

i REALLY need to find him. i love him so much.

pleasepleaseplease help.

2007-07-09 03:32:12 · 2 answers · asked by corinneftw 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-09 03:30:49 · 14 answers · asked by mfamus25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-09 03:30:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 03:29:02 · 11 answers · asked by beautyalarm 2 in Weddings

2007-07-09 03:28:40 · 12 answers · asked by dawn t 1 in Singles & Dating

my mother in law takes the child behind our backs all the time and treats her like a 3 year old she is infact 9 and is a grandmother to another 4 other children., she lies to us and very selfish my husband because its his mother says nothing

2007-07-09 03:27:13 · 17 answers · asked by sandra f 1 in Family

I know some people feel differently about this subject, but I wanted some opinions. Do you think it's inappropriate for someone to contact their ex after many years when you know they're happily married?

2007-07-09 03:27:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know that the answer is no, but what can you do when you have tried almost everything? I'm a very sexual person and I could go 7 days having sex.

We've been married for 14 years and our sex life has been less satisfactory most of the time. I like to try new positions and do some different stuff, but I think I'm not going anywhere. I tried to seduce my wife most the of the time with little success until she turns me off. We have had moments when she starts it, but I don't reject her, even though that I feel frustrated for events on a previous night. I have told my wife to seek professional help, but she refuses to go.

I've had the chance to go out with other gals, but I always hit the breaks. I've been wondering if just finding another person to release my sexual frustatations will help me. I'm confused and tired. I tried it again last night and this morning, I failed.

Please help me with any thoughts

2007-07-09 03:24:40 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i finish work at 4pm but my boss is away and i am here on my own should i just go home early??

2007-07-09 03:24:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Incase you didn't read my previous thread, to put a long story short, my first boyfriend ever of 8 months who I fell so in love with has been cheating me since the first day with his ex, while the both of us were clueless. We both found out the truth a few days ago, when she showed up at his house the same day I happened to be there. She literally went insane on him, but he looked right into my eyes said; "I love you so much and i'd never lie to you, we're getting married remember?" I believed him like the idiot I am. But yesterday I got together with her, i've both seen and heard all the proof I needed. Whenever I caught him in a lie in the months we've been together, he'd remind me of one of his ex's (who killed herself) and would use it as a method for me to stay with him by guilt trips. These past days, I also found out he made up that ex for his personal advantage. He's disgusting. He has private pictures of both me and the girl I got together with (whom he cheated with and on)

2007-07-09 03:23:27 · 23 answers · asked by princess3arabi 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with somebody for 6 years up until a year ago. I've been single since. I've a nice face and bubbly personality but i weigh 11 and half stone (160pds). Is this why i'm still single? Honestly, am i too overweight to attract male attention?

2007-07-09 03:19:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i tried cheating, but he forgave me.

2007-07-09 03:18:41 · 27 answers · asked by Julie S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So the guy I was dating... said he would call me back in 10 minutes --- that was last Tuesday --- and he never did. Then Saturday I get a text saying "Hey what's up - I just tried to call you..." and I didn't reply ( I had no missed calls) and then I get a MySpace message from him yesterday... I still haven't replied. What's wrong with this guy?

I refuse to play these games. It was rude of him not to call back. He knew we had plans that night and I am better than that. Now I feel like he's trying to worm his way back in...

2007-07-09 03:15:40 · 20 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

If your husband recevied an email from a woman he dated 10 years ago (and she knew he was married) would you email her what's she wanting? If you would, what would you say?

2007-07-09 03:10:21 · 22 answers · asked by thelilred_whocould 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In the age of tech. was it is looked down on? And people don't see it as being posable.

2007-07-09 03:08:42 · 6 answers · asked by nicole l 2 in Singles & Dating

Dont get me wrong im not defending cheaters at all cause i think its totally wrong but everybody says to someone who has cheated why get married if your gonna cheat well im sure these people dont plan on cheating when they first get married.

2007-07-09 03:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by vicky d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I share a MySpace account. He recently received an email from an 'old flame' from over 10 years ago. At first he lied to me about who she was (claiming he didn't want me to think there was anything to worry about) But after the truth came out, he told me he has no interest in communicating with her, they only went out a few weeks and he had no idea why she'd email him after 10 years of not talking. As his wife, do I have the right to respectfully email her and ask her why she felt the need to email my husband? How do you even ask that respectfully? I have no intention of insulting her or making accusations but being a woman myself, I can't imagine sending an email to a boyfriend I had 10 years ago, especially if I knew he was married. Would you email her? If so, what would you say?

2007-07-09 03:04:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i so want a boyfriend ,
help me out people

2007-07-09 03:04:50 · 1 answers · asked by Blondii 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-09 03:01:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

talks about all

2007-07-09 03:01:01 · 5 answers · asked by joelys 1 in Other - Family & Relationships