I have asked him plenty of times if he is or if he is hiding anything. He says no every time. He has had Sexual relations with a few girls while him and I were going out and he still talks to them. But i know that the only way he talks to them only is through myspace mail.
I was wondering if any of you knew how and would tell me how to get into his account so i could just look to see if he was talking to them. I wouldnt read any of the messages i would just like to see if he is.
CAN YOU HELP ME!?!?
2007-07-09 03:32:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think he is cheating on you, he probably is. If you are OK with him having other interests, forget about it. If it feels like disloyalty or that he is out of integrity, get rid of him. He is going to do the same forever. It is already part of his learned behaviors. Once that pattern is established there is really nothing you can do about except change yourself and that may mean getting connected with a new social circle; new friends. It clearly means trying on new behaviors and attitudes just to see how it feels. You are the decider in your life.
2007-07-09 03:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by bondioli22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there's no way of getting into the account unless you know the password.
Second of all, for it to even get to this point is a bad sign. You obviously don't trust him. And I wouldn't either considering you just said that he's had sexual realtions with them. The fact that they still talk (even if it's only myspace) is a danger sign...he can very well still be talkin to them, meeting up with them, etc. Trust me, guys will be able to hide things from you without u know. They will lie and get their way. Sit him down and tell him to be str8 up with you. If he continues to deny it and you just can't trust him, tell him it's not working out and you refuse to be played as a dummy and say you need a break. DO NOT go through the "is he doing this "is he doing that" "who's he talking to" "where is he at" and the snooping. If there is no trust, there is no relationship. Sure you may love him, but love aint enough to keep a relationship healthy...Just rediscover yourself, are you worth all that drama? it's really unnecessary and if you hurt from it then take yourself out of the situation...don't ever hate yourself (or put your self in a situation like this) so a man could love you...good luck
2007-07-09 03:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by melly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...ive been through this and out. this guy is obviously trying to hide somthing from you. And since youve already ask, theres no point in asking agn. But if he keeps going behind you back, sry, but now is the time to find somone better for you. One that will care for your feelings. And yeah, i understand that you still really like him and dont want to break up with him, if so try to find a way that will work out. Tell him that you know about him talking with the girls on myspace and ask him what up with that. Good Luck! I f that doesnt succede, put your love for him aside, and fine somone new.
2007-07-09 03:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by HeyMs.DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need his myspace account to know what the deal is and you know that you would read his notes, any woman or man would in your shoes. If you man has been chatting with other women & even been as bold enough to sleep with them & you know this..Why are you wracking your brain trying to see what he's telling them when he's already BEDDED them and was with you?? If that wasn't enough for you to leave then what are a few little notes going to do? You need to ask yourself what is so great about him that makes you stick around. Hacking in to his account serves as no purpose. You know it's not right for him to be with you & talk to those same women he bedded while with you! ..
2007-07-09 03:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has cheated on you in the past and still talks to those girls then you need to ditch that guy and find someone who respects and treats you right. You deserve better then that. Maybe the threat of leaving will help get the answer you are looking for but i wouldnt hold my breath
2007-07-09 03:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not good to go through people's privacy so you might want to go out and find some answers.Maybe he is friends with them and not sleeping with them.Then again men cheat alot sotalk to some of the girls or people he tells his business and ask around then you will get some answers.
2007-07-09 03:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes already had sexual relations while you were going out....loose him. He is not worth your time or love. There is already untrust in the relationship and trust is the most important thing to have to make it work. I'm sure you can find someone better out there.
2007-07-09 03:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tasim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, sorry, i dont' know how to do that. But i say if he's had sexual relations in the past, he doesn't truly care for you, and he's probably doing it again. Let him go girl, he's not worth it. Your better than that.
2007-07-09 03:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might cheat & you just lied....
You know good & dam* well you would read those messages. If you have to go to such lengths to ensure a relationship, it ain't worth it. Unless you see it for yourself, knock it off!!!
2007-07-09 03:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by texas tornado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry that i don't know about the whole my space deal but i thank you need to follow him around for a lil while an see how he talks to.
2007-07-09 03:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by swaglehead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋