I loved this girl when I was at school and she did used to send me signs cross the class like looking at me and she ask me out but everone told me she didn't love me and this guy went out with her and yeah I got very very Jealous and they made me watch them kissing each other and she come round my house try to sort it out with me but I was so so Jealous I was just playing up by acting like a kid and I was getting my own back on to them anyway they went to court with me which I won and that was the last time I saw her when she cry, when she cry deep down it hurted me to. 7 years last this past march we both walked each other way and her new posh boyfriend went inside of a shop and me and her was just looking at each other in the eyes and it hurted when he got hold off her hand and walked past me but has she walked past each other we couldn't keep our eyes of each other and we didn't give each other no black looks. how can I show her I have changed and that I have grown -up
2007-07-09 03:37:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just don't want to hurt no-body but just I still love her and my heart as always been with her and it was there before this posh guy come , I can I win her heart what should I say I want to heel her not to hurt her I think I need a fe-male advise on this. I have grown up but how should I show her I care about her we met ever since we was 11 i'm so un-happy I can't stop thinking about her she means alot more then my own life to me. when she cryed in court it also hurted me too what should I say to her next time I see her I still got feelings for her, i'm losing sleep over this and just having tears fulling down my face for her
2007-07-09 03:38:04 · update #1
Well nothing can change what happened in the past, so what's done is done. Now since she has a new boyfriend it's going to complicate matters even more. Honestly I suggest you confront this girl and tell her how you feel. That you're sorry for the pain you've caused her and understand she's taken, but you just can't stop thinking about her.... Be sincere and tell her the truth. Then what happens afterwards is just out of your hands.
2007-07-09 03:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Seresuto Kawaii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK the first thing you need to do is calm down. Honestly, you're question didn't make a whole lot of sense but if you want to show a girl that you have grown-up get a job. Show her that you're independent. The thing you don't want to do is beg her to come back or cry about it because she'll think you're still a child. Be mature about it.
If this fails there's always another option. Get a different girlfriend to make her jealous. Treat the new girlfriend like you would treat her. She'll probably be envious of the new girlfriend and she'll want you back.
2007-07-09 10:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way you could show her how you've grown up is with proper grammar and making sense when you write/talk. I would say that you should just move on. Forget her. Have confidence in yourself that you can be happy without her. I recently lost a girl that I thought was the love of my life. It took me a while to get over her, but now that I see I can be happy with someone else, I have forgotten about her.
2007-07-09 10:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do as long as she is with someone else. It is not fair to her to put her in that position. I'm sorry but you need to wait, and if she breaks up with him, you can be there as a friend and see if it develops into more again. If she doesn't, then you need to pick up the pieces and move on with your life. You may need to chalk up this heartache to a lesson learned. If she still has feelings for you she may decide to break it off with the other man to give you a chance, but you cannot pressure her into this. You do not want her to blame you for it later on. Good luck to you!
2007-07-09 10:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do some things you have never done before to prove it...It takes alot to show a girl you have changed because people say things and go back to doing them.If you have to make a fool out of yourself to show you care.
2007-07-09 10:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is show the girl you have grown up by not doing the things she said made you look like a little kid and doing thing that show you are grown up by taking he outsome where and being very respectful.
2007-07-09 10:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by tweek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice to you is to send her flowers, write her a poem. Invite her for a dinner and a movie as friends. Actions speak louder than words
2007-07-09 10:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act mature. Over time, she will notice.
2007-07-09 10:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋